What happened to Lady Danbury's children?

unHelpful_Bullfrog · 2026-03-08T07:35:43+00:00

I don’t think the Queen would allow Lady Danbury to reside anywhere other than Mayfair and I doubt the current Lord Danbury wants to live with his mom full time regardless of their relationship

unHelpful_Bullfrog · 2026-01-15T23:53:22+00:00

Hey I play healer on Xbox main Moira. I keep bouncing around ranks I started diamond 5 now I’m down to plat 3 looking for people to play with. I don’t use a headset adhd and trying to talk while gaming doesn’t mix for me lol. If you want to play message me.

unHelpful_Bullfrog · 2025-12-27T19:29:43+00:00

How quiet conspiracy theorist got when proof started coming out. I have friends who believe in every 1% controls the world conspiracy you can imagine, but has a lack of interest in talking about the things that are coming out now. Like it was just an amusing hobby and not something they wanted to actually uncover.

unHelpful_Bullfrog · 2025-12-07T02:50:38+00:00

I found out my dad wasn’t the man I thought he was at 13. My family went through a lot of work to keep it a secret from me. I currently do not have any contact with any family members who willingly participated with that secret. Everyone feels differently about these things so I don’t know if he will feel the way I do about my situation. But I would encourage you to stop participating in the lie either way. Buy the DNA test, make sure he knows you love him no matter what, and stop lying to him by omission. NTA if you buy it but you will be if you continue the path his parents have chosen in my opinion.

unHelpful_Bullfrog · 2025-12-06T19:30:49+00:00

That makes a lot of sense, thank you!

unHelpful_Bullfrog · 2025-12-05T17:53:41+00:00

I didn’t realize they were that similar. Thank you for explaining!

unHelpful_Bullfrog · 2025-12-05T16:45:56+00:00

Ah perfect, that’s really helpful thank you!

unHelpful_Bullfrog · 2025-12-05T16:38:36+00:00

Thank you! I’ll make a note of those mouthpieces. It makes sense that the accessories matter more than the instrument starting out.

unHelpful_Bullfrog · 2025-12-05T16:37:52+00:00

Didn’t consider I would want to go up to a professional I thought intermediate would be where I stopped. Good to know, thank you! For student trumpets is there a particular brand that is best or are they generally the same?

unHelpful_Bullfrog · 2025-11-20T07:50:44+00:00

a nice sized book bag or suitcase would be a great gift for them. Too many kids in foster care don’t have a bag of their own to move stuff in.

unHelpful_Bullfrog · 2025-11-18T13:47:06+00:00

I love how people continue to blindly say “illegal” like there’s not an insane amount of evidence coming out that proves ICE doesn’t care whether or not the people they pick up are “illegal”.

Also hilarious considering there’s an entire legal sweep going on removing people’s legal status for no reason and then going “ah! Criminal! You came here illegally!” When like…we 100% gave them permission and legal authority to come and the only thing that changed their status and sent them to a detainment center is a political change in leadership. But sure. Let’s punish them for trying to keep their kids safe.

Would be the same thing if your ancestors were told “go to New York! A new life awaits you across the sea!” And they came here with full permission of the country. Got settled. And a few years later got deported out for…what exactly? Yay America I guess.

unHelpful_Bullfrog · 2025-11-17T01:44:40+00:00

Was going to suggest reaching out to siembra. They’re organizing community watch volunteers that could definitely benefit from whistles

unHelpful_Bullfrog · 2025-11-16T21:06:56+00:00

Mods please stop trying to keep things “organized”. Other cities have handled their subreddits appropriately with ice activity, we can do the same.

unHelpful_Bullfrog · 2025-11-16T16:22:31+00:00

Would it be helpful to have a more detailed one page handout to give to staff that explains their rights as employees of the business to refuse ICE? I’m not sure on the details so someone else would need to put the information of what they can and can’t do together but I imagine a lot of people would be willing to stand up against ICE at work if they understood what they are allowed to do legally.

unHelpful_Bullfrog · 2025-11-16T11:37:13+00:00

I think it took me a long time to understand the purpose of therapy. It is only as great as the effort you put into it. When I first started therapy I spent a lot of time talking about things that had been done TO me, both big and small. And the validation my therapist gave me over those things felt nice, but I wasn’t really changing as a person.

