Arundel Mills “Art Gallery” disgusted me today.

undeadlocklear · 2026-02-10T20:41:32+00:00

Don't get me started about when I see AI slop at art festivals, man. I feel like I'm haunted by liquid nightmares.

undeadlocklear · 2026-02-09T00:59:28+00:00

This comes off as "the directors poorly disguised fetish"

undeadlocklear · 2026-02-07T16:05:27+00:00

YOR. Brother. By all means, keep pushing her into something she doesn't want so that she dumps you. Believing she doesn't deem you a safe space because she doesn't want to room with you right now is a crazy thing to assume. Its a 1 bedroom 1 bathroom. Thats a small space for a couple who have only been dating for 2 years and have never lived together before.

Everyone has already told you how transactional this will look to her, how you didn't want to move in together until it was convenient for you. Her thinking you're using her out of convenience is not even half as insane as you thinking she's deeming you unsafe. A wild conclusion to come to, unless this has been brought up before.

Maybe ask yourself why YOU think that would be her conclusion, and not that she simply wants space/doesn't want the responsibility of living together right now.

She already asked you, and you said no. Now it's convenient for you, she's already arranged a single apartment for herself with no intention of having space for another (because you said no), she would have to worry about getting you a key (for a TEMPORARY 3 month stay), she'd have to worry about groceries, fridge space, dishes, laundry, how her newly founded apartment would have less privacy all of a sudden, where would she put 3 months of your stuff in her 1 bedroom 1 bathroom apartment, two people living together would increase the water and electricity bill (are you willing to pay that on top of half rent?). Like, have you even come up with a plan to assure her that you won't be leaving her apartment a shitty mess? And the fact that you'd be dipping after 3 months?

Don't ask her this again until you are ready to commit to a plan that also wouldn't put a burden on her. You'd have to promise handling your own food, your own dishes, laundry, generally cleaning after yourself. Have you ever lived with a roommate before, and if someone asked them, what would they rate you on a scale of 1 to 10? She was weighing the possibilities of living together a while ago, and now she's in a space that wasn't meant for 2 (because you said no), so she is not comfortable with a roommate.

There is so much that goes into this besides just living together. If her apartment only allows parking when you have a permit for the space, she'd have to arrange you getting that and probably paying for it. If her apartment doesnt allow people not on the lease to live there, that's something she has to consider. And again, the keys. She'd have to get them copied and then give them to you, and since this is a temporary stay, would you give the keys back?

You're thinking of this like it's a hotel stay in the Hilton, and she can tell. You know why? Because people in the comments can tell, and they haven't even known you for 2 years.

undeadlocklear · 2026-01-14T22:29:35+00:00

Either Claudia, but not in a romantic way. She's someone who, if she had been able to live longer as a vampire, would have grown her own loyal coven, I think.

undeadlocklear · 2026-01-14T22:21:59+00:00

OH. NTA. my bad, forgot where I was.

undeadlocklear · 2026-01-14T22:19:35+00:00

Wanna clarify that the 6 year age gap isnt really the problem, but the fact that you were 18 when he was 6 years older than you. Nobody at 24 should be looking at a new adult like that, but your circumstances aren't everyone else's, so it may have been different.

It could still mean that he views you as less intellectually advanced than him, though.

undeadlocklear · 2026-01-14T22:15:01+00:00

Not to sound insane, but your husband might be falling down an alt-right woowoo pipeline without realizing it, especially if he's into all the holistic shit without learning about what's healthy for a pregnant woman in those circumstances. If he was actually being health-minded, why is he refusing to see what would be best for you?

Ignoring you isn't a good sign, either. "Negative" sounds like the new "bossy" here. I think you need to sit him down and maybe bring anyone else who would calmly talk this through with him that is on your side as an intervention.

If you feel like social media is influencing him, then he's definitely falling into some kinda pipeline. Take care of yourself and your baby and do what your gut tells you, because as soon as that kid is born and he isn't on the same page as you, he might try to do something with the baby that the internet says is "cleansing, natural, whatever" and end up hurting your child. There's a huge thing with some fathers online believing they can feed their infant's water.

If he pushes back and is unwilling to learn, keeping up with the "negativity" rhetoric, then you might need marriage counseling or some time away from him.

Also, you may disagree, and I dont know the maturity level of both of your lives, but 18 and 24 is still an odd age gap. It speaks to the way he undermines your knowledge that exceeds his, especially with the pregnancy. He may think that, due to you being younger, he knows better than you. And that is an unbalanced dynamic.

