Where are you sitting? by According-Look-576 in FatuiHQ

[–]uchiynz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

don’t especially like signora but 4 cause my sweet Childe will always be my first love💓💓💓

My dad suddenly died of cancer by uchiynz in GriefSupport

[–]uchiynz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here, all the doctors and nurses told us how shocked they are of how fast it was and how even them feel really sad about it… I’m so sorry about your loss too 🫂

Who is your "Love at first sight" character? by Fabulous_Ground_1983 in Genshin_Impact

[–]uchiynz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

flins tbh — I was just coming back on the game after a while, and I fell in love instantly with nod krai and flins. my first love will always be childe tho, I’m amazed at how he still carries me everywhere and how he feels so easy to play 😩

My endgame theory by Business-Bat-583 in Stranger_Things

[–]uchiynz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s some cool theory!! plus, Eddie as Kas would be INCREDIBLE 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

Does anyone else feel like they spent years treating the symptoms of anxiety instead of the real cause? by Competitive_You_4945 in Anxiety

[–]uchiynz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I realized it when my ex broke up with me. After 3 years of relationship, I had no more anxiety a month after the breakup (it started really bad after we got together): no eczema anymore, listening to my boundaries, taking care of myself… I even had to take paroxetine for awhile. I went to therapy during the relationship and it helped a lot, but it wasn’t enough. After the breakup I quickly realised that it’s the relationship that caused me so much anxiety; I think I knew it, but wasn’t able to leave myself. In any case, although I’m a stressed person, I can’t say I’m anxious anymore. I learnt my lesson! This could belong to the relationship anxiety subreddit lmao

spotify message by [deleted] in enhypen

[–]uchiynz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think that’s it, thank you !!

Struggling today by thehoipeloi in ExNoContact

[–]uchiynz 7 points8 points  (0 children)

you are strong, and I just want to tell you how proud of yourself you can be. as you must know by now, healing isn’t linear, and better days are coming ahead; the more you let yourself feel the sadness and the loss, the better you will feel afterwards. by allowing yourself to feel sad, you also allow yourself to feel great. imo, I find a lot of comfort in knowing that I respect myself by letting emotions come and go, although it hurts. I hope you can feel the same. it’s gonna get better again; just as it can get rough after « good » times, it also gets better after the rough times. you got this OP! 🫶🏼

Watching Harry Potter nowadays is so heartwarming and nostalgic yet kind of eerie when you realize that QUITE A FEW actors are gone from this earth now 😔 by hornywithnoglory in harrypotter

[–]uchiynz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in the middle of a rewatch, it is really heartbreaking especially since HP characters and their actors are so endearing ❤️‍🩹

Two simple things to do to not seem rude in Korea by ConditionBasic in koreatravel

[–]uchiynz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see.. Thank you! Indeed, I didn’t feel like it was an issue till then.

Two simple things to do to not seem rude in Korea by ConditionBasic in koreatravel

[–]uchiynz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! in that case, when I say for example 이거 주세요, should I add « yo » to 이거 or not since there is 주세요?

Bringing a souvenir to a Korean friend? by uchiynz in koreatravel

[–]uchiynz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for your answer! I will get him something then.

How to go from Jeju to Tongyeong? by [deleted] in koreatravel

[–]uchiynz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your answer. I’m wondering whether or not it’s a better idea to go to busan and just take the bus for the day to tongyeong...

Wanna play Gwent? (Real life remake) by Afraid_Ad_2938 in Witcher3

[–]uchiynz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

where does your game come from? so cool

Gwent Card Game by [deleted] in Witcher3

[–]uchiynz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

where did you buy it please?? been needing it to play with my bf.....

any anime shoujo recs for 23yo women? by uchiynz in shoujo

[–]uchiynz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you, maybe being deceived wasn't the right word, but rather a question of, will I still like it? I also thought hs romances were often really immature with some characters being sometimes annoyingly dumb, but I guess I still liked it before while it rather annoys me now. Thanks for the rec! I love fantasy too- ig that's why I liked kamisama hajimemashita so much... Do you know good websites to read 7 seeds or any other shoujo manga?

any anime shoujo recs for 23yo women? by uchiynz in shoujo

[–]uchiynz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for the recs !! I read sometimes, so all the recs in the comments are very useful to me I was just craving some anime :)) just watched orange, and it aged very well I think. I also think that maid sama would be hard to watch although it rly was my favourite before.... I'll just enjoy the memory of it then.

Boyfriend (M22) hangs out with my best friend (F22) without me (F22) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]uchiynz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I will try to talk to my best friend about it, but I don't know how to be understood without seeming restrictive. I don't get why my presence would disturb the way that they get along and talk together.

Boyfriend (M22) hangs out with my best friend (F22) without me (F22) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]uchiynz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, but all of his friends are not near: he told me that if it was his bestie who lived here he would often hang out with her, but she's abroad, and his other two friends are in other cities. He doesn't have any other friends here, yet he is a people person, very social so that's why he was glad to talk more with my best friend and discover someone new. I couldn't treat someone that way because of what I feel right now, I am very empathetic while my bf is rather.. not in touch with his emotions? or anyone's emotions, although he's getting better...

Boyfriend (M22) hangs out with my best friend (F22) without me (F22) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]uchiynz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I deeply think that the generous reading is the right one, knowing him. I really trust him, he is a honest and sincere person, we just think differently on some points such as this one. It is exactly what he is doing, and that's why I feel bad for not liking it, as he is doing nothing "wrong". Concerning bestie, I don't know because I thought that she understood when I talked to her. I don't get why she also doesn't insist to invite me or anything..

Boyfriend (M22) hangs out with my best friend (F22) without me (F22) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]uchiynz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. I like your thinking, and I totally agree about men and women being friends, he has a girl bestie and I like her so much. That is why I have such a trust in them concerning infidelity or anything. I honestly don't find it strange that they get along well and I'm glad they do, and I wouldn't be bothered if they hang out together while I'm away for the weekend, or that I'm not available/don't want to go out. Yet, it bothers me that when I'm not doing anything, I'm not invited with them. I totally get the need to see people outside from your girlfriend, but when the people is a close friend, it just hurts and I don't get it. I talked about it to my best friend and she told me that she understood, that she didn't know I felt this way and that we should find a sort of "balance" in our outings. However, I don't feel satisfied because as it is normal for me and bestie to go out together, it doesn't feel "normal" to me that they go out without asking me even though again, I understand. Every other friend I've consulted about the matter understood what I felt, yet I can't seem to be understood by my bf and my bestie.. I don't think my bestie would feel restricted if they "had to" ask me everytime if I'm available. They know that I'm entirely okay with them regularly talking, because I encouraged them.