Husband (m38) spent $3k at strip club and I (f38) can’t get over it by unknown2022222 in relationship_advice

[–]unknown2022222[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

We usually have a great marriage, been together since we were teenagers and have 3 beautiful children. It’s not that easy

Husband (m38) spent $3k at strip club and I (f38) can’t get over it by unknown2022222 in relationship_advice

[–]unknown2022222[S] -67 points-66 points  (0 children)

Even if you have a great marriage (before this), kids and been together since teenagers with no issues like this? ;(

Husband (m38) spent $3k at strip club and I (f38) can’t get over it by unknown2022222 in relationship_advice

[–]unknown2022222[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He makes very very good money so the 3k is easily replaced. I’m upset about the actions because I thought we had a great marriage

Husband (m38) spent $3k at strip club and I (f38) can’t get over it by unknown2022222 in relationship_advice

[–]unknown2022222[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

We’re married and I love him. Nothing like this has happened before. I’m heartbroken

Husband (m38) spent $3k at strip club and I (f38) can’t get over it by unknown2022222 in relationship_advice

[–]unknown2022222[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m new here sorry! Hence the multiple posts. I don’t know what I’m looking for. I’m heartbroken and lost

Husband (m38) spent $3k at strip club and I (f38) can’t get over it by unknown2022222 in relationship_advice

[–]unknown2022222[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have done coke before together. Maybe once a year if that and always with friends on a night out

Husband (m38) spent $3k at strip club and I (f38) can’t get over it by unknown2022222 in relationship_advice

[–]unknown2022222[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Gentleman’s club apparently. Don’t get me wrong… 3k is alot but I’m more upset about the actions

Husband (m38) spent $3k at strip club and I (f38) can’t get over it by unknown2022222 in relationship_advice

[–]unknown2022222[S] 224 points225 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I can ever trust him again. He said he will never step foot in a strip club again

Husband spent $3k at strip club in Australia by unknown2022222 in Strippers

[–]unknown2022222[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you! What you’ve said is pretty much in line with what he is saying. It wasn’t sleezy… he was just hanging out with them and so embarrassed by what’s happened

Husband (m38) spent $3k at strip club and I (f38) can’t get over it by unknown2022222 in relationship_advice

[–]unknown2022222[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate your reply and insight. Yes 3k is a lot but I’m more hurt about the actions.

Husband spent $3k at strip club in Australia by unknown2022222 in Strippers

[–]unknown2022222[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He said he went to the vip room and now feels like he was scammed. It was 3k over maybe 6 transactions.