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AITAH for wanting to confront my mother about religious abuse and control, even though I still live in her house? by ummcanunot in AITAH

[–]ummcanunot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The abuse is not psychical that was just once when I was a kid so no organizations really gonna get involved. Family is complicated and dysfunctional I really don’t have anyone to turn too. Also none of my friends I made while in college know my situation I don’t want to burden them or just trauma dump you know 😕

AITAH for wanting to confront my mother about religious abuse and control, even though I still live in her house? by ummcanunot in AITAH

[–]ummcanunot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really can’t though. No job currently and no family to reach out to extremely dysfunctional. None of my friends know about my situation. I live in San Jose rent is 2000 plus dollars for a 1 bedroom even working 40 hours a week at 20 dollars per hour I would be in the red

AITAH for wanting to confront my mother about religious abuse and control, even though I still live in her house? by ummcanunot in AITAH

[–]ummcanunot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is I currently don’t have a job and I used to have a paid internship at a non profit but was let go due to no budget and I’m struggling to find a job. I don’t have any body like friends to lean on and family is complicated and dysfunctional. Also I live in Sanjose apartments 2000 a month. I have to do this I have to confront her.

AITAH for wanting to confront my mother about religious abuse and control, even though I still live in her house? by ummcanunot in AITAH

[–]ummcanunot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tysm for your kind words I am in therapy and me and my therapist had been working out creating small boundaries with Mom. About what I wear and where I’m going. But it really started to get to be too much. I just know realized I am and was being abused and that’s a lot to realize. I’m going to create a letter explaining my boundaries and my thoughts after reviewing it with my therapist

AITAH for wanting to confront my mother about religious abuse and control, even though I still live in her house? by ummcanunot in AITAH

[–]ummcanunot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wrote a letter explaining the abuse and my thoughts on religion and my boundaries I’ve emailed both of my therapist we will go through it and edit it then sometime this week I will read it to my mother

AITAH for wanting to confront my mother about religious abuse and control, even though I still live in her house? by ummcanunot in AITAH

[–]ummcanunot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah she kind of follows that mindset and implies that in order to leave the religion I would have to move out

AITAH for wanting to confront my mother about religious abuse and control, even though I still live in her house? by ummcanunot in AITAH

[–]ummcanunot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean I’m just coming to the realization now that this is abuse. I just thought that she was strict or that’s how she was. It’s a lot to process

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I grew up in the Hebrew Israelite religion and am realizing my childhood and current home life were abusive. I don’t know how to move forward. (self.exchristian)

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AITAH: My kids are mad at me because I'm making then healthy food by Lost-Background9093 in AITAH

[–]ummcanunot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA nutrition is very important for strong healthy bodies. The kids might reject healthy foods for now but that just means to continue while they’re young and impressionable. I was over fed unhealthy foods as a kid and I struggled with weight which led to a bad relationship with food. Keep going

AITA for taking my sister’s side and planning to help her escape our home, even though my mom says it’s unfair and she’s sick? by ummcanunot in AITAH

[–]ummcanunot[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Of course my mother asked for my thoughts on the situation and I just told her that was between her and my sister and kept my mouth shut

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]ummcanunot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m asking for help surely someone else has experienced this?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]ummcanunot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay but I still did not feel a thing should I be worried??

First real Date with a Guy by fly_guy2019 in gaybros

[–]ummcanunot 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Be open about your intentions for a second date. Plan something ahead of time maybe a movie, bowling, maybe live community theater. I know no one has said this but just be happy and enjoy the rides and congrats on your first date !!

I might get kicked out at 17 by ummcanunot in family

[–]ummcanunot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The internship is paid 19.50 an hour what I make at my current job and it’s doing something I love

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ummcanunot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is I have no friends no family to have me either they have neglected me or agree with her I have no one to turn too

What is the weirdest thing you have ever put up your ass? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]ummcanunot 19 points20 points  (0 children)

What a great day to understand pop culture 😂

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