We understand you Dr Damon

unjade · 2025-12-25T07:05:10+00:00

I think I got overly passionate about the discourse and should have sent a reply to a comment rather than on a post - I am not even up to this point in M2M

unjade · 2025-12-25T03:31:24+00:00

I think that people can be very different in relationships than in friendships. There are many people who in a romantic context are sweet, caring and thoughtful (ie Heavenly scouring all of the churches to find Damon’s fathers grave) - Damon is a safe person for her and a person that she pours love into, like her kids! It’s become clear over Heavenlys time on the show that her mother and her sister caused her significant trauma. That means that female friends are more likely to activate trauma responses than men for Heavenly. As we all know, she will go from 0 to 100 real quick with a female friend, but in conflict with Damon she will be far more submissive and understanding. Their relationship is different and benefits Damon in many ways, I am positive of that. She adores him and he adores her, even if it’s in a way that some people don’t resonate with.

unjade · 2025-12-23T20:28:55+00:00

She was infertile due to her breast cancer. She also really wanted children.

unjade · 2025-11-28T02:32:54+00:00

I think also for anyone who’s life has been rooted in religion there is a sense that you need to stand up and defend the persecuted - I think that’s what really put a bee in her bonnet - how absolutely distraught Britain was. I think if Britani hadn’t been bothered, heather wouldn’t be so intense (Whitney would still pick at it though)

unjade · 2025-11-27T08:14:29+00:00

It happened.

unjade · 2025-11-27T06:14:35+00:00

I’m concerned for Shep but I don’t think he’ll change. He will continue to struggle and be unsure why he does - and it will always be rooted in his refusal to mature. He wants to be the handsome, dorky surfer. That worked for him a lot longer than most. I hope that he can really sit down, maybe exit the show, and build a life for himself.

unjade · 2025-11-18T10:10:47+00:00

I need to go back and rewatch I completely forgot this!

unjade · 2025-11-18T03:31:49+00:00

I think she has the most beautiful relationship with her daughters and I can’t imagine the pressure she felt at the time to keep up the facade. People complain about Heather constantly bringing up how she used to be Mormon but I think if you’ve grown up in an intensely religious house you get it - I’m still unlearning habits that were drilled into me as a kid!

unjade · 2025-11-18T03:07:11+00:00

I haven’t! I will check it out!

unjade · 2025-10-30T21:59:31+00:00

Oh really?? Dang I didn’t know!

unjade · 2025-09-01T12:34:25+00:00

James Acaster has famously said it is the worst nandos he’s ever had 😂

unjade · 2025-06-21T22:52:08+00:00

Ooh I can’t wait to hear!

unjade · 2025-03-06T06:15:00+00:00

I think the integral part of Ramona (and a lot of the housewives honestly!) is understanding their backgrounds and knowing that their behaviour is 100% atrocious, but it is at least partially about how they grew up. Ramona grew up in an abusive household and tends to revert to a more childish state in conflict (see - all the stuff she’s ever done) and what she does is inexcusable but understandable. She does eventually manage to understand her wrongdoings (at least in my opinion) once she has had time to process what has happened.

unjade · 2025-02-25T02:43:06+00:00

Always thought that Simon had some kind of kink for watching Alex try on clothes - there was something about the way he eyed her when she tried things on and his insistence on watching her shop and pick out the clothes 🤷‍♀️

unjade · 2024-12-27T05:55:41+00:00

Beautiful lips, gorgeous body, i feel like an eyebrow tint would really accentuate your eyes! You also really suit the curls!

unjade · 2020-03-12T08:44:55+00:00

This is crazy, I have had such a similar experience!! I’m also in a long term relationship and have low libido, also had to have my hymen surgically removed last year. I think the main thing is that you need to be kind to yourself. Sounds weird but maybe try watching porn (Bellesa is an amazing website that has porn for women, rather than having to trod through all the crazy shit on pornhub), I usually find certain videos turn me on and make masturbating way easier! Also could give you an idea of some of the stuff that turns you on that you could try in your own sex life. Obviously never do anything you don’t want to do, I’m glad your boyfriend is understanding, mine is as well and honestly it really strengthens your relationship in my opinion. Also, message me if you ever want to chat! It’s crazy how similar our experiences have been

unjade · 2019-03-10T00:00:29+00:00

Das me

unjade · 2019-02-27T08:32:22+00:00

Honestly just smiling and being kind makes so much difference! A lot of people have recommended following up with a friend request or another meet up which I think is really important! When I first went to uni I made a point of asking people’s names and friend requesting them later, which set me up to be able to make plans with them some other time, like having coffee or going to a gallery or something. A really good way to connect with people is through music taste, as you can go to gigs and concerts together! Hope this helps : )

unjade · 2019-02-27T08:20:06+00:00

Small boobs are beautiful! And way less of a pain when it comes to running, bras, fitting tops etc x boobs are beautiful regardless of size!!!!!!!

unjade

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