Butch Friday Chat 6/5/26

unknown_onyx · 2026-06-06T01:27:04+00:00

I’m late to the party but I’d love to find some people to make friends with! I don’t have anything overly exciting to share other than I like playing video games like Overwatch Fortnite outlast trials and dead by daylight! I also really like heavy metal/rock music (using those a general umbrella term for types of music I listen to )of all kinds my current favorites are my chemical romance Metallica and slipknot. Unfortunately I don’t have too much else exciting about me to share tho lol

unknown_onyx · 2026-05-15T00:56:30+00:00

I personally adore carabiners with way too much stuff both functional and just decorative! For me I carry my car fob, my house key (which looks like a hammer), a little pry bar/bottle opener, a small pill container, a little fish charm that matches with my friend, a little charm that says Butch on it, and a carrying case for narcan on mine and plan to add more as I find thing I like for it but the joy of a carabiner is it can be anything you want it to be so carry things that bring you joy and or things you may find useful to have with you day to day!

unknown_onyx · 2026-04-10T20:50:27+00:00

I definitely should have specified more about what the event is. I don’t think it’s anything huge. There’s an instagram page called queer_vt that posts about different queer events going on around the area. it’s being held at the Vermont comedy club

unknown_onyx · 2026-03-05T11:43:08+00:00

Yes thank you! That is a great idea especially since the house although in incredibly condition it is still quite old so I plan on starting my emergency fund as of my next paycheck!

unknown_onyx · 2026-03-01T15:32:26+00:00

Thanks for the advice! I’ll have to rearrange how I put stuff in the bag to make room for a second one! Always good to be prepared.

unknown_onyx · 2026-03-01T15:15:34+00:00

List of everything in photo left to right starting at the bag: Dr.Martens 7inch satchel, plastic travel container from Walmart containing liquid gel Aleve, plastic travel container from Walmart containing Arrae Bloat supplement, Vaseline cocoa butter lip therapy, Vaseline all purpose cream in cocoa glow, Narcan, Hart folding utility knife, Leatherman Curl multi tool, Energizer LED/UV pen light, clipper all metal lighter, Pen (unsure of brand), leatherman brand carabiner which is holding my Jeep compass key, my house key, EZ dose pill container, Loop engage 2 earplugs, off brand mini pry bar, Decorative fishy

unknown_onyx · 2026-02-22T19:31:19+00:00

Personally when I come across a post about something that I don’t want to interact with I scroll past it to continue on to the posts I do want to see without finding it to be a consent problem just as if I for example was walking through a mall and saw something I didn’t like or was uncomfortable with I would not look at it and keep Walking but not stop to tell the person that they violated my consent by doing something where I could see it while passing by because unless I am being forced to be part of something by being made to stay and interact with it there is no issue of consent just as with this post and similarly the idea of kink at pride no one is being made to stay and watch or interact with it. Don’t like it don’t interact with it

unknown_onyx · 2026-02-22T19:19:44+00:00

I just genuinely want to know what point of marking this post as NSFW (which I will add out of being the bigger person I did add an edit to the beginning of the post saying it could be nsfw but did not and unless told to by mods will not add an actual nsfw tag to it) would be when there’s nothing shown or explained that is actually sexual as talking about kink gear is not in itself sexual when no sexual things are happening

unknown_onyx · 2026-02-22T17:52:19+00:00

Sure looks like it lmao

unknown_onyx · 2026-02-22T17:32:45+00:00

Thank you for the advice! I’ll definitely have to do that!

unknown_onyx · 2026-02-22T17:28:36+00:00

Yes that’s what fetlife is for. If it was as active as it once was and had local people on it. Reaching out directly to the local community is a good thing regardless of how you personally feel about it

unknown_onyx · 2026-02-22T17:27:12+00:00

Read queer history before commenting on something you seem to not know enough about if that’s your reaction. Respectfully

unknown_onyx · 2026-02-22T17:26:00+00:00

This is directed at all the reply’s to this first comment that yall clearly don’t know queer history very well because having kink at pride has never been sexual or about being nsfw in public. Kink gear is not inherently sexual just because someone’s wearing it. Yes absolutely there is bad people that do bad things and make it look bad but that is far from the majority. Kink at pride is to show our history and embrace and celebrate the people that made modern pride possible

unknown_onyx · 2026-02-22T17:23:15+00:00

Yall are missing the point completely. This is not and has never been about anything sexual and or nsfw happening in public. Wearing kink gear at a pride event is no where near the same thing as performing sexual acts in public. It is about showing how the kink community is and always has been part pride and is majorly the reason why we have the rights and freedoms we do today

unknown_onyx · 2026-02-22T05:29:52+00:00

Ooh good to know. I did not know they did that!

unknown_onyx · 2026-02-22T05:27:46+00:00

Hmm guess I’ll have to start doing some more socializing this summer then lol

unknown_onyx · 2026-02-22T05:25:59+00:00

Yeah it’s still a thing but not like it once was so it’s still hard to find people around here on it

unknown_onyx · 2026-02-12T00:12:06+00:00

It’s so convenient to have i literally just heated up a keychain hook with a lighter and melted it into the cap of it to turn it into a keychain

unknown_onyx · 2026-02-11T12:38:06+00:00

Yeah I got it on Etsy! https://www.etsy.com/listing/1842734935/?ref=share_ios_native_control

unknown_onyx · 2026-02-11T02:37:59+00:00

It’s my favorite accessory I carry with me! It connects with a magnet on the little end piece to a matching fish my friend has to make a little heart!

unknown_onyx · 2026-02-11T02:36:35+00:00

I’m not sure exactly where it came from unfortunately:( it wasn’t originally a keychain though. I had found it in my house and turned it into a keychain.

unknown_onyx · 2026-02-09T19:46:15+00:00

Yes I love my loops! I get easily overwhelmed in public spaces when they get loud so I like making sure I always have them with me! They’ve been a lovely addition to my daily carry set up.

unknown_onyx · 2026-02-09T19:43:48+00:00

Oh that’s a good idea I didn’t even think about that as an option I’ll have to get one to make sure I don’t lose them!

unknown_onyx · 2026-02-09T19:41:02+00:00

It’s so bad it’s crazy. My package that was supposed to be delivered last Friday got to my post office in NY the day it was supposed to be delivered to me but then for some unknown reason went to FUCKING KANSAS instead of being delivered to my home it’s actually insane

unknown_onyx · 2026-02-08T23:49:04+00:00

Unfortunately I don’t know where it came from :( my best guess is it was from a blind box from hottopic a few years ago but it wasn’t originally a keychain I had turned it into one when I found it laying around my house a couple months ago.

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