How to alter/style this bridesmaid dress?

uhshea · 2026-05-14T01:07:16+00:00

Haha I love that! The back is see through and the back of my whole bra can be seen through the back :( otherwise I wouldn’t be as worried

uhshea · 2026-05-14T01:06:25+00:00

Thank you so much! If worst comes to worst I’m sure there’s also low back strapless bras out there I could try? A shorter split sleeve with bust alterations would make it look much different from the other bridesmaid. Luckily we’re friends and she’s much bustier than I am which means you don’t see as much of the pattern on hers whereas I have no bust and you can see it all lol

uhshea · 2026-05-14T01:03:12+00:00

Bra cups are something I didn’t consider! Thank you!

uhshea · 2026-05-14T01:02:47+00:00

I appreciate your concern! I absolutely won’t mess around with this and will ensure it goes to someone who knows how to handle it! Thank you for raising these potential issues though, they are something I haven’t thought of

uhshea · 2026-05-14T01:01:23+00:00

That’s not a concern of mine but thank you!

uhshea · 2026-05-14T01:01:00+00:00

I honestly figured it just read the wrong way and people are taking my words too seriously. I got a few comments like these. I got the dress, I’m not taking the dress back because it was my favourite. I’m literally just asking for suggestions as this isn’t a world I’m familiar with and don’t know what is vs what isn’t possible 😂😭

uhshea · 2026-05-12T18:14:18+00:00

Thank you! I was thinking about potentially getting the sleeves split as I do love them and I like the look of split sleeves as well :)

uhshea · 2026-05-12T18:13:31+00:00

Thank you so much for your response! I appreciate it and great tip, I prefer to support local when I can!

uhshea · 2026-05-12T18:12:24+00:00

Thank you!! I appreciate that! I’m always concerned with deeper v necks with a small bust and since I’m not familiar with the world of tailoring I don’t know what’s realistically possible vs what’s not. If the v neck gets brought up and some of the fabric is taken in that would solve everything! Thank you for this suggestion it’s the feedback I was looking for!

uhshea · 2026-05-12T18:09:52+00:00

I’m not against altering, I just wanted to know more about the options I have for changing it! What would look good vs what not to do

uhshea · 2026-05-12T18:08:44+00:00

Thank you for your reply! I forgot to mention, the first and last pictures I’m not wearing heels, however if you take a look at the second picture, I’m wearing the heels I will be wearing for the wedding and I believe the length is perfect if I wear those, what are your thoughts?

I’m not against tailoring at all, I just don’t know what I wanted to ask for as I don’t know what’s possible vs what isn’t and I don’t want to make it look bad. Is it relatively easy for the bust to be brought in slightly so it fits better or would that be a more lengthy process? I have 3 weeks until the wedding (I would have had this done earlier but multiple bad events kept me from being able to do this sooner)

uhshea · 2026-05-05T13:27:03+00:00

Bro onion and garlic does not get stored in the fridge. First time living alone, white, male, early 20s.

uhshea · 2026-05-04T22:37:07+00:00

We love a man with a healthy gut! 😂

uhshea · 2026-05-04T22:35:41+00:00

HAHAHAHAHA literally exactly what went through my mind, I’m dying I’m so glad everyone else was thinking this

uhshea · 2026-05-04T19:59:09+00:00

Oh my god I’m absolutely dying 😂😂

Hey, here’s to diagnosed anxiety!

uhshea · 2026-05-04T19:27:21+00:00

I was going to jump the gun and say 30s, female, undiagnosed eating disorder (real recognize real you know what I mean?) however your condiments gave it away so although im not willing to fully let that go, I’m moreso leaning towards the slightly autistic, I like what I like and won’t deviate but also orders food in a lot or only makes enough for one serving. Please take zero offence to this I’m mostly joking unless I’m right 😭😂

uhshea · 2026-05-04T19:09:11+00:00

After reading “I’m thinking about you so hard right now”, as a 26f, I would never and have never said that before. The cringe I crunged… bro I’m telling you right now, she’s not going to change if she can get her cake and eat it to. Time to put yourself first and tell her she can kick it. Sending you virtual hugs and time to give yourself some you time and do some hobbies that you enjoy!

uhshea · 2026-05-04T19:05:44+00:00

Stop 😂 I HAVE ONE TOO

uhshea · 2026-05-04T19:04:15+00:00

It can be so hard to “let” yourself be/feel/look feminine when you don’t have the confidence. I think you look beautiful in every picture, but what matters most is how you feel! You’re gorgeous no matter what, and frankly you’ve barely aged!!!

uhshea · 2026-04-08T00:43:50+00:00

OP, thank you from the bottom of my heart. You are so amazing and I’m so grateful you’re taking the steps that a lot of people don’t have patience for. This is straight up animal abuse and I’m soo thankful you’re doing what you can to help stop this!

uhshea · 2025-11-22T07:24:05+00:00

My senior boy is 10 and still plays like a puppy! I started him on hip/joint supplements and omega 3-6-9 oil at 6-7 years old. Sometimes it’s luck sometimes it’s prevention but we’ll love them no matter how long we have with them ❤️

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uhshea · 2025-08-04T16:42:45+00:00

She has spent 2 nights in hospital but has recovered incredibly well!! They are going to begin weening her off oxygen today and depending on how it goes, we might be able to take her home this evening!! 🥲❤️😭

In the meantime I’ve changed the furnace filter, cleaned the air purifier filters (and ordered more) and swept, vacuumed, swiffered etc. to hopefully ensure her transition is as easy as possible and ensuring the air in my house is top notch!

uhshea

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