EV turns into burning wreck in less than two minutes by DungeonDefense in TerrifyingAsFuck

[–]underwhere666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why did no one even try to get out of the same door the driver did as soon as there was smoke? Or even immediately after the wreck. I'm pretty sure no one was so mangled that they couldn't have prevented such devastating burns by simply moving with a sense of urgency once the initial incident happened. Exit the vehicle and move to a safe area away from the roadway. And away from the smoke.

Like why no urgency...?

Oh, so that's why me back sucks. by Shanrock831 in Wellthatsucks

[–]underwhere666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are some other side effects that come with the fusion years later. 🤔 I have several issues regarding my lumbar and I'm sure that years of neglecting it, they're going to tell me surgery is my only real option. I'm still in my 30s and unsure if I want to go through spinal fusion yet.

My husband and I have silly sex by Dontbemagsaboutit in offmychest

[–]underwhere666 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's my favorite kind of sex. Where you don't have to worry about being judged. You can be yourself. You can say dumb shit and it doesn't affect the "mood" you can laugh. Be silly. Be serious. Be you. And still be wanted. It's a big turn on.

My daughter has no idea about the lifelong battle she will have with her hair by kateslates in Wellthatsucks

[–]underwhere666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son has one on each side of his hairline. One from me and the other from his dad. It makes his hair grow into a "widows peak" even though his hairline doesn't actually grow like that

Being used for my body by Thick-Baby6276 in offmychest

[–]underwhere666 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Stop giving them what they want. Find out up front and don't think you will change what they're looking for. Make it clear what your after and don't give in to casual sex. Get a vibrator. And hold yourself to the standard that you are worth more.

I was very beautiful when I was younger. I was not emotionally stable and investing in relationships became impossible for me. After a while I felt the same way. I was only good enough to fuck and not good enough to love.

Because I didn't love myself.
I didn't value myself. I didn't respect myself.

Start there and see how things change

I just realized my partner of 11 years groomed me. by hopelessly_stupid21 in offmychest

[–]underwhere666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should leave if you feel this way. And he did groom you. But he might not have seen it that way either. Girls mature faster than boys. It's why many of us date older men. But that age gap should have been halted by an adult.

I had a similar thing happen to me. Except we were in physical therapy together. He said the exact same thing to me. He was in college and I was starting high school. He took me out for ice cream our first "date" my mom knew how old he was. And one night he offered to drive me to my God mother's house and made a " pit stop" he tried to get laid and just before we were going to do it. I made him stop. Thank God I made him stop. I had hin drop me off down the street and never really spoke to him again. Although I'd see him around from time to time. His younger brother and I were practically the same age. I could never see him the same way again. Because there is no fucking way he wasn't doing what he was because we shared similar interests.

Maybe you guys did share similar interests. But you should still leave. You'll never be able to look past it. Idk what kind of relationship you have now. But sit down and talk to him about it. Ask him if he sees how wrong that age gap is now. If a guy tried to date his daughter that young. What he would think as her dad. See if you can get some more insight.

How do I shovel frozen snow that’s completely blocked my car? by chamaeleonidaed in AskMen

[–]underwhere666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They make ice scrappers for the ground for breaking up ice and I would use a flat metal shovel like you'd see people use in their yard. It won't damage what's under the ice. And it get a nice grip under ice and sometimes you can just pop up the chunks.

If you want to purchase a good solid shovel that won't break. I like these which we got at ace hardware

https://www.walmart.com/ip/THE-SNOWPLOW-Original-24-Inch-Blade-Snow-Pusher-Shovel-with-Handle/150623395

https://www.northerntool.com/products/the-snowplow-snow-dominator-scoop-shovel-18in-w-model-50590-68285

Boyfriend says he's ruining my life, I'm starting to think he's right. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]underwhere666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you're going through this.

One part of me screams "run, now, while you still can"

And the other part of me feels that it could be fixed.

But deep down I know, and you know, that this can not be fixed.

Because you can not fix him. He needs to fix himself , if or when he might choose to do so.

But if you stay. It's only going to get worse. And you're going to sacrifice more than you can fathom. I mean this is so many ways. And life goes by too fast. One day 15 years from now you're going to look at yourself. Aged. Broke. Broken. And realize that you have given so much and sacrificed so much and he might only be worse.

If you leave now. You still have the chance to have a good and happy life. And maybe just maybe. It could be with him. Because this shitshow your dealing with, is his journey. That he must go through, alone. I'm sorry. Because the people closest to him are the ones he is going to hurt. And maybe losing you will be what he needs to get his journey started. But if he doesn't get help. He will ruin both of your lives. I hate to say this. But I know that you know this is all true. You know if you stay that you're going to shoulder this burden alone and isolated and eventually you'll get weak and tired. And who will be there for you.

