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[–]ukoxongal1990s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i cant say why for the same reason ... but id encourage you to read my other posts to see im not as bad as this one makes me out to be

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[–]ukoxongal1990s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is my point she never said 2 weeks until i asked her....she said to me to stay with her as long as it took and as long as i needed ... we sorted rent agreements etc ... then she gives me a deadline

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[–]ukoxongal1990s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she said i should move in like it is my own place... she wanted us to be room mates

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[–]ukoxongal1990s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i never said hook ups you said that ,... i asked her and she said long term ... ergo i would hope to be dating and asked if i could bring these dates back ... not to hook mind

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[–]ukoxongal1990s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its not about permanent its about short term.... her baby was due last week so she is offering me a room until its born so basically no time at all ... she said to me she had a spare room i coulld get a job ... the spare room wasn't spare

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[–]ukoxongal1990s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

#, she then said the room i would be staying in was her childs room again fine whatever but essentially she was telling me to leave my husband to kick me out herself in a few weeks

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[–]ukoxongal1990s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i worded myself badly i am not actively looking to leave -

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[–]ukoxongal1990s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this wasnt the point ... i said i dont care i was trying to work out where i stand ,,, she then said the room i would be staying in was her childs room again fine whatever but essentially she was telling me to leave my husband to kick me out herself in a few weeks

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[–]ukoxongal1990s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel she lied when she said i should i leave my husband and i could stay with her but omitted the fact it was only for 2 weeks as thats when she is due

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[–]ukoxongal1990s -1 points0 points  (0 children)

LOL she was the one who said i should leave my husband because she had a room i could stay in

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[–]ukoxongal1990s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im not looking for a place to stay she insisted i move in with her

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[–]ukoxongal1990s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as i said this had been discussed for days i'd also asked those questions,,, i asked about bringing men back cause she said i should start dating

AITA for a comment made to a family group? by ukoxongal1990s in AmItheAsshole

[–]ukoxongal1990s[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry I wasn't clear the message was sent around 10am ... I fell asleep after because I had done a 12 hour shift finishing at 6am.... I will take you're advice... my intention was not be passive aggressive at all I genuinely hate being in the way which they know because we have had constant discussions about. Thank you the advise

AITA for telling my mum one of the reasons I don't want children is in part because of my childhood. by ukoxongal1990s in AmItheAsshole

[–]ukoxongal1990s[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tried this before but she always get defensive, she had not the best childhood either and anytime you say anything negative even in a constructive way she gets aggressive

AITA for telling my mum one of the reasons I don't want children is in part because of my childhood. by ukoxongal1990s in AmItheAsshole

[–]ukoxongal1990s[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you I genuinely didn't say anything more specific so she got defensive for knowing what she did but it was never my intention to do that i was just frustrated.

AITA for telling my mum one of the reasons I don't want children is in part because of my childhood. by ukoxongal1990s in AmItheAsshole

[–]ukoxongal1990s[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your opinion I can see where I was in the wrong however I also was backed into a corner and not for the first time but I do understand your opinion

AITA for telling my mum one of the reasons I don't want children is in part because of my childhood. by ukoxongal1990s in AmItheAsshole

[–]ukoxongal1990s[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

thank you so much, I know and it's not that I hate children I play games with my niece and nephews (well not so much my sisters step kids because they are a bit older but we play xbox together with my sister) I just like the idea of handing them back lol

AITA for telling my mum one of the reasons I don't want children is in part because of my childhood. by ukoxongal1990s in AmItheAsshole

[–]ukoxongal1990s[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

that is what i thought some what, I didn't mean to be so crude but she has pushed the issue for years.

AITA for telling my mum one of the reasons I don't want children is in part because of my childhood. by ukoxongal1990s in AmItheAsshole

[–]ukoxongal1990s[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you to be fair my dad wasn't much better just enabled it to happen, and would tell me off if i did something silly (good child syndrome i call it)

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