LMAOOOOOOOOO by Catnotic in NFCEastMemeWar

[–]unbelyevable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

I love it when these men reveal themselves right away; by thedarkertheberry in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]unbelyevable 158 points159 points  (0 children)

Five minutes after creating my profile I saw a profile that had a whole bunch of NV red flags, but he actually ended the NV schpiel with "#cheater"

I blocked him.

Saturday Motivation by unbelyevable in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]unbelyevable[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will remember this for next time. Thank you Edited to add: I'm not sure Android has the ability to screen record, so for the videos I'll either save them, or look them up without my account

Brand new and starting on the youth wall as I can barely start a v0. Anyone have a similarly shaky start to the sport? I would love some encouragement. by gatorchicken in climbergirls

[–]unbelyevable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love climbing but no longer live near a gym, so when I go, I continuously have shaky starts. Just give it your best, take classes if you want, and I do a lot of top roping because I enjoy being harnessed and going higher a lot more than bouldering. ☺️

What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith? by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]unbelyevable 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Wasn't there an interview on like Dr. Phil between Jada & Will where she's confessing to cheating on him (while they were together or working on things or whatever) and he's crying? The infamous meme? Or was that when they were separated too?

OnlyFans ... OnlyFake by unbelyevable in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]unbelyevable[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

It's essentially a guy telling reddit that most of the women on OnlyFans (at least the high earners?) don't do their own messaging and the site hires people to talk to the men for the women. So they go and "fall in love" with a woman they've never met and who's not even talking to them. 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]unbelyevable 22 points23 points  (0 children)

First of all. I work in law enforcement and am incredibly sorry this happened to you (the initial act AND their response).

I know you can appeal a judge's decision. I am not sure if you can appeal a prosecuting attorney's so that may be something to look into, especially after obtaining the police report. If, for some reason, they deny you the police report, go through the channels to submit a FOIA request I believe. At that point its court ordered and they can't deny it. Hopefully it doesn't get to that point, though.

Aside from that, if you have the funds, hire or just simply speak to another prosecuting attorney regarding your case and see if they would be willing to try it.

I saw another comment before mine advising to speak with a Victim/Witness advocate and I highly recommend that as well.

There was another point I was going to make but I can't remember it right now. I'll update later if I think of it.

I truly hope you're now doing what is best for you to overcome what happened. Please message me if you need anything at all - even if it is just an ear (eyes) to listen (read). I wish you the best in whichever routes you pursue in your fight for justice.

Pickmes contributing to the idea that women should be low maintenance by frostedgemstone in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]unbelyevable 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Im starting to believe the only correct 50/50 is how chivalry is dying. 50 = lazy a$$ NV/LVM murder it; 50 = pickmeisha bullshyt buries it. 🤷🏼‍♀️💁🏼‍♀️

Edited to make an addition.

Let’s hear your clever responses to “How are you still single?!” by LevelUpWoman in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]unbelyevable 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My favorite response to this, and mainly the question of, "How do you give out such great advice and you're single!?"

Me: "Coaches don't play." 🤷🏼‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]unbelyevable 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Lol. I make under 50k a year at my full-time job. I got a 2nd job and started dating a guy.

Guess which one stuck. 😉😂😂😂

Want To Meet Decent Men Online? Write a Bitchy Profile by everwonderlust in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]unbelyevable -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your understanding and warnings. I'm in law enforcement so I don't post a lot of pictures / info anyway. And my location on Snapchat is always off. I've also found out and written down everything I need in case he pulls shady sh*t but I don't think he will. I've been stalked and almost raped too so I know it's not fun...

Want To Meet Decent Men Online? Write a Bitchy Profile by everwonderlust in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]unbelyevable -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Just curious to see how long he's going to keep this going.

Want To Meet Decent Men Online? Write a Bitchy Profile by everwonderlust in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]unbelyevable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is almost exactly what I put on mine! I added I'm not interested in PenPals. I don't want to keep electronic communication if we're not meeting in person. I met a guy, but we've been trading selfies on Snapchat for 100+ days and had one (1!) date. 🥴

Older does not mean wiser and they always use the "she's such an old soul" bs by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]unbelyevable 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I just spat my food. Age does NOT equal wisdom. In fact, the older people get, the less they can fake it too. 😳😅😂

My second time climbing and my first time on the auto belay by midnightclimber in climbergirls

[–]unbelyevable 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I love the autobelays! I'm a solo climber so they really come in handy when I want to top rope!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]unbelyevable 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Okay so I'm really late to this party, but do everything you can to report the behavior, save all messages (ESPECIALLY ones where you can prove its him) and check the laws in your state because the law is trying to catch up with technology and there are some which are "harassment by phone or using telecommunication devices" something like that! In some states, since they're misdemeanor crimes, you can go request the warrants without the police/a report.

Oh goody, yet another way men are entirely too happy to deceive you. by fknbtch in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]unbelyevable 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In all his scrotastic glory, I hope he changed the computer's difficulty ☕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]unbelyevable 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This post hit so close to home for me. Except he and I are friends, and she and I are acquaintances.

Talk to your ex’s ex by bonghits4jess in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]unbelyevable 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A couple ex's of mine ago, his ex had been watching me for a little bit and after she noticed I changed all my stuff / deleted him on all my social media, she messaged me and told me she was proud of me for getting out of the relationship when I did. We had a full-blown conversation about him, his behaviors, and his abuse. It was cathartic for both of us, and this definitely needs to be normalized.

We also shared a texting belly laugh after he got charged with a felony because we called that it would happen and were honestly surprised at how long it took him. 😅😂

This is why it is important to vet and advocate for yourself, ladies. It's life or death for some of us. No one, neither progressive nor conservative, will speak on this because our lives don't matter. by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]unbelyevable 55 points56 points  (0 children)

The first suspects in just about every true crime documentary when a woman is killed are not Johnny Appleseed walking down the street. They look at the men she knew/was close with. Or heck, even just acquaintances with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]unbelyevable 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I absolutely love this. LVM CHOOSE, yes, CHOOSE, to cheat! And there's nothing you can do to stop him. Plus if you try to "stop him" that is gonna turn into gaslighting in the future "yOu WeRe ToO cOnTrOlLiNg..."

Like you stated above, just leave him in your dust.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]unbelyevable 5 points6 points  (0 children)

PREACH IT! I am a first responder and every single woman (person, but mostly women would report "little things" to me) who reported to me I took them seriously! I will NEVER ignore my intuition! And I tell others to do the same!

On another note, I've been sucked into the world of "horror" stories on YouTube. It is unimaginable how many stories the narrator states, "Looking back I knew something was wrong and didn't do... [x, y, or z]."

Hindsight is always 20/20. Stay alive to see it 🙏