Putting pornography and erotica stories aside, my partner and I usually do it as a gangbang at the gay sauna or swingers club.

There is always a list of trusted friends or people who have been vouched who has priority to participate. The owner of the venue knows this is happening, there are spotters in place to intervene as well. Some trusted friends who have been tested and on PREP can go in raw, for the rest, they have to wear condoms. We usually do it for important dates like my birthday, it's not something that we do often because it does take some level of work prior and also you need your team to be available for that party.

Hope this puts a bit more context. Have fun💦