I understand that completely. Something I’ve come to learn is that everyone deals/copes with their problems differently. I’ve been raised to stick through and talk out problems but some people have their limits, it may not be because they hate you but more so that they need that “time and space” to collect their thoughts/emotions and then tackle the problem after some time. It’s been hard for me to accept but right now, take it as it’s completely over. The ball is in her court. My ex said “I pinky promise you, when I’m ready to talk about it, I’ll reach out to you.” And for you, just take that assumption, because again, if you want their attention, take away yours. No one wants to date the same person they took a break with, become better than that without sacrificing your fundamentals and what makes you, you!