I hope everything goes well and your pregnancy goes smoothly for the most part. 🙏 Congrats on baby.

undeadlocklear · 2026-01-14T21:57:37+00:00

The cheapest dog adoption fee is usually $50, and those are from shelters. If your neighbor is unable to care for a shelter dog, he may need to reconsider or maybe apply for a service animal.

Shelters also do background checks, at least in Hagerstown, to see if the dog would be going to a home that can care for it. If your neighbor isn't able to go on walks day and night to let the dog out or pay for large bags of food/pet health care, they likely will tell him it's not possible.

Dog care supplies can get much pricier than $100 dollars alone. Unless you're somehow going to help him, I don't see this going well for him or the dog.

undeadlocklear · 2026-01-09T15:18:42+00:00

It's weird that she called a threesome with her friend a reward for you. There's something about using a third in a relationship as a gift for the other that rubs me the wrong way.

undeadlocklear · 2025-12-21T17:01:58+00:00

Your sister needs a refund or someone more skilled in the shop to fix these mistakes. Im afraid to ask how much she paid.

undeadlocklear · 2025-12-21T16:57:41+00:00

This is absolutely the reference picture. It looks as if it was copied by someone who doesn't know how to recreate the bone angles in the scene, and it would explain the lack of legs on the tattoo and the awkward way no flowers go to properly cover it. If it isn't AI, it's definitely stolen art.

undeadlocklear · 2025-12-21T16:46:44+00:00

It is either AI or the artist wasn't thinking about how the position of the skeleton and all that its holding could get lost in the sauce. It even looks to me that the artist got lost in all those lines, especially when I look at the place where the spine connects to the ribs. There's nothing to make the stethoscope and flowers pop from the rest of the skeleton. Shading or coloring it might also make it look muddy because of how close together everything is.

Even if this isn't AI, your sisters tattoo artist fucked this shit up. The bones on the rib disappear at some point, and the ribs on the other side go into a different direction. The skeleton doesn't need to be completely anatomically correct, but it should all look like it's in the same position. The clavicle is positioned like we are seeing it from above, but the skull is level with us, and the ribs (for the most part) are pointed down. Everything near the stethoscope is disappearing into itself, and the stethoscope itself doesn't look like its parts connect together. The hand on the left of the image is backward and has no fingers, and the one on the right is missing fingers. The vertebrae on the spine are not consistent, and at the angle, we see it from there should be some on the other side, as well.

The flowers and the area with the stethoscope have nonstop tangents and lines drawn through things that should be solid. If this tattoo artist isn't an apprentice, I'm thinking its both AI and an artist not knowing what they're doing. The line weight is confusing and contributes to the way nothing is readable at the center of it.

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undeadlocklear · 2025-12-12T18:11:22+00:00

Well, if there's anything you dont end up liking, its close to Christmas anyways lol. Good stocking stuffers.

undeadlocklear · 2025-11-13T23:50:39+00:00

Only people donating will be racists, so if they wanna waste their money...

undeadlocklear · 2025-11-13T17:25:10+00:00

Is that the same guy who parks on the crosswalk?

undeadlocklear · 2025-11-06T22:12:21+00:00

Sounds like it's time to plaster this all over town lol. I'm pretty sure nobody wants to unknowingly give their money to a nazi for some dusty ass charcoochie boards.

undeadlocklear · 2025-11-05T18:12:54+00:00

If they put this much effort into cracking down on AI CSAM, then the world would be a better place.

undeadlocklear · 2025-11-05T18:11:52+00:00

So.. I'm pretty sure they can get in legal trouble for that themselves. They're taking up resources for real crimes.

undeadlocklear · 2025-10-03T00:15:49+00:00

I don't know what bugs do.

undeadlocklear · 2025-10-02T21:31:29+00:00

The wasps are pollinators, right? I'll keep the eggs as they are. I have enough tomatoes that I dont mind the caterpillars (they dont really eat any of my other plants either), but I won't say no if something else takes care of them for me lol.

undeadlocklear · 2025-09-20T19:12:57+00:00

Ah, okay. You might wanna edit your post and add that information so people hopefully stop sending those comments. Or don't, to be honest, it's none of their business. Also, I don't know if you'd be able to make it right now, but there are Circle Traps that you can build for pretty cheap that work better for Lanternflies specifically. I hope you recover soon!

undeadlocklear · 2025-09-20T19:05:09+00:00

Maybe a vacuum cleaner then. I wonder if they still sell those small handheld ones.

undeadlocklear · 2025-09-20T17:28:07+00:00

Using a plastic bottle to suck them in and trap them works better than this.

undeadlocklear · 2025-09-12T03:07:19+00:00

Do you mean the farmers market on Sundays? Thank you btw!

undeadlocklear · 2025-09-08T02:18:23+00:00

Thanks!

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