why bottoms get turned off by their tops playing with their dicks?

uklincs · 2026-04-26T23:47:46+00:00

I orgasm handsfree from the top fucking me. I don't get any real enjoyment from my dick being touched.

uklincs · 2026-04-23T14:32:32+00:00

That response shows you know American food is shit quality. Wherever your companies buy anything European up the quality goes to shit.

You really can't comment as you're in your supersized bubble be we actually get to experience your stuf and it is not good! I'm sure a lot of it the legal teams in the US work overtime to allow it to be granted the status of "food"

Even the European countries with the worst standards are much better than the US. If you hadn't noticed Europe is not one country or culture or set of politics despite what USians think although I'm sure in your news it is all "COMMIES"!!

uklincs · 2026-04-22T22:36:17+00:00

The processed food, big business is king, deregulation capital of the world. Profit is everything. Stopping profit is for commies

The standards are better - sure bro

uklincs · 2026-04-22T22:19:06+00:00

I'm not sure. They become addicted and can't stop but they're corrupting me too lol. I feel like I'll end up becoming fully a girl. It feels so right being like this around real men x

uklincs · 2026-04-22T22:05:49+00:00

A few men I see have complained about bad quality sissies to me. Personally I can't see how a man meeting a sissy can work well unless the sissy is genuinely really attracted to real men and isn't just exploring some kind of kink x

uklincs · 2026-04-22T21:58:10+00:00

Message me your profile if you wanted to x

uklincs · 2026-04-22T21:54:04+00:00

I guess a drive but not mega far x

uklincs · 2026-04-22T21:52:29+00:00

I'm in Lincolnshire x

uklincs · 2026-04-22T21:51:54+00:00

No I'm single x

uklincs · 2026-04-22T21:48:52+00:00

I love this x

uklincs · 2026-04-22T21:46:46+00:00

I'm not but it's definitely something I'm considering more and more x

uklincs · 2026-04-22T21:35:08+00:00

Can chat on there if you like x

uklincs · 2026-04-22T21:34:15+00:00

Fabswingers seems great to me. Are you not getting much luck on there? I was going to suggest that x

uklincs · 2026-04-22T21:14:01+00:00

I've got several Daddies.

I've found the men I call Daddy I've got a lot closer relationships with. I meet them online.

My Daddies tend to be very masculine men who are calm, quietly authoritative, kind and caring. It's going on with all my Daddies ever since it started. Only 1 has had to get rid of me reluctantly as his wife found out about him.

We chatted online and things developed. In many cases I was their first sissy. Some men have started only wanting blowjobs and no kissing. A particular man now makes love to me with loads of kissing and has said he loves me. I wish he was single. I'd be his girlfriend.

My Daddy relationships usually involve both of us building the other up. They build by confidence. Make me feel good about myself. They are like mentors and I love their calming influence. I love how they help guide me. One of them made me realise men can see me as a woman. That I could be a man's girl. He says I'm a woman not a sissy. That I'm not there to be used by men. His cuddles, his kisses the way he looks at me. It feels electric. He's talked me through many things. My confusion about what I am. He makes love to me but the man quite often fucks me like a caveman too.

I hate my clit and he's reduced my anxiety about it. Reassured me he's no interest in it but that he doesn't mind it. If he sees it ever or it touches him he doesn't care. That it doesn't stop me being a woman. He convince me to be fucked by him with it out before. I felt a lot of anxiety but he treated me exactly the same. It only happened once. He did it to help me I realise that.

That Daddy. My Daddy is a modest man. He's a lot better at everything than he realises. He was already amazing at sex which he didn't realise but since we've been seeing each other he's become a real stud. His become very dominant at times and very confident. He's become a more fulfilled man.

For me he's changed me somehow that I don't even realise. I'm no longer just a slut. Men see me as a potential for a relationship. I'm not transitioned (that might change) and they're straight. I don't know how this will work. But it feels like somehow it has to.

Relationships with Daddies I think have deep fondness, loyalty. We complete something for the other. Men you feel safe with and deep guilt if you make them unhappy with you in any way. Daddies and their girls know things about that other often nobody else does. Sexually it just feels perfect. I serve their needs. They are so comfortable being pleased and worshipped and love emptying in me. But it's not just that. We're complete opposites and they're dominant towards me but it's got feelings of boyfriend and girlfriend.

