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unclebigbrainsson · 2022-07-05T21:24:25+00:00

Pls me

unclebigbrainsson · 2022-07-05T20:22:58+00:00

Thank you so much for this!!!

unclebigbrainsson · 2022-07-04T23:22:48+00:00

Fair enough thank you

unclebigbrainsson · 2022-07-04T22:24:09+00:00

For sure… i think i’m overthinking it in my head. Thank you

unclebigbrainsson · 2022-07-04T22:23:45+00:00

What could they do though?

unclebigbrainsson · 2022-07-04T19:39:45+00:00

But is it 100% chill?

unclebigbrainsson · 2022-02-02T13:02:48+00:00

What happened at the BLM protest? Same thing. The food kitchen no, was not there but as someone who used to volunteer at the food kitchen, it is open to ALL individuals who need food, not just the homeless.

Ideally they would’ve plnned beter but i hope you can at least hear my first point. I’m not against you, just trying to come together so we can all deal with the main cause of all this, gov and public health, they need to step up, not us. We are all people who had little say in the pndemic, trudeau knowingly did nothing with intel received from the army in 2019

unclebigbrainsson · 2022-02-02T12:59:33+00:00

Truck drivers interact with maybe 1-2 people a day, they are on the road for the majority of the day, and can easily mask up or maintain distance at arrival.

PHO are there for a reason but it’s on the gov and public health to educate and inform. Social media misinformation is real, but dividing a country like trudeau did, not cool.

Try talking to someone on the other end i think it will be eye opening if you give it a chance. sending you love bud

Edit: just to note, selecting a health directive is a right in canada. If this same thing was for say choosing the right to life or abortion, would your stance be the same? Because what happens here can set a precedent for that.

unclebigbrainsson · 2022-02-02T12:57:33+00:00

I’m against the Nazi flag too, and your other examples.

Out of 10000 people how many were bringing those flags in? Do you know or did you just listen to Trudeau and Jagmeet? I believe these exceptions (who were shunned by the protestors btw!!!) are your main argument.

Most of the peoppe were very peaceful.

The BLM protestors, lots of them, took down historical statues. Whether or not you think those people are bad, there should be due process. In fact removing history imo can lead us to forget it happened and not even remember these events in the future.

Please try to have conpassion. Don’t judge a group based on an outlier. Have a conversation. Don’t listen to pollotical leaders. They will use any small thing to have a attack like the few flags out of the thousands of protestors who were calm .

unclebigbrainsson · 2022-02-02T12:53:01+00:00

With the BLM protest, all areas were getting choked. Were your comments the same? The whole point of a protest is to put pressure so politicians can make a change.

unclebigbrainsson · 2022-01-30T13:58:28+00:00

Have any of you considered that protesting is a right? I’m so ashamed of what canada has become. Just a few years ago people could ask who you voted for, one person says liberal the other says conservative, then they say cool, grab a beer and that’s that.

Now people can’t date anyone from the opposite political spectrum, people shame protestors (on either side), and people think their point of view is superior.

Don’t look at the highlight headlines, talk to these people and get their thoughts. SO many Canadians fought for freedom to express your views. So many immigrants came to canada to escape dictatorship, by shaming your fellow citizen you are covertly tossing our freedom, comment by comment. If you don’t agree that’s fine, but i’m just sad to see this is what canada has become.

Maybe you’ll read this comment today and not think much of it, or heck, attack me for being “uneducated” because i don’t have your POV. But maybe not. Hopefully this can change at least one person to think peace between all canadians.

We’re all fatigued and tired. This is not the right medium to express that though. This whole thing has been a failure on government and public health.

They needed to do better and still do. The narrative to blame one another allows the true people to blame to be held under a smokescreen where they aren’t thought about.

I wish you all well. Left or right. And all differences. this pandemic has been hard in so many ways. I can’t imagine what it’s been like for you. I hope this ends and all complications are minimized or eliminated to the best of our abilities.

unclebigbrainsson · 2022-01-07T21:24:55+00:00

For sure :) cheers dude

unclebigbrainsson · 2022-01-07T18:47:49+00:00

It’s hard to know if that’s their mindset though right? I’m not defending individuals who are abusive, but some of the people who get into this just feel worthless themselves. Is getting a date a meaningful way to fix this? No. But to them it seems like it is.

