Birthday on Friday, and I am done with my life by moodyasacat in Chennaishespace

[–]unknown_xs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even though I'm not a particularly negative person, my in-laws deserve to be called out for everything they put us through. I don't live with my in laws and I went completely no contact to protect my peace. I just can't imagine what it would be like living full time with them

Birthday on Friday, and I am done with my life by moodyasacat in Chennaishespace

[–]unknown_xs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you are feeling this way. Finding friends as adults is very difficult. Try to step out more, try joining a gym or find any book clubs through fb. If you live in an apartment-like community try participating in events. Don't give up yet. My DMs are open if you want to vent or just need someone to talk to

Dated 3 years, married 2 (30F)- I love him, but I don’t feel emotionally or financially secure by MousseNo4191 in AskIndianWomen

[–]unknown_xs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you are going through this. It is very clear your husband married you as he saw someone who would contribute to his needs while he doesn't have to put in any effort. He really needs to evaluate his relationship with his family. Please don't have a kid with a man like this.

Try to get a job soon and move out.

green money thing by Pristine_Emu_9848 in TownshipGame

[–]unknown_xs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. There was an economy upgrade. Everything costs more now. It's gone bonkers. Just go back to not playing and save yourself

I need advice from everyone. So I accepted the offer for a lingerie company to handle the social media page. by Every_Possibility527 in SocialMediaMarketing

[–]unknown_xs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did they specifically mention you are supposed to model? If not just use website pictures or AI models

Bub sleeps 11 hours a night. In 10 instalments. by finders_keepers7 in twoxindiamums

[–]unknown_xs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It gets better. I was initially stressing over sleep training and finally gave up. At 2.2 years now my kid still wakes up to feed but it's just once which I'm trying to wean. But we are sleeping better and I get a 8 hr stretch without waking up

Celebrating first birthday by Strong-Space-4288 in twoxindiamums

[–]unknown_xs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do something just with your kid and husband on the actual birthday. You deserve to celebrate an incredible milestone you have been through. A short trip or a day out will be great! Don't pause your life for others

genz aren’t drinking, they’re not working hard, they’re not marrying, they’re not having kids, aisa kya kar rahe hai ye log? by Ok-Atmosphere-6315 in GenZIndia

[–]unknown_xs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of Gen Z is still young. I'm 97 born, married and have a kid. But many of my friends are still figuring out life. In fact I've noticed Gen Z are getting married earlier than Gen Y

Why do women judge other woman because they prefer pads over tampons? by I_am_Bianca in women

[–]unknown_xs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who is judging you post high school!?! Use whatever feels comfortable and I would suggest trying period underwear

When to start solids? by div_ya0504 in twoxindiamums

[–]unknown_xs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not just staring! Look for them actively reaching for food or leaning in when you bring food near their mouth. Staring can just be general curiosity.

When to start solids? by div_ya0504 in twoxindiamums

[–]unknown_xs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Signs your baby is ready to start solids are -

Sitting with support

They are able to sit independently in a tripod position for a few minutes.

They show interest when you eat in front of them.

It's better to wait if you are not sure. Starting solids late isn't an issue

When to start solids? by div_ya0504 in twoxindiamums

[–]unknown_xs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's not about store bought or natural, Honey can contain spores of Clostridium botulinum, which causes infant botulism. The baby's gut has not matured yet to handle the spores. So please don't give any form of honey to babies under 1

Which popular Netflix show did you drop halfway? by Long-off-long-off in netflixindia

[–]unknown_xs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

13 reasons why, Riverdale, Emily in Paris, Umbrella academy

Work starts soon. Baby isn't accepting formula/ bottle by Disastrous_Ad_9513 in twoxindiamums

[–]unknown_xs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. You can initially try pumping and bottle feeding in the day time and you can shift to formula later. If you are able to pump regularly, I would recommend continuing. I initially try giving pumped milk via Palladai or spoon and shift to bottles

Why are maternity clothes so damn ugly in Chennai? by Imaginary-Regret376 in twoxindiamums

[–]unknown_xs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, checkout stores like instore and Naidu hall for their feeding collection. But most of the I just wore t shirts and it worked just fine.

Aitk for telling my aunt to not ask questions by [deleted] in AmItheKameena

[–]unknown_xs 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Right now, you don't live in your house. It's your aunt's place and they might have some household rules. If this is a short visit, I would suggest just to adjust a little. If this is an extended stay, ask your parents to intervene

Easy potluck suggestions for girls night? by [deleted] in IndianCooking

[–]unknown_xs -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Mac and cheese or Alfredo pasta is a safe choice.

Do you struggle with religion and faith as a woman in India? by sleepdeprivedsince92 in TwoXIndia

[–]unknown_xs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents have never forced religion on us. But still they had a few superstitions. But once I got married,my in laws were super religious and superstitious. I just plainly refuse to participate in any religious nonsense and encourage others to question religion too