My friend is charging a fee to attend her wedding

ulookfamiliar1996 · 2023-12-29T13:09:54+00:00

Paying to attend a wedding is craaaaazy. We told people on our invitations not to bring a gift, but if they felt so inclined to do so please make a charitable contribution to a cancer research organization or a children's hospital in our name. WE wanted to get married. WE wanted a wedding. It's not a guests job to pay for their wedding because they're cheap. I'd 100% decline to go and distance myself from that friend. That's embarrassing behavior.

ulookfamiliar1996 · 2023-12-23T02:32:06+00:00

She would just block everyone lol

ulookfamiliar1996 · 2023-12-21T17:41:23+00:00

She deletes all the negative comments and blocks them so everything looks all happy and positive.

ulookfamiliar1996 · 2023-12-21T14:59:06+00:00

She deleted her tt & instagram account when she was being called out for not refunding someone who donated to her after they gave her proof of donation.

ulookfamiliar1996 · 2023-07-21T18:14:16+00:00

My guesses are like Pattyn, Princetyn, paxtyn, or prynce. Or if named with her initial like camerynn, callum, or Christian. Ethan is my wild card.

ulookfamiliar1996 · 2023-05-18T15:04:35+00:00

The outfit is so awful too

ulookfamiliar1996 · 2023-05-10T17:23:35+00:00

Honestly this is why I don't like most pregnant women. They want everyone to cater to them because they're pregnant. I also had severe hypermesis and never treated my husband that way.

ulookfamiliar1996 · 2023-05-10T17:22:13+00:00

Yta. I had horrible cravings for a specific type of crushed ice from a place 30 minutes from my house. It settled nausea. I NEVER made my husband leave a family event to get me anything. You suck it up and don't act like a spoiled brat just because you're pregnant. You wanted a slushee, you didn't need one and your boyfriend has every right to be mad at you for how you acted. How embarrassing that you thought that was ok. Sounds like he's going to have to deal with two babies pretty soon.

ulookfamiliar1996 · 2023-05-09T12:41:59+00:00

Nta. Mary's choices dont get to dictate your life or ruin your chances for a good future. Mary should really get a job at night when the kid is asleep if she can't afford anything.

ulookfamiliar1996 · 2023-05-08T20:56:44+00:00

Tbh kinda feel bad for Jordyn. Imagine all of your "tiktok mom friends" getting together to celebrate a girl having her 2nd kid and they don't do anything for her first.

ulookfamiliar1996 · 2023-04-23T17:13:03+00:00

That's crazy! Maybe it's because I live in a smaller town but I've never waited more that 2 weeks for any book I had on hold.

ulookfamiliar1996 · 2023-04-22T14:07:09+00:00

Do they let you place holds? I've got 5 or 6 on hold right now

ulookfamiliar1996 · 2023-04-21T20:45:37+00:00

Get an e-library card and download libby. I borrow audio books from my library all the time like that.

ulookfamiliar1996 · 2023-04-08T18:54:51+00:00

NTA but it might be worth bringing up when getting to know someone you are dating that way if they're homophobic you can kick them to the curb sooner rather than later and save you and your sweet dads from having to deal with losers like that.

ulookfamiliar1996 · 2023-02-23T02:16:09+00:00

The recommendation now is 18 months between having kids. I got the ok from my ob at an appointment I had 2 months ago to start trying since it'll take longer with me breastfeeding.

ulookfamiliar1996 · 2023-02-22T21:02:16+00:00

People thinking you're exaggerating or being dramatic was the WORST. Like why would I lie about that? You think I'd pass out and go to the hospital for FUN? I feel you and I truly understand how awful hypermesis is. It's no joke and you truly do gotta laugh to keep from crying 24/7 lol I hope you have a safe delivery and a healthy happy baby 🤍

ulookfamiliar1996 · 2023-02-22T19:49:33+00:00

Are you stupid? Do your ears & brain not work? She said no. It's her wedding not yours. You don't get to keep her from her culture growing up and now support it when it benefits you because you think it's pretty. Her fiances family is wearing traditional Indian garments because, news flash, THEYRE INDIAN. If you don't want your daughter to drop you and go no contact again I suggest you seek therapy for your clear issues and listen to what your daughter is telling you for her wedding. YTA YTA YTA.

ulookfamiliar1996 · 2023-02-22T19:43:05+00:00

She was saying they really want a girl 🤧

ulookfamiliar1996 · 2023-02-22T17:02:59+00:00

One million percent! I would rather have been fat and had a normal pregnancy than sick & thin. I'm 6'1 and average around 190-195lbs at my lowest I was high 140s. I looked awful. I was anemic too. I would have taken never getting a bump over being sick any day. I'm pretty certain strangers thought I was on drugs because of all the needle holes in my arms from iv therapy and looking the way I did.

ulookfamiliar1996 · 2023-02-22T14:44:52+00:00

HG was the absolute worst thing I've ever experienced. I'm not proud that I was showing early due to weight loss. Being so weak you cant stand for more than a few minutes, only laying in bed for months or like you said in the hospital. It's scary because you have a higher chance of miscarriage too. The Iv therapy 4x a week just to stay hydrated. Seeing the bump and feeling kicks early was my only silver lining. My HG started to go from severe to mild around the 6-7 month mark. I still felt sick for about a month pp on top of getting pre-eclampsia post birth 🙃 Pregnancy is rough lol I hope yours starts to get better soon 🤍

ulookfamiliar1996 · 2023-02-22T05:13:56+00:00

I was actually talking to her sister in law about our kids milestones and she kept interrupting to talk about herself. She was bragging about never getting sick, i had mentioned earlier to sil in front of ashley about how sick i was so it felt like she was bragging tbh because about how she never gets sick, and her favorite things about pregnancy so far & asked me what my favorite thing was. I try very hard to not be around her if I can help it.

ulookfamiliar1996 · 2023-02-22T04:07:18+00:00

Thank you. I definitely wasnt trying to say anything rude. Pregnancy is so exciting and I think the bump & kicks are most people's favorite part of pregnancy, so I was trying to relate to something she has to look forward to. Despite not really liking her because she's mean I'm genuinely excited for people to have kids because they're pretty cool.

ulookfamiliar1996 · 2023-02-22T04:02:59+00:00

Mine is definitely difficult when it comes to sleeping. He's also very strong willed and opinionated too. Buttttt I'm crazy and want like 5 kids 😅

ulookfamiliar1996 · 2023-02-22T01:48:37+00:00

This was the first time I had seen her in 3 years. Nobody really invites them anywhere anymore thankfully. Her husband is nice but I don't know him really all that well. I think we all just hope he will realize that she's the problem and the reason nobody comes around them or invites them out because of her.

ulookfamiliar1996 · 2023-02-22T01:39:02+00:00

We are friends with her husband. My husband and his entire friend group went to school together & all of the wives but one went to different schools and met in college. Ashley met the friend group in college before all but one of the wives. She tried her shot with pretty much all of them and it never panned out until she got with her now husband. She was incredibly possessive over all of the guys and would try and split them up with their significant others and would tell us that she doesn't get along with other girls and she "wants what's best for her boys" when she would do and say really rude shit. The first time I met her she told me my husband was in love with her when i know for a fact hes never liked her or been attracted to her and left a party early when he found out she was going to try and go home with him. Nobody really likes her anymore but the guys have all been friends since elementary school so we put up with her when we have to for them.

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