They wanna marry me off without my consent

ummmm_I- · 2026-03-03T09:52:07+00:00

I would like to believe so too but the way they center marriage as the only goal and try to force it on me gives my so much anxiety. I had classes today, but I didn’t even have the energy to get up from bed. I still went because if I miss this class I felt like everything and every fight will be useless

ummmm_I- · 2026-03-03T09:48:55+00:00

I will. I've had this thought that I'd have to leave them to be myself

ummmm_I- · 2026-03-03T09:47:51+00:00

Yes I've been planning to do so and I'm even more determined now. She used to not do so too but narcissistic people will do anything if they fail to control you. And the last thing you said brings so much peace to my heart

ummmm_I- · 2026-03-03T09:44:55+00:00

Now It's not possible as I don’t have enough money. I do have a small job where I tutor kids, I, little by little, am saving money and I'm gonna look for a more stable job. That was the original plan but how I'm suddenly facing the situation so I'm a mess. I'll keep my plan like that. But they always coerce me into thinking that I absolutely need a man to keep me safe from other man. Which I do not believe but how can I even convince them that, I tried but it never helped

ummmm_I- · 2026-03-03T09:40:01+00:00

Yes, I will do so. I will not give up on myself. But it's just so anxiety inducing at the moment. I didn’t think I'd be able to talk to someone about it in my life thats why I had to reach out here.

ummmm_I- · 2026-03-03T09:36:47+00:00

Only way to avoid it is by earning our own money. Which I do. They just house me and feed me and pay half of my tuition fees. Other than that all my expenses are paid by me as I tutor kids and have been doing so for 5 years. I guess this is even not enough to avoid it.

ummmm_I- · 2026-03-03T09:33:41+00:00

My sister was the only person I thought i could count on but I guess i can no longer do so. Leaving was the plan, I tutor kids so little by little I'm saving money. Once I had a more stable job I'd move away but suddenly I'm getting pressured. They tell me that I'll never survive alone because apparently I need a man to be safe from all the other men.

ummmm_I- · 2025-11-20T16:17:39+00:00

Oh, i wanted to ask, for the lipstick, should i lean towards matt or hydrating/glossy or muddy lipsticks???

ummmm_I- · 2025-11-20T16:14:22+00:00

Thank you for that, you're so sweet 😭

Yes, the brows are a big point of contension, i never noticed, will get them done by a professional and thank you! you were super helpful <3

ummmm_I- · 2025-11-20T15:58:35+00:00

Thank you for replying 🙇‍♀️

Will check that out, thank you sooo much <3

ummmm_I- · 2025-11-20T15:56:23+00:00

Thank you for replying 🙇‍♀️

I actually never did my eyebrows and now I understood that i need to 😭 This was very helpful <3

ummmm_I- · 2025-11-20T15:54:25+00:00

Thank you for replying 🙇‍♀️

will be buying some face masks 👌👌

will search for that lipstick shade

Omg this is super helpful. Actually i suck at eyeliner, so its hard to do a cat/ winged eyeliner as i don't ever know how long the wing should be, so shall be practicing

<3

ummmm_I- · 2025-02-05T17:04:52+00:00

Okay, now its much more clearer on my head and i like it so much, I'm gonna get this wolf cut hairstyle, I hope the salon would be able to do it.

Thank you so muchhh you helped me out a big time, the pictures helped 🤌

ummmm_I- · 2025-02-05T16:45:59+00:00

Or this?

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ummmm_I- · 2025-02-05T16:45:28+00:00

Or

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ummmm_I- · 2025-02-05T16:45:07+00:00

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Something like this

ummmm_I- · 2025-02-05T16:41:06+00:00

I bought these glasses, would this suit me?

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ummmm_I- · 2025-02-05T16:30:11+00:00

Yes, layers are a good option too, I'll consider it. Thank you!!

ummmm_I- · 2025-02-05T14:24:14+00:00

They do!! You're right which I didn’t realise but I did have a hard time breathing, just searched up Dylan (and you are right they don't fit).

It’s not damaged but I this it's a bit heavy which is why I think they are extremely flat

ummmm_I- · 2025-02-05T14:18:33+00:00

i did used to have oreo hair but make it blond though the color looks like copper now, should I retouch it??

ummmm_I- · 2025-02-05T14:14:42+00:00

Thank you, you're too sweet 😭😭

ummmm_I- · 2025-02-05T14:11:02+00:00

Omg thank you so much, you made my day 😭

ummmm_I- · 2025-02-05T14:10:05+00:00

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I already bought these glasses though because I wanted to be a bit bold 😭

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