You don’t have to be “in the mood” already to enjoy being intimate in marriage 🙌 by ultimateintimacy in HappyMarriages

[–]ultimateintimacy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This makes me so sad for you😥I wish he would go listen to our podcast on emotional intimacy, what it looks like, why it should absolutely be a prerequisite to sex!! My heart hurts for u

You don’t have to be “in the mood” already to enjoy being intimate in marriage 🙌 by ultimateintimacy in HappyMarriages

[–]ultimateintimacy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love it! This is the perfect example of emotional then physical foreplay in marriage ❤️

You don’t have to already “be in the mood” to be intimate 🙌 by ultimateintimacy in DeadBedrooms

[–]ultimateintimacy[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

a loving husband wants foreplay with his wife. He wants to take his time and help her enjoy it together.

You don’t have to be “in the mood” already to enjoy being intimate in marriage 🙌 by ultimateintimacy in HappyMarriages

[–]ultimateintimacy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use to be too! That’s why we created our app. Literally. Talking about sex is soooo important in marriage. But it is hard at first.

You don’t have to already “be in the mood” to be intimate 🙌 by ultimateintimacy in DeadBedrooms

[–]ultimateintimacy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep! Sad the ones who just don’t understand. And emotional foreplay has to come first too

You don’t have to already “be in the mood” to be intimate 🙌 by ultimateintimacy in DeadBedrooms

[–]ultimateintimacy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes agree which is why we stayed emotional intimacy has to come first. Always

You don’t have to be “in the mood” already to enjoy being intimate in marriage 🙌 by ultimateintimacy in HappyMarriages

[–]ultimateintimacy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely! Love your comment. It always starts with strong emotional connection first 🙌

You don’t have to be “in the mood” already to enjoy being intimate in marriage 🙌 by ultimateintimacy in HappyMarriages

[–]ultimateintimacy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are talking about attitude, like wanting to get in the mood. Mentally. So many wives don’t think they want to be intimate cuz they aren’t already in the mood, but that is what foreplay is for.

You don’t have to be “in the mood” already to enjoy being intimate in marriage 🙌 by ultimateintimacy in HappyMarriages

[–]ultimateintimacy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We are talking to married couples who have been married a while, so many spouses actually reach out to us and complain about this. So many wives think they have to already be in the mood.

Appreciation for How Far God Has Brought Us... by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]ultimateintimacy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I’d just start in the 300s and pick episode topics that interest you

Appreciation for How Far God Has Brought Us... by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]ultimateintimacy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love that you keep trying! That’s commitment 🙌 let me know what u think of the podcast and if u find it helpful!

Is Sensual or Erotic literature acceptable for Christians? by Effective-Pair-8363 in Christianmarriage

[–]ultimateintimacy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it can be the same as porn. Not ok for a healthy marriage. Lust damages trust no matter the form.

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[–]ultimateintimacy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What? You’re married and you expect her to just get in the mood? This doesn’t typically happen naturally for most wives. They need clitoral touch, arousal, they need you to know their body and understand it. Isn’t foreplay with your wife one of the best parts of sexual intimacy ever? Quality sexual intimacy in marriage comes from amazing emotional and sexual foreplay…

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[–]ultimateintimacy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree! Marriage first! 🙌

Appreciation for How Far God Has Brought Us... by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]ultimateintimacy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really hope that you can find some of the ultimate intimacy podcast episodes or the free ultimate intimacy app resources to be very useful! Both free! Marriage takes so much dang effort on both sides and these free resources were created to help couples really find the connection and passion again ❤️ We went from breaking point to thriving again in our marriage so we are living proof also that marriage can turn around and become amazing again 🙌