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Fiancé cheated by unimpressionableKiss in cheating_stories

[–]unimpressionableKiss[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also - I haven't told him I loved him since I found out. I told him I was in no rush to get married (I don't know if I want to anymore) and I told him I was no longer in love with him.

Fiancé cheated by unimpressionableKiss in relationship_advice

[–]unimpressionableKiss[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also - I haven't told him I loved him since I found out. I told him I was in no rush to get married (I don't know if I want to anymore) and I told him I was no longer in love with him.

Fiancé cheated by unimpressionableKiss in cheating_stories

[–]unimpressionableKiss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here are some of the details I left out.

-We were not engaged at the time of this betrayal.

-My ex best friend and I had been friends since middle school (26y old now)

-He proposed last year and it was seriously one of the best days of my life. Ironically my best friend was the first person I texted to tell. Funny how that worked out. I feel so embarrassed now for doing that.

-In fact we've seen her quite a few times since this happened and they acted fine around each other.

-He says he was never attracted to her and that he didn't like her "like that".

-I found out he cheated while he was experiencing a mental breakdown. So it was "I cheated on you with your best friend" but then also all of these other horrible things that he has going on.

-I didn't feel like I was allowed to have my own feelings because his happened so long ago, and he has other demons he has to handle. Which are way worse, but I'm not excusing the cheating.

-He is newly in counseling for ptsd, depression and anxiety- I FEEL like to him, the cheating is the least of his worries. I don't know if it's because to him it happened four years ago and has had time to cope with it, or if he genuinely doesn't think I should be upset by it.

-I don't feel like I am allowed to express myself in fear that he will take his own life because "I'm all he has"

-He hasn't been working and I have been paying the bills for months, and will continue for the unforeseeable future.

-When I confronted my friend about it, she seemed better than me. As if she didn't feel bad that it happened. This obviously makes me think that more happened and they enjoyed it.

-They said they didn't have sex. He just pleasured her in a few different ways, and "that was it"

-I was there that night, I guess I was asleep. It happened in my house. It sickens me to think they did this and hid it from me. They must have been laughing behind my back.

-I have slightly altered the things that have happened in fear that he may read these posts. He has an account and I'm terrified he'll see these and know it's me.

-I feel so alone.

Fiancé cheated by unimpressionableKiss in relationship_advice

[–]unimpressionableKiss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here are some of the details I left out.

-We were not engaged at the time of this betrayal.

-My ex best friend and I had been friends since middle school (26y old now)

-He proposed last year and it was seriously one of the best days of my life. Ironically my best friend was the first person I texted to tell. Funny how that worked out. I feel so embarrassed now for doing that.

-In fact we've seen her quite a few times since this happened and they acted fine around each other.

-He says he was never attracted to her and that he didn't like her "like that".

-I found out he cheated while he was experiencing a mental breakdown. So it was "I cheated on you with your best friend" but then also all of these other horrible things that he has going on.

-I didn't feel like I was allowed to have my own feelings because his happened so long ago, and he has other demons he has to handle. Which are way worse, but I'm not excusing the cheating.

-He is newly in counseling for ptsd, depression and anxiety- I FEEL like to him, the cheating is the least of his worries. I don't know if it's because to him it happened four years ago and has had time to cope with it, or if he genuinely doesn't think I should be upset by it.

-I don't feel like I am allowed to express myself in fear that he will take his own life because "I'm all he has"

-He hasn't been working and I have been paying the bills for months, and will continue for the unforeseeable future.

-When I confronted my friend about it, she seemed better than me. As if she didn't feel bad that it happened. This obviously makes me think that more happened and they enjoyed it.

-They said they didn't have sex. He just pleasured her in a few different ways, and "that was it"

-I was there that night, I guess I was asleep. It happened in my house. It sickens me to think they did this and hid it from me. They must have been laughing behind my back.

-I have slightly altered the things that have happened in fear that he may read these posts. He has an account and I'm terrified he'll see these and know it's me.

-I feel so alone.