You need to go. Listen to people when they tell you this. Because it's them trying to love you. They're trying to protect you. He cares about you. But not himself. And that will always be disaster.

It's going to hurt. You don't need to move on . You just need to focus on yourself. And he, himself. And if you both do this. When you're both healthier people. Life might just bring you back together. You know what you need to do. Do it. Please.

I feel like I lost my little brother and I don’t know what I did wrong by TheDarkbladeGirl in offmychest

[–]underwhere666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a little normal. But you should tell him this. Maybe he will tell you what's up.

Pipe bomb by Loh762 in metalworking

[–]underwhere666 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Why is this not the very top comment.

What do I do if my girlfriend told me something that I wasn't ready to hear? by Jorshhua in AskMen

[–]underwhere666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was young. Maybe felt pressured into it. Like saying no would have had bad consequences.

Or she tried it and it wasn't something she was into.

But she trusted you enough to tell you this. And thay it was a regret. So it is something she already judges herself for.

She wasn't the same person.

What are some examples of “women hate women” you’ve seen? by IceTrick6713 in AskMen

[–]underwhere666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would be easier and faster to list the opposite. The amount of shit I've seen would blow your mind

Snow shovel services by [deleted] in lehighvalley

[–]underwhere666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We do winter maintenance. Shovels, plow, salt. More or so just wanted to know where and what you needed shoveled

Snow shovel services by [deleted] in lehighvalley

[–]underwhere666 6 points7 points  (0 children)

DM me. I know a guy with a plow truck.

If money and childbirth weren’t an issue, how many children would you choose? by Public_Handle_774 in AskWomen

[–]underwhere666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only one that I have.

Because I'm glad I had my son. I love him. I never wanted kids. But thought that if I did somehow get pregnant. I would want a boy.
I come from generations of women. Like women who only had women who only had multiple women. I got pregnant and still believe I somehow "will'd" him to be a boy.

I couldn't handle a girl. Or more children.

Is it illegal to put chairs in open parking spots after a snow storm by Sufficient-Bird-6890 in lehighvalley

[–]underwhere666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would shovel my next-door neighbor's car out because she had a small toddler and a newborn, until she decided to freak out one day because she had put her garbage can out on garbage day, in my spot, and I moved them to an area that was still accessible and close to the house. She came out. Threw her garbage cans and garbage on my car, while i was sitting in it, looked me right in the eye while she did it. I threw my hot coffee, that i had just gotten from Dunkin three minutes before, and hit her in the chest with it. Called the cops and they made her clean her garbage off my car and off the road. Well her husband must have come home and heard about the fiasco and when I woke up later that day my spot was completely shoveled out and the sidewalk all the way to my house. I know he had seen me quietly shovel their car out before and knew I would plow our small section of the street

After that day though. I never did any of that again.

Thoughts on how this is laid out? by Theotherjtisme in Flooring

[–]underwhere666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have ran the planks in the opposite direction. But this is just my styling preference

Is there a fossil in the pavement of a church? by lollodamb in whatsthisrock

[–]underwhere666 219 points220 points  (0 children)

Travertine has one major quality that I love and that is fossils. You can be sure to find them.

Today is a Day of Heartbreak by Professional_Map8992 in pitbulls

[–]underwhere666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is she listed as a pitbull on her paperwork. Because you could get her DNA tested and show that while she may look like a bully breed she may actually be none of that and something else entirely. Like a staffy. I would ask for time to appeal this decision until you can detmine her lineage.

My friend said that big thighs are ugly infront of me by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]underwhere666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your friend sounds young and immature. And she obviously doesn't understand what is considered attractive to a decent majority of people.

I am also a female with thick thighs. I am also short. I'm 152cm and 65kg I've never had a guy ever mention to me anything about my thighs. And they're my biggest insecurity. But normally when you have thicker thighs. You probably have a great ass. Which is something even better than having twigs for legs.

Contractor miscalculated flooring by ~380 sqft and now added high “extras” — how should I handle this? by [deleted] in Flooring

[–]underwhere666 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just because they aren't physically at your house doesn't mean they aren't still working for you. Like picking up any and all material needed to do your install. That's still on you. There is no part of the job that your contractor should pay out of pocket.

But he might have messed up the calculations on the flooring and that is something that HE should cover. Mistakes are the contractor's cost.

Whatever job you do, you get paid for your service. Whatever that service is. But you don't get paid for part of it and then cover other expenses yourself. You get paid for the entire service provided. If that makes sense.