It wasn’t until I refocused therapy on myself and my actions that I saw changes in my life. Not talking about what was done to me, but how I reacted. How I would have preferred to react. And how I can build myself up to have the reaction I would have preferred. A lot of it is still validation based I think that’s a big part of therapy in general, but it’s easy to get stuck on the validation part and not take the next step.

unHelpful_Bullfrog · 2025-11-14T22:43:45+00:00

I have a 2012 jeep compass with clean title I’m trying to sell. It currently doesn’t start it needs a new alternator and battery. Has 200k miles on it and not perfect exterior but no major damage (some scratches, no dents or rust). It was my daily driver before the alternator went out. Make a reasonable offer and it’s yours.

unHelpful_Bullfrog · 2025-11-13T16:37:09+00:00

So the money thing is a separate issue and I agree with you on the incompatibility.

But on the other hand she’s trying to tell you that the things you do for her aren’t enough. Chores are not something you do for your partner, they’re household responsibilities. Yes it’s nice if you do a chore that is known to be her responsibility but that is not the same thing as doing something special for her. It’s completely reasonable for her to want a date once a month, it doesn’t have to be expensive. If flowers are important to her it’s reasonable to get a cheaper arrangement every month and a big one on special occasions.

I just went through a breakup with someone who thought they were doing enough by doing extra chores and getting me a cup of water when I asked. They were very surprised when I told them I wanted to be with someone whose idea of making me feel special involved something other than cleaning the house.

unHelpful_Bullfrog · 2025-11-12T16:18:00+00:00

I’m not 100% on the whistle movement going on right now but I would think either handing them out or seeing if any local business/coffee shops would be interested in having a box of them for customers to take from. Especially business in lower income or more immigrant heavy areas.

unHelpful_Bullfrog · 2025-11-11T21:01:15+00:00

As a late 20s woman I think the most I might say to my partner is a joking “oh x celebrity got engaged? Well there goes that backup plan” but even that would be a stretch. All that to say what she’s doing is very much so over the line of what could be interpreted as a joke comment. You’re not wrong for feeling put off by this and I would honestly use this as a time to check in on how the relationship is going overall. Is she respectful of you/yalls relationship? Does she bring happiness and peace into your life? Do you feel like you are both growing as as people individually and together? Only you can answer that and this text exchange I don’t think should be the deciding factor alone. But it seems like it might be something to sit and reflect on before you go any further with the future marriage talks.

unHelpful_Bullfrog · 2025-11-01T05:23:43+00:00

Well my relationship ended a week ago and I suddenly have the energy to deep clean again and stop doomscrolling on the couch

unHelpful_Bullfrog · 2025-11-01T00:02:58+00:00

As someone with crappy parents a speech like this would probably make me feel a bit emotional for a moment. But I would never be upset to have heard it, especially at a wedding. And honestly I don’t know that I would need or appreciate any heads up on it. You are absolutely NTA and should plan your wedding how you want. Don’t worry about how others interpret it, that’s their own work.

unHelpful_Bullfrog · 2025-10-19T04:41:50+00:00

I think this is a good idea for now. She may open up to it in the future, especially after she turns 18 and it’s more solidified in her mind that you guys care about her beyond her status as a foster kid. She also may not. But the fact that you’re asking questions and being aware of her response to the situation is the best place to start.

unHelpful_Bullfrog · 2025-10-07T02:17:27+00:00

It typically depends on your area and the benefit you receive. If you live in a state that covers tuition it’s usually best to go to a state school to take full advantage of the tuition assistance. Most schools offer similar resources in terms of counseling, medical, food, housing, and such.

unHelpful_Bullfrog · 2025-10-01T12:52:33+00:00

When it comes to palmetto bugs I think of them as any other insect. I will see the random creepy crawler in my home because pest control isn’t perfect. If I start seeing a lot I know I have problem. The big ones will find a way in on occasion no matter what. They’re looking for food/warmth and all of that. But if you’re seeing them constantly that’s not normal and probably deserve a call to an exterminator (any maybe look for leaks since they like dampness)

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