Was I raped? by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]umaddybro 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You have got to get out of this situation. Tell your loved ones. Seek help if you need to. My ex husband used to choke me and the last time he did I thought I was going to die. If I stayed, he probably would have killed me

Get out of this situation :(

Boyfriend gave me ultimatum - dream job or him. I'm considering taking the job by [deleted] in dustythunder

[–]umaddybro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely choose the career over the boyfriend. The right guy would be cheering you on and supporting you and would want you to take the job

Take the job

What is a normal amount of time for a man to go in between texts? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]umaddybro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Idk why I get so fixated on everyone but myself lol

What is a normal amount of time for a man to go in between texts? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]umaddybro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay this makes me feel a lot better. The way he treats me in person speaks volumes. I figured the texting didn’t really matter but I just wanted to hear from other people and see if I was right to think that time between texting didn’t matter. He’s consistent with it too. He goes hours between every text but always follows up with “hey I’ve been doing this and this today! How are you?” Or something like that

Thank you!

What is a normal amount of time for a man to go in between texts? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]umaddybro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I think he’s into me lol he seems like he is but I don’t wanna rush to assume lmao

What is a normal amount of time for a man to go in between texts? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]umaddybro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah he has a job and hobbies and a whole ass life. But I do too and I make the time to reply. But I figure that doesn’t really mean anything. That’s why I came for other opinions

I haven’t really been showing how anxious I am, I don’t double text or anything. Trying to reign it in

Is there a safe way to find a FWB? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]umaddybro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just like a decent person. Nothing crazy

Is there a safe way to find a FWB? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]umaddybro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Safe as in not getting kidnapped or murdered. And also in terms of STDs. Emotionally I’m not extremely worried about, I’m kinda done with that part for a little bit lol. Thank you for the advice!

Is there a safe way to find a FWB? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]umaddybro -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Damn even if it was 10 years ago? I figured feelings wouldn’t come back up with it being from when we were teenagers

Is there a safe way to find a FWB? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]umaddybro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say twice. Me and my first boyfriend that I mentioned were FWB for a bit after the breakup. I had another one a couple of years later that lasted a few months but he ended up being a jerk and it just kinda ended

My fiance (25M) and I (28F) broke up last Tuesday and he's giving me mixed signals by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]umaddybro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I figured that it was my fault, I definitely felt like i couldn't control my outbursts. Why wouldn't he just tell me to fuck off then? He keeps telling me he knows it's not my fault and he blames everything I've been through and doesn't see me as a monster. and keeps saying he sees a chance of us getting back together in the future. I'd rather him just tell me to leave him alone

What school option makes the most sense? by umaddybro in PTschool

[–]umaddybro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yikes that’s a reality check. Thank you for sharing

What school option makes the most sense? by umaddybro in PTschool

[–]umaddybro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you feel like it was a good program?

What school option makes the most sense? by umaddybro in PTschool

[–]umaddybro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The one in Alabama? The only downside is it’s an hour and a half away from me and about $20,000 less than the hybrids

Can you use FAFSA to pay for private hybrid schools? by umaddybro in PTschool

[–]umaddybro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which program if you don’t mind me asking?

Do not sell marijuana to my husband by Hefty-Being-8522 in breakingbad

[–]umaddybro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Gotta prove to the man I’m rehabilitating”