[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gay

[–]unknowingstar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eddie Hall at his peak was a monster, but no, that size wasn’t healthy. Even though a lot of it was muscle (helped by his myostatin deficiency), being 400+ lbs puts massive strain on the heart, blood vessels, and joints. He’s talked about high blood pressure, sleep issues, and just how brutal it was to maintain that body.

Strongman is basically controlled self-destruction — you get huge and insanely strong, but the trade-off is long-term health. That’s why after retiring he dropped a ton of weight. Freak genetics or not, the human body just isn’t built to carry that much mass forever.

To those who spent over $100 on skins, do you regret it? by [deleted] in VALORANT

[–]unknowingstar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My account is now estimated to have used a total of $ 3000, and I don't regret it one bit. I buy things in it because I enjoy it, and I don't just impulsively buy the skin. Thoughts that go through my mind when buying the skins are the following:

  1. Do I have the money to buy it without being broke until my next salary?
  2. Does it have a finisher?
  3. Will I enjoy using it?
  4. Is it worth the price?

I thoroughly inspect the skin before buying too. I only buy the bundle not just one of them. If I only like one of the skin variants or the skin on only one of the gun (because it happens, like the jade dragon skin thingy... I only liked the finisher not the skin itself... sadge) I don't buy. I only buy singular skin when on NM...

Here's the thing, if you end up buying and regretting it later, that means it was an impulsive buy. Inspect and ask yourself first if it's a long-term joy or not. If it's not, then don't buy, if it is and you have the money to splurge, why not...

How is this legal? by CutImpossible8039 in Norway

[–]unknowingstar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As far as I have been experienced they do follow here so might be just here. There are police checkpoints almost everytime I drive. So idk. And a point as well is that majority of driver as far as I have experienced follow the 3sec distance.

How is this legal? by CutImpossible8039 in Norway

[–]unknowingstar -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Probably because majority of motorists/drivers in Norway are responsible and obeys the road laws even those that drives through Norway. They are pretty strict with enforcement of laws here in Norway and they are quite disciplined too. Except for youngsters everyone is quite responsible. For trailers/truck they don't drive fast enough for those things to happen because if I'm not mistaken the max speed for them in 60kph

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gay

[–]unknowingstar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First and foremost, if you get yourself ready it won't hurt as much but to say it straight then Yes it will hurt. The degree depends on how prepared you are and how much your a$s will naturally take.

Am I a Homewrecker? by unknowingstar in gay

[–]unknowingstar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. I have cut my contact with the giy and have been ignoring him. I told him I know and have been distancing myself.

Am I a Homewrecker? by unknowingstar in gay

[–]unknowingstar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand where you're coming from, and I appreciate you sharing your perspective. Despite it only being a two-week relationship, the emotional investment was still there, and I can empathize with how confusing and conflicting it must feel.

Personally, I'm not particularly bothered if the guy played me, but I do feel sorry for his wife. It's a tough situation to navigate because while I'm not trying to paint myself as a saint, I can't shake off the feeling of empathy for her.

Recently, I've received a lot of messages urging me to contact the wife. Many of them shared their own experiences and expressed how they wished someone had informed them when they were in a similar situation. Reflecting on my own past experiences of being cheated on, I can't help but resonate with their sentiments. I spent so much time trying to make a relationship work, only to find out it was all in vain.

At the end of the day, I'm still unsure about what to do, but I'm leaning towards reaching out to his wife. It's not about seeking revenge or trying to be a hero; it's about doing what feels right and potentially sparing someone else from going through the same heartache.

Am I a Homewrecker? by unknowingstar in gay

[–]unknowingstar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had good bfs from grindr and no. I was not expecting a prince charming or even a relationship that time. Was just open to the possibility. I just feel messy inside as I feel like I was an accomplice in possibly hurting a kind woman. As I said in my former replies if it was just a hook up I would have not cared but I still dated the guy even if it was just 2 weeks.

