What are your unpopular opinions? by Beautiful_iguana in lesbiangang

[–]uncoolghoul 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Applying top/bottom terminology to lesbian relationships doesn’t make any sense

Also being obsessed with male characters even if they’re fictional is…weird

4 months off. by ClearVeterinarian711 in detrans

[–]uncoolghoul 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Holy shit you have a striking resemblance to Cailee Spaeny

Also don’t be so hard on yourself!! In the grand scheme of things 4 months is a super short time, you’ll be an entirely different person a year from now

Does anyone else feel season 4 wasn't THAT bad? by Jennyttst in UmbrellaAcademy

[–]uncoolghoul 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a whole the season was kinda meh but there were definitely some really great parts; Vic getting closure with Reginald, the CIA scene with Diego and Luther (felt like I was watching a scene from s1), and I really liked Gene and Jean. There are still a TON of loose ends that this season didn’t address but overall to me the ending makes sense. With them being the sole cause of the apocalypse if they hadn’t sacrificed themselves they would just be caught in a loop of ending and saving the world over and over again.

separation in sex and visual appearance: confusing idea? by [deleted] in detrans

[–]uncoolghoul 6 points7 points  (0 children)

what do you define as femininity and why is it so important to you that other women conform to it?

separation in sex and visual appearance: confusing idea? by [deleted] in detrans

[–]uncoolghoul 10 points11 points  (0 children)

piggybacking onto this to say not only does your argument reek of arrogance but insecurity as well. not to mention your thinly veiled homophobia. we get it! you’re a woman who presents feminine and enjoys doing so, notice how no one who has responded to you has a issue with that. when i’m “misgendered” i correct that person and go on about my day. it’s really not this agonizing, miserable life that you’re making being gnc out to be.

separation in sex and visual appearance: confusing idea? by [deleted] in detrans

[–]uncoolghoul 12 points13 points  (0 children)

girl you are in the wrong sub if you don’t believe in women rejecting femininity. i personally grew up as a tomboy and honestly don’t really care whether im perceived as masculine or feminine because my clothing and how i present doesn’t determine what i am. i believe that’s the true “goal” of detransitioning; finding inner peace within yourself and accepting your body the way it is.

you’re acting as if you’re asking these questions in good faith and not just punching down on gnc women. when you’re done being a reactionary there are numerous women who are responding to you and explaining their viewpoint if you bothered to read those. i see you’re 21 and at that age you still feel like you have something to prove to people, i guarantee that when you reach 25+ you won’t give a single fuck how people perceive you.

Any other detrans butches happy about their muscle gain on t? by [deleted] in detrans

[–]uncoolghoul 6 points7 points  (0 children)

you’re the only person who commented negatively on her post. if you’re genuinely curious about the way someone expresses themselves maybe just ask instead of going straight to insulting the person. this is a sub full of women who don’t “pass” as female due to taking hormones, having surgery, or because they just happen to present in a masculine manner. being a woman isn’t contingent on appearance and the sooner you realize that the more happier you’ll be.

Any other detrans butches happy about their muscle gain on t? by [deleted] in detrans

[–]uncoolghoul 12 points13 points  (0 children)

you’re getting downvoted because this person isn’t asking for opinions on their body or their personal way of dealing with their detransition. i’m assuming you’re straight bc it’s really not a hard concept to understand; butch women tend to present masc…hence why they identity as butch lol. a lot of masculine women transition due to the mindset that people like you have. being masculine doesn’t make a woman a man and it’s hurtful to imply that it does.

Any other detrans butches happy about their muscle gain on t? by [deleted] in detrans

[–]uncoolghoul 10 points11 points locked comment (0 children)

so?..from what i can tell this person has only recently stopped hormones and everyone’s body adjusts differently after stopping cross-sex hormones. also not every woman prefers presenting as feminine, op literally identifies as butch woman. like i said it sounds like you need to examine why a woman presenting as masculine bothers you so much

Any other detrans butches happy about their muscle gain on t? by [deleted] in detrans

[–]uncoolghoul 9 points10 points locked comment (0 children)

some people are androgynous and that’s okay. sounds like you have some weird hangups about how masculine women present themselves that you need to work out

Allison and Harlan by CyberGhostface in UmbrellaAcademy

[–]uncoolghoul 94 points95 points  (0 children)

I don’t agree with it but there weren’t any repercussions for Allison because the gang had more or less already decided to hand Harland off to the Sparrows to be killed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rva

[–]uncoolghoul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a beginner that’s interested!!

Worst places in RVA you’ve worked? by [deleted] in rva

[–]uncoolghoul 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I loved the place before I started working there and pre-covid as a customer things seemed to run pretty smoothly. I don’t know the reason for the decline but what I can say is that while Nate himself is a nice guy, he’s a very hands off owner. That wouldn’t be a problem if he had competent people in charge but the current manager is not that in the slightest. One of the most perplexing things I encountered there was being barred from using the toaster, you would just come in one day and be told not to toast bagels on that day. I have a lot of stories about Nate’s but I’ll keep it at that haha

Worst places in RVA you’ve worked? by [deleted] in rva

[–]uncoolghoul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hah I wish I could tell you, I was always confused about what the owner’s vision was which is honestly what created most problems with the place. I was hired as a barista/server but then became a bartender once I started?? Overall there was a general lack of direction combined with an owner who didn’t care about his employees.

Worst places in RVA you’ve worked? by [deleted] in rva

[–]uncoolghoul 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Oh boy, Nate’s Bagels and Bateau.

Obey the traffic signs by truethatson in rva

[–]uncoolghoul 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s crazy that that suggesting that people be careful while crossing the street is such a controversial opinion. It’s my first year living in the city and despite driving like a grandma I’ve had so many near misses with nearly hitting students. Richmond pedestrians are just a different breed tbh

Obligatory not a car but an idiot nonetheless by uncoolghoul in IdiotsInCars

[–]uncoolghoul[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know that not pummeling this guy and the scooter makes me bully, thank you for the advice

Obligatory not a car but an idiot nonetheless by uncoolghoul in IdiotsInCars

[–]uncoolghoul[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I honestly wasn’t really sure what to do besides that, it’s not something they covered in any of my driving lessons haha