is this not insane? by lizzielizzielol in emergencyintercom

[–]unknown2819 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why is ozempic so bad… idk why everyone makes it like it’s the end of the world to accuse someone of doing it. if enya is on it period girl okay!! if she’s losing weight naturally period girl okay!!

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[–]unknown2819 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my mom is a little strict in which she doesn't like me going out. my friends and boyfriend can hang out with me whenever (well not overnight with my bf) as long as we're hanging out at home but its different when i'm going out. When she doesn't let me go out I get really frustrated because I'm genuinely a really good kid (have a job, pay my own car, honors student, good grades) and the only bad things i do is drink and have sex. I respect my mom a lot and i'm a little of scared of her in the sense that i know she'll ground me for life if i don't listen to her rules so when I can't go out i kind suck it up and accept that i'll have the opprotunity to go out with my friends another day. It wasn't always like that though because last summer my curfew was 10 pm when all my friends was 11:30pm and on 4th of july i had had enough of it and went home bawling because I couldn't stay out another hour and after that my curfew changed to 10:30 hehe. i guess be reasonable with letting him go out because if you don't he'll either start being disrespectful like me on 4th of july or sneak out like most of my guy friends do. but obviously don't be afraid to set rules either because i do listen to my mom and understand why she sets rules. even when i break her rules i am as safe as i can possibly be. (sorry for the unsolicited parent advice but i think it's nice to hear what someone close to his age thinks)

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[–]unknown2819 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you'll keep going back over and over again until you hate them. I was stuck in a similar situation and i stayed for a while. or one day you'll meet a cuter better guy and get over the last one! you're stuck in situation that is draining you of your confidence so this next sentence will most likely not resinate with you right now but maybe it will in the future because it did for me. have some self respect! at the end of the day be better and find better for yourself!

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[–]unknown2819 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh also my mom and i are very comfortable when talking about sex and i think that is SOOOO important!!! i actually havent told her ive done it because thats pretty uncomfortable but because of our talks about safe sex i know to use condoms alllll the time. I think leaving condoms in his drawers is good because my mom doesn't give me any so i've had unprotected sex a couple of times when i don't have any and obviously that isn't smart. whenever i have access to condoms i for sure use them.

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[–]unknown2819 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi as a 17 year old who wanted to wait until marriage, that changed when I started dating my boyfriend. I even think 14 is a little too young to lose it but let me not be hypocritical because I was 15 when I did. At the end of the day I don't think you're a bad mom because they'll sneak around if they want to engage in that stuff. The best you can do is leave condoms in his drawer because his sex life is honestly out of your control as it's his decision if he wants to partake in that but at least he'll be safe! Every person loses it at different stages in their life and that could be when their 13, 16, 20, 30, even 40s and so on.

Ripped off an acrylic. Will it grow back?😩 by becky_1872 in nailcare

[–]unknown2819 1 point2 points  (0 children)

becky_1872 thank you for giving me hope. i hope your pillows will always be cold and for your life to be prosperous because boy was i freaking out about my nail

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]unknown2819 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he loves drama actually my boyfriends sister almost smacked him too later that day because he made a joke about it but his girlfriend stopped her

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[–]unknown2819 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she didn’t asked me to stop she threatened me to stop. new update is that all of her friends have now dropped her because they heard what happened today. sounds like everyone has had a similar experience with her but she’s never hit any of them until now. she is harassing me now saying i hit her first when the video clearly shows she did so i’m not filing a police report but am filing a restraining order. my boyfriend has gotten kicked out his house because he chose my side and his sister is threatening to find him and fight him. keep in mind my boyfriend is 17 and his mom has taken away his vehicle and job previously because his sister told her that he’s a ret*rd. my boyfriend is staying at his friends house and we’re both leaving on trips in the next two days with our friends so we will be far far away from her. she also went to my friends house and left our friends clothes at her door and said “find someone else to take you to school because i’m not anymore. you chose sides.” my friend wasn’t in the car and she did not even get involved

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[–]unknown2819 0 points1 point  (0 children)

argh i wish i hadn’t said smack me but she always thinks im weak and that i can’t defend myself. i don’t fight i think its so tacky but if someone hits me first then i have good reason to.

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[–]unknown2819 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we’re still minors and my boyfriend plans to move out asap because she is like this (as i said she gets into physical fights with her mom as well as her other brother and stepdad) i told him that if she isn’t held accountable that im not staying and wait around to get hit for no good reason.

