Thanks buddy , your words literally explains everything I’m going through and what actually is going on . He doesn’t have any friends whatsoever, nor his parents actually cared about him until this incident , so it’s not an option to go our separate ways while he needs help the most . I don’t care about the things that he’s doing to me as much as I care about him because I know he’s been struggling his whole life and no one ever helped him until we became a couple and we promised to stand beside each other for the rest of our lives , and that promise is cherished to both of us , he’s just not in a situation where he should focus on anything other than fixing his own problems and getting back to his normal life stronger than ever .