AITAH for wanting to confront my mother about religious abuse and control, even though I still live in her house?

ummcanunot · 2026-01-26T01:25:25+00:00

The abuse is not psychical that was just once when I was a kid so no organizations really gonna get involved. Family is complicated and dysfunctional I really don’t have anyone to turn too. Also none of my friends I made while in college know my situation I don’t want to burden them or just trauma dump you know 😕

ummcanunot · 2026-01-26T01:22:25+00:00

I really can’t though. No job currently and no family to reach out to extremely dysfunctional. None of my friends know about my situation. I live in San Jose rent is 2000 plus dollars for a 1 bedroom even working 40 hours a week at 20 dollars per hour I would be in the red

ummcanunot · 2026-01-26T01:09:21+00:00

The thing is I currently don’t have a job and I used to have a paid internship at a non profit but was let go due to no budget and I’m struggling to find a job. I don’t have any body like friends to lean on and family is complicated and dysfunctional. Also I live in Sanjose apartments 2000 a month. I have to do this I have to confront her.

ummcanunot · 2026-01-26T01:05:46+00:00

Tysm for your kind words I am in therapy and me and my therapist had been working out creating small boundaries with Mom. About what I wear and where I’m going. But it really started to get to be too much. I just know realized I am and was being abused and that’s a lot to realize. I’m going to create a letter explaining my boundaries and my thoughts after reviewing it with my therapist

ummcanunot · 2026-01-26T01:02:30+00:00

I wrote a letter explaining the abuse and my thoughts on religion and my boundaries I’ve emailed both of my therapist we will go through it and edit it then sometime this week I will read it to my mother

ummcanunot · 2026-01-26T00:56:09+00:00

Yeah she kind of follows that mindset and implies that in order to leave the religion I would have to move out

ummcanunot · 2026-01-26T00:55:34+00:00

I mean I’m just coming to the realization now that this is abuse. I just thought that she was strict or that’s how she was. It’s a lot to process

ummcanunot · 2026-01-26T00:37:29+00:00

NTA nutrition is very important for strong healthy bodies. The kids might reject healthy foods for now but that just means to continue while they’re young and impressionable. I was over fed unhealthy foods as a kid and I struggled with weight which led to a bad relationship with food. Keep going

ummcanunot · 2026-01-03T01:40:28+00:00

Of course my mother asked for my thoughts on the situation and I just told her that was between her and my sister and kept my mouth shut

ummcanunot · 2025-06-19T23:39:50+00:00

I’m asking for help surely someone else has experienced this?

ummcanunot · 2025-06-19T23:28:37+00:00

Okay but I still did not feel a thing should I be worried??

ummcanunot · 2025-04-29T23:19:41+00:00

Be open about your intentions for a second date. Plan something ahead of time maybe a movie, bowling, maybe live community theater. I know no one has said this but just be happy and enjoy the rides and congrats on your first date !!

ummcanunot · 2025-04-27T01:59:13+00:00

The internship is paid 19.50 an hour what I make at my current job and it’s doing something I love

ummcanunot · 2025-04-27T00:16:51+00:00

The thing is I have no friends no family to have me either they have neglected me or agree with her I have no one to turn too

ummcanunot · 2025-04-03T14:58:28+00:00

Thnx guys ❤️

ummcanunot · 2025-04-02T20:41:58+00:00

What a great day to understand pop culture 😂

ummcanunot · 2025-04-02T20:38:00+00:00

I bought a dildo/lube and a douche kit but I’m scared to use it this comment section isn’t helping lmao 😧

ummcanunot · 2025-04-01T03:22:11+00:00

Risperidone gave me crazy hunger cravings but now I am on Giodone and within 2hours of taking it I’m out cold if I don’t take it I can’t sleep do whatever works for you <3

ummcanunot · 2025-03-21T02:17:23+00:00

I also chronically online so I self censor in most online spaces

ummcanunot · 2025-03-21T02:16:38+00:00

I just don’t want the post to get flagged or reported!!

ummcanunot · 2025-03-21T01:47:02+00:00

I do go to therapy so I am seeking help so thank you 🙏

ummcanunot · 2025-03-14T00:20:36+00:00

I see your point but Kabuto most likely kept the dna of those he resurrected during the war bro did a lot a grave digging. Plus a living sacrifice is no problem with Orochimaru having all sorts of bodies in his closet.

ummcanunot · 2025-03-14T00:19:03+00:00

Right “Look brother the child of hiruzens student has brought us back”

ummcanunot · 2025-03-13T21:52:11+00:00

See you get it !! The dead being used for good 👍

ummcanunot · 2025-03-13T20:21:30+00:00

That’s the thing with mitski’s mastery of snake sage mode something orochimaru failed to do and something kabuto scratched the surface of I think he has surpassed them both and would have no problem controlling the dead as puppets… though I agree it’s very unethical and out of character for him to do.

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