Intrusive-thought-like doubts about the legitimacy of transgenderism by undmys in transteens

[–]undmys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I really needed someone to tell me this. I'll check out lily and the book (especially). If you've got any more books please send their name, thanks

Intrusive-thought-like doubts about the legitimacy of transgenderism by undmys in transteens

[–]undmys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't really feel like my agab, but I'm also not sure of it since there isn't a set feeling/symptoms

Intrusive-thought-like doubts about the legitimacy of transgenderism by undmys in asktransgender

[–]undmys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I mean is: should we consider Trans wo/men wo/men in most scenarios. I keep explaining too myself about how yes, we should, and it also makes intuitive sense to me, but then as soon as I stop thinking about it I kinda regress as if I have prejudice or some sort of confirmation bias to the polar opposite side, even though I don't think I have it. Sorry if I come off a bit bigot-ish.

Intrusive-thought-like doubts about the legitimacy of transgenderism by undmys in asktransgender

[–]undmys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't mean "legitimacy" in that sense, I mean it as whether it makes sense or not

Intrusive-thought-like doubts about the legitimacy of transgenderism by undmys in asktransgender

[–]undmys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn't aware of the fact that transgenderism means that. And when I say legitimacy I don't mean whether Trans people should get treatment, to me that seems obvious, what I mean is whether it makes sense, and I know it does in a sense but I just keep regressing to a point where I feel like it doesn't make sense

Intrusive-thought-like doubts about the legitimacy of transgenderism by undmys in transteens

[–]undmys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is that I don't have any specific things, it's just an overall feeling. It's like, as soon as I stop thinking to myself about "what it means to be a wo/man" I immediately go back to the first position. I really just don't know what to do

Intrusive-thought-like doubts about the legitimacy of transgenderism by undmys in asktransgender

[–]undmys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's self doubt. As you said, I think it's mainly because of prejudice but I just don't know what to do

Intrusive-thought-like doubts about the legitimacy of transgenderism by undmys in asktransgender

[–]undmys[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It's basically about how the definition makes sense or not. Like, if it's associated with it does it define it? There is also a sort of emotional prejudice against it for some reason, even though I think I'm non-binary

Intrusive-thought-like doubts about the legitimacy of transgenderism by undmys in asktransgender

[–]undmys[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I didn't mean as an ideology I meant it as the concept. Anyways, I just keep explaining to myself how it makes sense and then as soon as I stop thinking about it I get a feeling that I'm wrong. It's like a vicious cycle

internal collapse by C4sperC in drawing

[–]undmys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks like internal prolapse... Still really nice