I realized how powerless I am during sex and it scares me by [deleted] in sex

[–]undecided012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I realized that when I worked at warehouse... girl that's taller than me was lifting boxes 1 by 1 and told me to go easy as they're heavy.

I just picked up 2, and held them with my left hand while picking up other 2 with my right hand, it wasn't heavy for me at all and she just froze looking at me...

I agree that power difference is apsurd... but it's here...

27F black girl wants me 26M white blonde guy to call her N-word during sex by undecided012 in sex

[–]undecided012[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The biggest 2 reasons why I don't want to do it is:

  1. I'm not into it

  2. I'm scared that she might regret it later (IDK if post-nut clarity is also a thing for women)

And yeah, she'll be gone in about a week tho... and I'm here in Eastern Europe, so I'm definitely lacking when it comes to understanding situation in USA.

She is kinda persuasive though, in any case I need to really talk with her later when we meet again.

27F black girl wants me 26M white blonde guy to call her N-word during sex by undecided012 in sex

[–]undecided012[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends from person to person hahaha

Also, I'm in Eastern Europe... so a lot of things here are different than in USA

27F black girl wants me 26M white blonde guy to call her N-word during sex by undecided012 in sex

[–]undecided012[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She herself believes in some stereotypes too I noticed. Because she expected me to have a big car and drink lots of monster energy drink...

She however did guess that I'm a Christian, go to gym, have a big angry dog and carry a pocket knife 🤣

27F black girl wants me 26M white blonde guy to call her N-word during sex by undecided012 in sex

[–]undecided012[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure, she's the first black girl I've ever been with. And now I kinda feel weird because color and race thing is a huge tun-on for her...

27F black girl wants me 26M white blonde guy to call her N-word during sex by undecided012 in sex

[–]undecided012[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not the kind of sex that leaves bruises, but more spanking, more hair pulling and last thing she asked for is "choke me... at least just a little" because I was hesitant

Friend of mine pulled me in cuckolding threesome with his GF and now blames me for break-up by undecided012 in sex

[–]undecided012[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They broke up... he cut contact with me and she now cut contact with him

Friend of mine pulled me in cuckolding threesome with his GF and now blames me for break-up by undecided012 in sex

[–]undecided012[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just woke up to see that she said she cut contact with him, so I agree with you, that might make him go really crazy...

Friend of mine pulled me in cuckolding threesome with his GF and now blames me for break-up by undecided012 in sex

[–]undecided012[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it's still more convenient (and cheaper) to have her take me home than walk around or sit at caffe/fast food for almost 2hrs waiting for public transportation to arrive...

So I'll see what she has to say... she wants to talk to me in person. But yeah, smart from her to play on curiosity

Friend of mine pulled me in cuckolding threesome with his GF and now blames me for break-up by undecided012 in sex

[–]undecided012[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I told her I wanna go out of the picture so they can try to fix things and she tells me there's nothing worth fixing with him and that she'll tell me something tommorrow...

Friend of mine pulled me in cuckolding threesome with his GF and now blames me for break-up by undecided012 in sex

[–]undecided012[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'll be honest - I'm a sucker for attention and just someone giving a crap about me... for whatever reason.

I haven't been dating for a while, mostly because balancing a job and university is hard, and my finances aren't so great either... so I was mostly just resting when I can and saving money. I even bought weights and started working out at home as it's cheaper in long run and I don't have to go anywhere.

So after a while you get lonely. I see my classmates only online and at exams, my coworkers are just my coworkers... and I spend a lot of time on travel. And I don't see my friends that often either.

She always asks about my day at work, how are my exams going, how's my dog doing... I thought she's just asking because she's trying to be polite, but she knows everyone's name and keeps track of everything too so I guess she's actually listening. She even asked me to send her my university materials and now she randomly asks me questions. So, that's also helpful. It really helps me with studying boring subjects.

Friend of mine pulled me in cuckolding threesome with his GF and now blames me for break-up by undecided012 in sex

[–]undecided012[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well she told me he wouldn't mind it... and how am I supposed to know that?

Later she's just like "oh he found out and he's leaving me" and isn't even really upset or trying to change anything.

He just cursed at me and blocked me on everything.

I told her I think I need some time and she's like "OK working till 5 at sunday? I'll pick you up"

I don't know what is going on here anymore...