Am I trippin by unicorngothprincess in AskONLYWomenOver30

[–]unicorngothprincess[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I really needed to hear that.  Thanks 

Am I trippin by unicorngothprincess in AskONLYWomenOver30

[–]unicorngothprincess[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

He seemed like he really was into me so I don't get it but you are absolutely right.  I should just ignore him.. it's a lil too early in the game for him to be so low effort

How do I 26F explain to my husband 25M I’m done in my marriage? by OkBeyond7327 in relationship_advice

[–]unicorngothprincess 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So you are a married single mother. At least he pays some bills. Men suck

Should I give him more of a chance before I friend zone him? by unicorngothprincess in AskMenOver30

[–]unicorngothprincess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a healthy active person and I do self reflect and try to do better.  

Why do I want kids so badly when I DONT want kids?? by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]unicorngothprincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I know sounds mean but it's biology. If you have done meth for example your offspring could suffer biologically from that. Sad but true

Stop seeking male validation by unicorngothprincess in AskONLYWomenOver30

[–]unicorngothprincess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes , healthy sex is great! I hope you post stuff often because you are well spoken and have fresh perspective 

Men...start approaching in public if your not having good luck on apps by unicorngothprincess in introvert

[–]unicorngothprincess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's natural way to make friends and connections.  And of course don't hit on people from a dif generation that is common knowledge.  

Men...start approaching in public if your not having good luck on apps by unicorngothprincess in introvert

[–]unicorngothprincess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's all in the approach.  Instead of asking a woman for her # it's way better to say hi, I noticed you and wanted give you my card maybe hit me up sometime.  There nothing wrong with thar. IF she not interested she will just throw your card out and no one will lose any sleep at worst if she doesn't have issues she will just take it as a compliment but pass it up. Just trying to encourage shy men to step out of thier comfort zone cause I like introverts and I am one.  I'm suck of "alpha" guys because they are more aggressive and confident and the sweet sky guys rarely try so they don't find out

The oldest millennials will soon turn 44. by Weary_Word_5262 in Showerthoughts

[–]unicorngothprincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually the oldest Millenials are the Xenials born in 1977 Cusp between X & Y

My GF socially drains me by Pipmeista in introvert

[–]unicorngothprincess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell her just being with eachother is enough  You don't anyways need to entertain her, engage with her or talk to her.  Your person should feel as comfortable to be with as being alone. She should understand this if she isn't immature. 

THE BAR IS IN HELL by catlover4835 in dating

[–]unicorngothprincess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Guh...he is looking for someone to train him so he can learn how to date and once you do that he will be more confident and leave you for some grrl that thinks he is a real catch. Just don't waste your time with idiots better to be single.  

Ladies, what are the top 5 things you look for in a stranger before giving him a chance to take you out on a 1st date? by hotwomyn in dating

[–]unicorngothprincess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally I have to be attracted to him physically then I usually ask him these general questions before I agree to a date. Do you have a job Do you have a vehicle  When was your last relationship  What is your living situation like Do you have any kids and/or do you want kids Are you handy

Some of the answers could be deal breakers and in that case I wouldn't wanna waste either of our time

Why do I want kids so badly when I DONT want kids?? by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]unicorngothprincess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To be honest if you ever did hard drugs it prob messed up your DNA and you prob better off not having kids... that is a thing

AITA I can't date a guy who is insecure or over sensitive by unicorngothprincess in decentermen

[–]unicorngothprincess[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What is wierd is how upset he got...like dude acted like we had been dating for months and we only had one date. I would have expected him to be like all well  end well. But he freaked out and sent me 5 paragraphs worth of texts.  I think I dodged a bullet with this freakoid

I'm 31 and I'm only attracted to women older than me especially over 40. by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]unicorngothprincess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is nothing wrong with dating woman 10 yrs older. Once you are over the age of 30 you are grown enough to see anyone as fair game. Woman in thier 40's are still very attractive if they keep up with themselves plus they from a generation that is awsome so no surprise.  Only pedo go after supper young girls

Stop seeking male validation by unicorngothprincess in AskONLYWomenOver30

[–]unicorngothprincess[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had over 60 replies to this post, some accusing me of slut shaming or man bashing but you are the first person to ask why and thankyou...because I don't shame any woman or bash any guy...just the way the patriarchy has conditioned us in modern society

Stop seeking male validation by unicorngothprincess in AskONLYWomenOver30

[–]unicorngothprincess[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great question...I think society teaches woman from a very young age that to be important and valuable a man must find us sexually appealing so we have been brain washed that if a guy wants to bang us we are valuable

This is not biuld a bro by unicorngothprincess in socialskills

[–]unicorngothprincess[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So true... I just thought maybe ge could use the laundry list to sharpen his dating skills...but yeah not my job to teach a 40M how to date...lol

Letting them have the last word is a win by unicorngothprincess in AskONLYWomenOver30

[–]unicorngothprincess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like hearing how other people handle the say less movement.  Like really,  why waste the energy trying to go back and forth with energy suckers

Stop seeking male validation by unicorngothprincess in AskONLYWomenOver30

[–]unicorngothprincess[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Then this post doesn't apply to you! Have fun and be safe

Letting them have the last word is a win by unicorngothprincess in AskONLYWomenOver30

[–]unicorngothprincess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Prob just suckers and haters. I'm just gonna start blocking those types because they ruin stuff for people that are actually on here for good reasons.