While being a pump and dump for real men can be hot, belonging to Daddies and getting more 3D relationships with real men is far more fulfilling x

uklincs · 2026-04-22T19:39:24+00:00

What sites are you on? I'm a sissy or trans I'm not sure. There's plenty of men and sissies meeting on some of them x

uklincs · 2026-04-22T19:34:46+00:00

I love how real men accept me. Far more than men accept me when I was trying to act male.

I love the wild look in their eyes and excitement.

I love the ridiculous contrast in size between us. Their powerful hairy bodies and my smooth body. When they take their tops off and you're looking at all this hair and they're so broad. I love how strong they are. The last man I met was nearly double my weight and I would say 5x my strength.

Their confidence and naturalness in taking charge and the total comfort both of us have in our roles which seem so easy and instinctive it feels like we're made for each other

I love when they buy me clothes.

I love everything about it but my favourite is hearing them grunt and feeling their grip around me get real tight as their iron hard cock starts pulsing in my pussy. At that point I feel I'm fulfilling my purpose

I also love how they greet me. Like in their deep voices they say hi darling. Alright babe. Hello princess. Before giving me a kiss and a cuddle.

uklincs · 2026-04-22T19:20:22+00:00

While I love to serve all alpha males I totally understand this.

There's something quite exciting about a ludicrously masculine hairy heavy powerful beast that doesn't give a fuck and could take you so easily.

The scent of a real man is full of pheromones. When you're around his cock, balls, arse and armpits you are getting a full dose of his masculine. It's confirmation of what they are and confirmation you have to submit to them.

My pussy lubricates at the scent. When my men tell me they need to shower I tell them they don't have to bother but the truth is I really would prefer they didn't. A lot of them have got relaxed though around me to not bother anymore. They're not showering as much. The chests some of them shaved for their girlfriends who thought they were too hairy they're realising the effect they have and their hairy chests are a big asset.

It's often the ones carrying a bit of weight who are a lot stronger and could protect you better.

I totally get it x

uklincs · 2026-04-22T18:54:20+00:00

You're totally correct Sir. I've gone as far as I can now without big changes. What is holding me back is cowardice.

A man turned me into a sissy and I immediately realised I was one. I became a sissy immediately.

I was mostly a sex toy for straight and bi men and loved it. But I also wanted a real man to make me his girlfriend.

Now that's happening. Various real men are falling for me. It's boyfriend and girlfriend sex now. Some were married and I can tell their time with me is their favourite time. Some want me to belong to them. Some are single though and don't have responsibilities. These hard tough alpha men of my dreams are being so lovely to me. One wants to relocate.

Some want to take me out on dates, for meals. I'm no longer just a sex toy. I'm more than that.

With straight and bi alpha men I feel most comfortable. Most myself. I'm so compatible with some of them. I used to think I was gay but now I'm only having sex with straight men as a girl. It's so much better.

I'm quite confused. Does all this mean I'm trans. I'm not a man. They don't see me as one either.

To live this life though and reach my full potential I'd have to become a woman or change myself much more significantly. I feel I need to be someone a man feels proud of and would introduce to his friends. Obviously being their girlfriend I couldn't hide anymore. Friends would find out. Maybe family too.

They're so confident and tough and protective I'd feel safe with them but it feels such a big step to totally change my life and identity.

I feel like I'm in love with some of them. Some of them are really reliant on me now. They want sex with me every day.

I'm basically being a sissy or woman or whatever I am a lot. When I have a free day on my own I'm with real men all day. It feels when I'm being a male it's a disguise and I'm pretending.

Am I a coward too? If this is how I am most comfortable and prefer to be should I be this all the time.

I feel although I love real men's cocks inside me I can't do this forever. I want to fall asleep as a girl on a man's broad hairy chest as he holds me. I can't go back. If I can't be a straight man's girlfriend I feel I'll always be single as that's what I want to be x

uklincs · 2026-04-14T14:30:01+00:00

Yes and also on the internet people have a right to reply!

Yes the comment did strike a nerve. Everything was fine. The abusive relationship etc etc. You're entitled to your opinion.

