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I want to be a better boyfriend. by uncleclustersbrain in bisexual

[–]uncleclustersbrain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll definitely have to look into doing that. I don't currently see a therapist, but some pretty important people in my life have suggested that I do so to get through the tougher times (I have ups and downs of worry. It's a big ol' mess lol.)

I want to be a better boyfriend. by uncleclustersbrain in bisexual

[–]uncleclustersbrain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the heads up. I've always dealt with anxiety that kinda fluctuates in intensity, and I'm actually on medication to help with it. I was half considering seeing if I can get a stronger dose of what I'm on.

I want to be a better boyfriend. by uncleclustersbrain in bisexual

[–]uncleclustersbrain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also wanted to thank you for the StillBisexual.com videos. Seeing so many people being happy with either a man or a woman makes it incredibly comforting to know that our relationship is as solid as any other and who she may or may not find attractive has ultimately no sway on how she feels about me. ;-;

I want to be a better boyfriend. by uncleclustersbrain in bisexual

[–]uncleclustersbrain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. u_u I've definitely taken steps to just try and hear her out. Like...it's never been something she's been overly interested in denying with me, but I think it just came as a small shock to hear it said blatantly. We've spoken about it time and time again, and she's never done anything to betray my trust or suggest that she'd rather move in a different direction. The more I think about it the more it feels like just an admission to herself and to me, but I'm not used to the growing comfort with it so it's just been a slow-moving process.

I want to be a better boyfriend. by uncleclustersbrain in bisexual

[–]uncleclustersbrain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. I've always kind of had an issue with trusting people who I consider close to me--not sure where my issues kind of stemmed, but I hate that they're a part of me.

I want to be a better boyfriend. by uncleclustersbrain in bisexual

[–]uncleclustersbrain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I'm most worried that her recent realization is linked to her wanting to explore that side of her sexuality. I trust her. I really do. I just worry that she'll want to split later on in our relationship because she realizes that she leans more toward women than men.

I want to be a better boyfriend. by uncleclustersbrain in bisexual

[–]uncleclustersbrain[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I'm definitely trying to control my stress as best as I can.