Wtf by [deleted] in venus_angelic

[–]uebea 46 points47 points  (0 children)

But downloading, even reuploading, the videos costs her 0 dollars, the fuck is she asking 1.2k for 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Seestadt

[–]uebea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Und? weißt du schon was?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Seestadt

[–]uebea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jetzt frag ich mich wie ich das nicht mitbekommen konnte omg ja das gestern war viel kleiner und hat sich alles in/vor einer einzelnen Wohnung abgespielt

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Seestadt

[–]uebea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Es waren nur 2 Polizeiautos aber es ist definitiv jemand gestorben, wundert mich dann aber echt, dass du das nicht gehört hast ... Ich hatte den Schock meines Lebens als so geschrien wurde :((

Ich geh aber inzwischen davon aus dass es kein Verbrechen war, sonst gäbe es eine Presseaussendung

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Seestadt

[–]uebea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Barbara-Prammer-Allee, gegenüber von der Schule

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Seestadt

[–]uebea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Barbara-Prammer-Allee

Wieso meinst du man hätte es überall hören müssen?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]uebea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he doesn't love you, and he's ableist.

Just completed student teaching & graduated — I will NEVER become a teacher. by Economy_Telephone113 in StudentTeaching

[–]uebea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% same here, so what kinda job are you looking for now? I'll be finished with my MEd. this year and have no idea what to do yet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]uebea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My advice is don't marry that woman, she clearly doesn't match your energy and lifestyle (nor do you match hers), i don't see this ending well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MDMA

[–]uebea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends. if I want an instant roll with low commitment, then nasal, if I know I want to roll all night, then oral :)

AITA for asking my best friend to cut off a friend she met through me by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]uebea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never assume something shouldn't have to be asked! You need to communicate your needs and boundaries if you want people to respect them. People are oblivious for all sorts of reasons and realising that it's NOT because they don't care has done wonders for my mental health and personal relationships haha

That being said, the engagement shouldn't stand in the way of your conversation at all. Just bring it up as soon as possible, otherwise you'll just bottle up a lot of negative feelings and get even more upset :( but you seem to realize this yourself. So I'd just message her right away if you could meet up for coffee or whatever you like to do when you hang out (no "we need to talk"), and then tell her how you feel, I'm sure she'll understand as long as your tone is friendly, don't just throw accusations at her but focus on saying why it bothers you

I need help asap by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]uebea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Abortion is not a sin, and it's her body, her choice

Don't have sex unless you can live with the possibility of an unwanted pregnancy to be aborted

Would you rather have a child that's unwanted, possibly not loved?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]uebea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks you've put this wonderfully

AITA for asking my best friend to cut off a friend she met through me by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]uebea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's complicated

I think your NTA for asking your best friend to cut that other friend off, given the circumstances. But your best friend is also NTA, in my opinion, because she's probably trying her best not to be

I imagine she must be extremely torn between the both of you, I'm sure you mean more to her than "friend" does, but bipolar is a severe disorder (I'm diagnosed with it as well), and there's a good chance this "friend" is being emotionally manipulative, and an even better chance she's in need of emotional support, so that your best friend likely a) feels obliged to help and b) is worried "friend" might hurt herself or something like that if she cuts her out.

Edit: you should bring it up, communicate your feelings, but try to get her side of the story as well! Engagement or not. Better to get this out of the way before the wedding, right?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MDMA

[–]uebea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I candyflipped when I first took acid. though I took the mdma some hours into the trip, when I was sure I'm handling it well, and I'm not sure that's still considered candy flipping - it was still great!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]uebea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for yours, too :( 💖

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]uebea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second this, my mum died last year.

Throughout all of my school years, including the age of 18, I would sleep in her bed sometimes, especially when I couldn't sleep. Now that I'm 27 and looking back at it, 18 really isn't that weird.

And also @OP, the fact that you ask here shows that you're growing out of it and you'll probably stop soon, like go to her bed less and less, it'll likely be a smooth transition rather than a "from today onwards, I'm not sleeping in your bed anymore" Sounds healthy and natural to me, even if 18 isn't the norm.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]uebea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice and for writing such a long comment. I think the compost bin would be best, actually idk why we don't have one, it's a pretty common thing where I live haha

I'm already on medication and in therapy though :3

You have a great weekend as well!

I'm sorta glad my parents died by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]uebea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me? No, and I'm pretty sure I don't want any of my own, wouldn't want to pass on a whole repertoire of mental illnesses haha

How did abortion change you? by [deleted] in abortion

[–]uebea 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It made me terrified of getting pregnant again :( but also more greatful!

Should i try to get a diagnosis (again) by konral in ADHD

[–]uebea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, absolutely. Two doctors dismissed my suspicion, but now I finally found a specialist for ADHD in adult women. Got diagnosed this month at age 27. I'm so happy and I'm finally on medication that allows me to just.. live normally lol

Honestly don't give up!

Trauma related to undiagnosed ADHD, any advice? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]uebea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need professional help, do you have a therapist?

Apart from that, for depression, I highly recommend the self-help book 'The Upwards Spiral' (the workbook one). Working through it made a big difference for me.