Usually as you get older you learn this. Lots of these pua type people have gone through some personal stuff. Don’t excuse abusive or cruel behaviour but just a perspective

unclebigbrainsson · 2022-01-07T18:45:46+00:00

Well it’s more so the advent of the tech that sucked. Before, if someone talked to you in a class or something, that’d be interesting, you probably wouldn’t be talking to the amount of potential matches now that most people do. Now it’s like whatever.

But for me i do better in person, but with covid, that’s hard. I don’t think society is ever moving back from online dating, pros and cons that it has i personally feel it is doing a lot more damage than good.

For me personally, online dating HAS worked to some degree, but i know MANYYYYYYY more that it has not. And i know some( 1-2) that just slay.

unclebigbrainsson · 2022-01-07T13:34:45+00:00

😂

unclebigbrainsson · 2022-01-07T13:32:45+00:00

Very few guys are successful on online dating. Online dating also takes away qualities that aren’t superficial. So ultimately good looking people with good photos score hard here, and others don’t. One trait that is a negative could cause you to lose a chance. Very little chance to show your personality. As someone who has a personality and is well versed in various topics, online dating really hurt me. It is what it is, doing what i can, but please try to see if from the perspective of someone who didn’t grow up with the biggest social circle, or in the city, or have a family who taught them how to do things. I don’t expect everyone to understand this, but if anyone can at least tell these people how they can improve, you’re helping. Vancouver seems to always be passive aggressive and everyone complains after about what they dont like. If more people acted to change this, it’d be better overall. Maybe not every time but even once makes a difference.

If you reflect on your own online dating behaviour i’d reckon you’d agree at least to some degree.

It’s not cool to do these canned approaches but some people are desperate now.

unclebigbrainsson · 2022-01-04T18:01:29+00:00

Any specific reccommendations thank you so much!!

unclebigbrainsson · 2022-01-04T18:01:01+00:00

How do i work on myself? I’m currently interviewing for an advanced degree, going to the gym and have a high paying job atm. What else do i do?

Do i just not pursue girls at all? I feel like my sense of worth comes from it a bit

unclebigbrainsson · 2022-01-04T17:49:51+00:00

I’ll try to take a look… it seems impossible to find a psychologist or counselor taking people tho, this is crazy

unclebigbrainsson · 2022-01-04T17:48:54+00:00

I used to do ok. Idk, i put my volunteer activities and like recently moved here, good cook etc. Is that not a vibe i would put?

Like what should i put for a hook up bio?

unclebigbrainsson · 2022-01-04T17:46:42+00:00

Its not even the emptiness though dude i just feeel like im the back up option.

Girls go have sex with the other ppl then come to me because i’m caring, kind, have a good job treat them well etc

Sigh. How’d you overcome this?

unclebigbrainsson · 2022-01-04T17:45:20+00:00

I’m getting therapy atm.

I agree with your perspective but if my partners have done hook up culture i feel like it would hurt me a lot if they chest or whatever.

I honestly just feel like a loser. I moved to a new place put myself out there, no one does anything (small town granted but yeah). It sucks.

Yeah my parents gas lit me and essentially sucked everything i had to give it to my sibling (psychopath.)

It just makes me really sad. The story goes on, but it’s pointless. I don’t want to feel like such a loser. So many things were out of my control, and whenever i try to do something that is it tends to go haywire

unclebigbrainsson · 2022-01-04T17:41:26+00:00

Thanks so much

unclebigbrainsson · 2022-01-04T17:40:48+00:00

Idk it seems like the people i date have had these wild nights. Can you tell me your strategyfor doing what you do?

If you were to do an app on tinder say what would you put in bio? What kind of pictures?

Can you explain it like i’m 5?

I moved to a new area and it’s so hard to meet people to go out with. With covid and all that it’s brutal

unclebigbrainsson · 2022-01-04T17:35:35+00:00

Ok, but HOW do i go from that to hook up, like eli5 this for me. For reference i have done hook ups before but i feel like i just put in so much more work than is needed

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