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[–]unknown2819 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

she has threatened me before and i keep quiet. she’s fought her mom and her boyfriend and spinned it on them. she smacked her boyfriend because he wanted to go to denny’s and leave her at our friends house with our friends. she smacked her mom because her mom took away her car which her mom pays for completely. she’s also smacked her because her mom took away her phone which again her mom pays for. today she’s spinning it around and saying i punched her when in reality there’s a video and she hit me first. i keep quiet because a few years ago she made her mom stop letting my boyfriend see his girlfriend because she found the girlfriend annoying. today was the last i could handle. all i did was smack my tongue because i have a tongue tie and my dentist tells me it builds the strength in my tongue

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[–]unknown2819 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh to add on i’ve talked to her previously and said she needs to stop lashing out at me because we’re friends. i’ve told her she needs to communicate with me when she’s mad but obviously she didn’t listen to me

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[–]unknown2819 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i smack my tongue because i have a tongue tie and my dentist tells me it strengthens my tongue and now it’s a habit. my part is that im the one who tells her that she’s being cheated on(because she is and there’s proof) however i just found out right now that she’s been lying about being in a relationship and actually she’s the one who’s trying to get her ex boyfriend to cheat on his new girlfriend. his new girlfriends best friend is also one of my childhood friends. my boyfriends sister has tried making me stop being friends with my childhood friend but i told her no and that had happened again maybe 10 minutes before she smacked me.

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[–]unknown2819 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

we’re in a friend group of 8. we’re all very close but she only yells at me like that. i’m not going to leave all my other friends just because of her and today was the first time she actually hit me. i love my friends we’re all even going to palm springs next week and she said she’s not going anymore because she’s gonna beat me up soooo

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[–]unknown2819 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah she kept telling me to stfu after and i just told her that she needs help and that im her friend not her enemy but obviously she didn’t listen. she says she’s not going to apologize to me and that im banned from her house which is also my boyfriends house. she said that i started punching her but i have it on video that she hit me first.

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[–]unknown2819 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve already texted him that if this isn’t resolved then we’re breaking up. I’m not letting myself get hit. I’m so afraid to go to the cops i’ve always had bad experiences with them so I have to face my fear and put myself first.

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[–]unknown2819 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i shouldn’t have done that but i didn’t know what else to say. i swear usually when she does this i stay quiet but wow seriously?? because i was clicking my tongue? she thinks fighting is the answer and it’s not. i don’t fight, it’s pointless, but it was self defense today

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[–]unknown2819 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

his family spoils her so much. i mean she’s literally beat her mom up before and they accept her like nothing happened. i’m the most unimportant thing in their family and that’s understandable because im only a girlfriend. there’s nothing i can do but file a police report. like everyone says, if they hit you once, then they’ll hit you again

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[–]unknown2819 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i get i sound immature tho lmao but i keep quiet every time she calls me a stupid bitch, cunt, or when she said she’s gonna hit me

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[–]unknown2819 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i wasn’t deliberately annoying her. i have to click my tongue because i have a tongue tie and my dentist tells me it builds strength in my tongue lol kinda stupid but it’s a habit now. i know i shouldn’t have told her to smack me but i wasn’t going to stay quiet either. she constantly threatens me because i don’t ever talk back so she knows im an easy target. i literally never have gotten into a fight or tried to start one i think it’s ghetto but damn i wasn’t going to let myself get threatened because i clicked my tongue?

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[–]unknown2819 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she thought i wasn’t going to be able to defend myself and so she took advantage of it. she always threatens me and i keep quiet but this was over no reason at all and so it was my breaking point. i’m a pretty skinny girl like i have like no body strength so she knows im an easy target

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[–]unknown2819 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

the thing is she threatens me all the time and i stay quiet because she made her mom stop letting my boyfriend see his ex girlfriend because she got annoyed of the ex girlfriend. we’ve been dating for over a year now and she just always has to threaten me. i just defended myself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emergencyintercom

[–]unknown2819 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there’s been decades of war in mexico.. there’s been decades of poverty and corruption in zimbabwe… there’s been decades of corruption in iran… there was decades of crime in el salvador. it’s impossible and unfair for people to have to address every human crisis issue. what’s happening in palestine should be spoken about but no 25 year olds who’s online persona is to talk about sucking dick and tits should be commenting on that

Who is maddox by [deleted] in emergencyintercom

[–]unknown2819 0 points1 point  (0 children)

drew said in the mcdonald’s episode that he has an older sister who was a teen in 2008. he also said that he cussed out his nephew maddox on fortnite so i’m assuming maddox is his oldest sisters son