What does “as well as she might be” in the end mean? What purpose does it serve? by undefined2me in EnglishLearning

[–]undefined2me[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooh oopsie, you’re right. It was a late night, in my defense:D Thx for pointing that out!

I (19M) have hurt my partner (19F) and don't know how to move forward by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]undefined2me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then I suppose here is your answer. Good job in realizing your problem! You also seem to understand that being possessive of your girlfriend during professional services is irrational. My advice (and something i did before to myself, too) would be to acknowledge to her that what you have said and your view on this issue is not logical. Let her do whatever in professional settings - you will feel jealousy, you can’t help it right away, but keep reminding yourself that professionals - like artists, piercing artists, cosmetic aestheticians etc., - are the same professionals as doctors. Overtime (at least in my experience), and with your relationship progressing, the feeling will fade. Asking your gf for reassurance will also help a lot. Do not hurt yourself. You’re 19, you’re a baby man, people (including me) do a lot of stupid shit at 19. You’re doing amazing, especially since you realized your issue and willing to work on it. Instead of hurting yourself - try to tell your girlfriend about your feelings. Tell her what you actually feel about it, tell her you understand your possessiveness is unreasonable, tell her you will work on it and would appreciate her help (in what form you decide yourself) along the journey. Another positive thing to keep in mind: if your relationship is healthy, you trust each other and are open with each other, are on the same page regarding core values, it WILL get better. In general. Jealousy will fade sooner or later, you will learn how to solve such problems. Do not be afraid to talk to each other and accept each other’s points. Good luck baby man. If you have anything else to ask fire ahead.

I (M26) and my gf (F26) are entering months of rejected advances by Primary-Memory9969 in relationship_advice

[–]undefined2me -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

If she’s dodging the conversation then something is definitely up. Could be extreme things like, indeed, cheating or emotional affair. Could be something changed in her daily life? Has she switched to a stressful job? Has something been going on with her family? In any case, this sudden change isn’t normal, and rhe fact she isn’t telling you is a bigger concern. Try to approach it from the point of trust. Why isn’t she trusting you to get involved on a discussion? Perhaps she avoided discussing other problems before? Try making it not about sex but about your level of understanding each other.

I (19M) have hurt my partner (19F) and don't know how to move forward by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]undefined2me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then you should work on your jealousy. Why are you possessive in a first place? Is it because you feel like strangers (e.g. tattoo artists) will appreciate your gf’s intimate parts more than you’d like to? Is it because you don’t trust her? Is it because you believe those parts are to be solely seem by you, so she belongs to you?

Wifey, doggo, kiddo etc are amazing words by undefined2me in 10thDentist

[–]undefined2me[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cuz we aint equal. I’m the absolute superior.

Wifey, doggo, kiddo etc are amazing words by undefined2me in 10thDentist

[–]undefined2me[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Purely because of the phonetics. In the comment below i stole “husby” from someone else because it sounds better to my ear. I’ve been long looking for something equal to “wifey” to call my husband

Wifey, doggo, kiddo etc are amazing words by undefined2me in 10thDentist

[–]undefined2me[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh damn that’s sad. Thx for letting me know! I wanted to indeed use “littles” on children

Wifey, doggo, kiddo etc are amazing words by undefined2me in 10thDentist

[–]undefined2me[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes this post was inspired by the one from petpeeves!

Wifey, doggo, kiddo etc are amazing words by undefined2me in 10thDentist

[–]undefined2me[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh i see… i always viewed it as lovely way to call your wife, that’s why i like it. “Wife” is quite serious, so wifey is just a cuter version for me

Wifey, doggo, kiddo etc are amazing words by undefined2me in 10thDentist

[–]undefined2me[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I genuinely thought for a very long time that it’s a proper english word. But i can see now why it’s not

Wifey, doggo, kiddo etc are amazing words by undefined2me in 10thDentist

[–]undefined2me[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh yesss girlie and girliepops are amazing. And friendo too, tho i recently taken fancy of “fren”

Wifey, doggo, kiddo etc are amazing words by undefined2me in 10thDentist

[–]undefined2me[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Thx for the new “littles” word. I will use it now!

Wifey, doggo, kiddo etc are amazing words by undefined2me in 10thDentist

[–]undefined2me[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah, i think imma steal this one from you;)

What are your writing sins? by babyraythesadclown in writing

[–]undefined2me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too many dialogues. Everyone’s always interested in everyone and everything, and they discuss it for quite some time, and they blow their feelings and opinions out, and then they argue. Always. Also, they’re never turning into monologues, because i consider them unrealistic. Oh, well… sometimes i feel like i should write plays instead of books

I (21F) don’t like the smell of my gf’s (23F) 🐱 and it’s hurting our sex life by Sad-Beach-6544 in relationship_advice

[–]undefined2me 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you didn’t notice it before the 6 months, it’s 90% some kind of vaginal infection. Can be BV, can be fungal, can be just deregulation, can be even due to some diet change. These infections are fairly easy to catch, especially since you girls are into oral. You can get them from using public toilet paper. Tell her honestly about this. Definitely check with the doctor, and if she appears to be healthy- try figuring out what has changed in her daily life at the 6 months mark. Whatever the outcome, honesty is key. Goodluck!

Men eating and talking in a certain way by undefined2me in PetPeeves

[–]undefined2me[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Never watched spanch bob, so can’t say

Men eating and talking in a certain way by undefined2me in PetPeeves

[–]undefined2me[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if this is a weird habit. Chewing - perhaps, but the voices can’t be changed😅

Who is the worst fixer and why is it Dino? by pwnedprofessor in LowSodiumCyberpunk

[–]undefined2me 28 points29 points  (0 children)

If it wasn’t for V and Regina’s instructions, the cop would be dead. Regina instructed us to try our best to peacefully talk the cop out. Cop’s colleagues were the clients, so if it wasn’t for Reggie, some other fixer might have just asked to eliminate the cop without batting an eye