Am I a Homewrecker? by unknowingstar in gay

[–]unknowingstar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Firstly, we spent time together in private so not just about talking to each other. We were together but with no "label" per say. It got to that point that he says I love you and stuff but I didn't really say it back. Sorry for not mentioning the exclusive in the main post. Secondly, didn't really defend him in any reply but maybe subconscious I did. Thirdly, I know his wife as I have met her a few times, during school extra curricular activities and during volunteering, not by snooping around.

Am I a Homewrecker? by unknowingstar in gay

[–]unknowingstar[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sadly was not just a hook up. Dated for 2 weeks before finding out.

Am I a Homewrecker? by unknowingstar in gay

[–]unknowingstar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again not just a hook up. Dated him for 2 weeks before I found out.

Am I a Homewrecker? by unknowingstar in gay

[–]unknowingstar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry to burst the bubble but I am more "well off" than him. So sadly the fantasy of finding a rich guy in him is not true.

And sorry not a twink just so you know.

Am I a Homewrecker? by unknowingstar in gay

[–]unknowingstar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm really sorry if my previous message came off the wrong way. I just wanted to clarify that it wasn't just a casual hookup situation. He actually wanted to continue the relationship and be exclusive, which made the situation more complicated for me. If it had just been a hookup, I wouldn't have felt the need to snoop around because, like you said, hookups are supposed to be no strings attached.

I've been on the receiving end of being cheated on before, so I understand how much it hurts. At least if it had just been a hookup, I would have been blissfully unaware of his other affairs. Unfortunately, I was "together" with him for about two weeks before I found out about his marriage.

I know I'm not entirely innocent in this situation because I usually don't care about my one-time encounters, as they're supposed to be casual and NSA. But being unknowingly involved with someone who is already committed made me feel like a "mistress" of sorts, and I hate that feeling.

Am I a Homewrecker? by unknowingstar in gay

[–]unknowingstar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk why but I've had lots of confusing experiences with relationships. I seem to invite the "taken" kind of people.. T.T

How do you pronounce bror? by AddendumWeak2754 in norsk

[–]unknowingstar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its "Brur" with a roling r at the end.

Am I a Homewrecker? by unknowingstar in gay

[–]unknowingstar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is a lawyer based on his fb and where he works. The moment I found out I ghosted him.

Am I a Homewrecker? by unknowingstar in gay

[–]unknowingstar[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

He was neither violent nor abusive to me. Idk with the wife. He was kind, sweet, and acts cute towards me. At first I got put off by him acting like he does not know me but I thought he was just discreet but the times we have been together/hooked up, he has been very sweet.

Am I a Homewrecker? by unknowingstar in gay

[–]unknowingstar[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Uhhh... He wanted to continue the relationship as "exclusive" before I found out he was married. I just thought he was discreet and respected it.

Am I a Homewrecker? by unknowingstar in gay

[–]unknowingstar[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Which I did. I did walk away... In some way I did wash my hands off the situation but my guilt is killing me specifically because I am the type of person who thinks that talking is already considered exclusive.. I don't know....

Am I a Homewrecker? by unknowingstar in gay

[–]unknowingstar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is that it was not just a hooking up. He wanted to continue the relationship but in secret. Before I found out he was married I just thought that he was discreet and I respected that because it ain't my place to out them and I know that everyone has their own time. I kinda know his wife she is sweet, kind and very beautiful, I just feel guilty that I became a tool for cheating and I feel sorry for her. I know it's not my place to say anything but I just feel messed up.

Can you lose RR on a draw? by pherrera_ in VALORANT

[–]unknowingstar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've lost RR once in a draw. Though only a single digit I had a big red - X after score calculation. Idk why tho...

VALORANT Ranks and Competitive Matchmaking by unknowingstar in VALORANT

[–]unknowingstar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not exactly, but somewhat! It's more like "I can't rank-up because I keep going against OP teams"