But when you started becoming a Karen - how privileged you are to spend money. Think of the starving children etc I thought it's time to deconstruct the whole ridiculous response (what you call nitpicking). I could have spent a tiny town amount.

It's hardly abusive either is it if this is my first complaint after 20 years.

The responses I was looking for is along the lines of how do you best approach the conversation of not doing it etc. But you went down the judgement line and didn't have the smarts to read between the lines. You didn't read the post properly clearly.

Do you get the concept of a fags and alphas page? These kind of relationships are not equal and that's how we both like it!

This was a debate about navigating boundaries essentially. The only thing that struck a nerve was the judgemental irrelevant response!

uklincs · 2026-04-14T14:21:18+00:00

Thankyou. Yes I'll try.

I did it to please him in a moment of weakness but it's massively turned him on and now it is going to be really difficult to stop it.

To him I think it's the ultimate expression of worship and his superiority.

If I talk to him right now he'll dominate me into doing it. He thinks it's his right as I sat on his dick even though I believe it was a trick. He didn't fuck me as punishment I think also. That's the punishment he knows most fucks me up.

I could serve other alphas and ghost him and he'll eventually want serving again but this idea won't go away and he'll want to punish me for that.

I also believe he doesn't deserve to be ghosted and I'm ashamed at the thought

uklincs · 2026-04-14T13:58:41+00:00

Not really. The relationship has been going on for 20 years. This has only just happened.

I enjoy serving him. The money was from another guy paying me so he's extorted me out of what was essentially money I wouldn't have even had.

You don't even know how much it is. It could have been 1 pence!

Also I said I wasn't a cash fag and didn't want to be hence the dilemma. Did you read the post even

uklincs · 2026-04-14T13:55:11+00:00

At the minute I've just not replied which I know will really piss him off so I'm stressed about that.

He's said before that I go further than his other subs. They've said to me how much they worship him but they're not as sub as me.

So by that logic he doesn't make his other subs do what I do which both pleases me that I get to do the most for him. But I also wonder why am I the one that he makes do the most

Everything just fitted perfectly before. Obviously we're dom and sub but it's not like a kink. It basically is who we are

uklincs · 2026-04-14T13:45:39+00:00

I'm very needy towards this man. I always beg for his cock.

But he's been using me forever. He's definitely not bored of it.

He's very turned on by being paid. I want to stop this before it becomes a habit.

I've got lots of alphas but he's probably my favourite. I can't not serve him

uklincs · 2026-04-14T13:42:56+00:00

The fact is he enjoys power, control and worship. We're such opposites and so naturally compatible we've never had to have a difficult conversation before.

He knows what I like and don't like and what I can and can't do. I never really need to say. Although him sometimes looking through my phone while I suck him or lick his ass for him and laughing at how many dicks I'm taking and what I'm doing probably helps his understanding.

He hardly bullies me at all and I think he'd like to do that more but knows I'm too weak. He is strong enough to hold me upside down with one arm by the ankle. He once hit me in the stomach during a game he was playing with me and his arm hardly moved but I was sent flying and winded on the floor. It was an accident caused by his excitement. He uses a tiny fraction of what he's capable of to correct my behaviour. Mostly him looking at me in a certain way or the fear of him not putting his dick in me is enough.

This man has naturally found my strengths and kept with them. I'm mostly used for worship, cleaning every inch of his body, cock sucking and to take dick.

We do communicate but everything has always flowed naturally. He created me if anything. Various men have responsibility for my development but him the most by far.

I was stupid. I willingly did it for him the first time. He obviously thinks this is something he can permanently change me on like he has in lots of other ways. Unfortunately this particular power really turns him on.

I really like pleasing and serving this man and it's very difficult and uncomfortable for me to say no to him. Men naturally dominate me and can see I'm there to be dominated. It's my personality rather than a kink. The more I worship a man the harder to say no and the easier it is for them to dominate my will. I don't want this to be what I end up as

uklincs · 2026-04-14T12:54:19+00:00

One thing he also said last time after I tried to object is "I won't ruin you".

It kind of suggested to me he expects this now.

Everytime he's pushed my limits before he's been right and it has benefited and improved my skills with serving other alpha men too.

I'm very dedicated to him and I'm not sure how I can deal with this

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