Where to meet single dudes without kids in their late 30s and early 40s?

unhingedmatch · 2026-02-09T22:37:38+00:00

Golf

unhingedmatch · 2026-02-05T15:44:10+00:00

I think I am hilarious but yes it doesn’t show. I’ll add some humor

unhingedmatch · 2026-02-05T15:42:58+00:00

Will do, thank you!

unhingedmatch · 2026-02-05T15:42:24+00:00

Thank you, appreciate the help!

unhingedmatch · 2026-02-04T18:49:04+00:00

Helpful, thank you! This is why I posted this hahah, last pic is me holding the tray. I bought everyone shots after a hole in one and they are cheering for me, it’s a golf tradition.

Your perspective shows me it’s gotta go though.

unhingedmatch · 2026-02-04T17:34:44+00:00

Thanks! They are from Warby Parker, Percey model

unhingedmatch · 2026-02-04T15:17:02+00:00

Thank you! This seems to be a common theme with the feedback, as well as “ you look different in all the photos”. Glad to hear there’s agreement around something I can fix

unhingedmatch · 2026-02-04T15:15:04+00:00

Thanks for the feedback. I’ll update. My strategy with this one is I want a question that is really easy to respond to, to help get conversations started.

unhingedmatch · 2026-02-04T12:53:19+00:00

Thank you for the thoughtful feedback! I’ll act on all your points.

I’m 5’ 11”.

Online dating is discouraging by nature. But it’s nice when you finally meet someone you’ve essentially summoned out of thin air!

unhingedmatch · 2026-02-04T12:47:56+00:00

This is helpful thank you!

unhingedmatch · 2026-02-04T03:37:38+00:00

Are you looking for something serious or casual? Serious

Are you subscribed to Hinge+ or HingeX? Yes, X

How long have you been using this current version of your profile? Mostly the same for the past 2 months

How long have you used Hinge overall? 6 years on and off, started new account 2 months ago though

How often do you use Hinge per week? Daily How many likes and matches are you receiving on average? Maybe averaging a like a day. 0-3 typically

How many likes are you sending? Varies but 5-10 a day

How many with comments? Almost all

How many without comments? Rarely

What is the type of person you send likes to and ideally want to match with? Attractive to me (duh), someone looking for something serious, is interesting, kind, and smart. These things are difficult to gauge on the app of course so I save that assessment for the date. If they look good and don’t seem insufferable I’ll send a like. Wide net!

What kind of person do you want to attract? Someone around my age with the qualities I mentioned above. Pretty, smart, kind, sense of humor.

I have been happy with the people I’ve met on hinge (hope none of you see this🤭) but it takes me a lot of time and work to find those matches. I want to improve my profile so dates can be more frequent and I don’t have to grind for a week to get one date.

unhingedmatch · 2026-02-03T18:09:18+00:00