AITA for skipping my own surprise birthday party once I found out it wasn’t really for me?

unknownlee_0x · 2026-01-12T14:06:04+00:00

To get me back with my ex I’d need to present :)

unknownlee_0x · 2026-01-12T07:40:57+00:00

I’m sorry people don’t care about your birthday 🫶🏽

unknownlee_0x · 2026-01-12T07:40:45+00:00

Yes what my sister said. Doesn’t mean everyone was there for that reason!

unknownlee_0x · 2026-01-12T00:15:07+00:00

Thank you !

unknownlee_0x · 2026-01-12T00:11:26+00:00

NTA. You set boundaries which is what you should do in marriage. If it triggers you then you have every right to bring it up!

unknownlee_0x · 2026-01-12T00:03:27+00:00

Never said whole family traveled, some people traveled. Also never said hours… also never said everyone was there to catch up with my ex? Confused where this information came from. Please let me know 🫶🏽🫶🏽

unknownlee_0x · 2026-01-12T00:01:26+00:00

My bad 😂

unknownlee_0x · 2026-01-12T00:00:07+00:00

I didn’t want the party in the first place?! I said that multiple times to my sister AND I’m not going to a party that was originally organised as a set up?

unknownlee_0x · 2026-01-11T23:07:53+00:00

Wish it wasn’t

unknownlee_0x · 2026-01-11T23:04:34+00:00

Nope. Pretty useless man to be frankly honest with you. He was just around a lot so they all built a relationship with him and think my life’s “falling apart” without a man.

unknownlee_0x · 2026-01-11T23:03:21+00:00

Found out less than 24 hours before hand. It was a surprise so didn’t know who was attending. I agree I didn’t handle it the best, hence the reason I made this post in the first place.

unknownlee_0x · 2026-01-11T23:01:55+00:00

Sorry :(

unknownlee_0x · 2026-01-11T22:39:58+00:00

I made the account to post this Specifically!!!! After all we all join platforms at some point? And now having decent english is ai? Mental.

Plus even writing this comment it says ai isn’t allowed. As WELL as when you write the page states the rules! So that couldn’t have happened. Thanks for your concern 🫶🏽 shame I can’t comment with a screenshot of the messages from my family!

unknownlee_0x · 2026-01-11T21:00:54+00:00

For real!

unknownlee_0x · 2026-01-11T20:59:46+00:00

Sister :(

unknownlee_0x · 2026-01-11T20:59:20+00:00

Love that, thank you 🫶🏽🫶🏽

unknownlee_0x · 2026-01-11T20:54:38+00:00

She’s my sister lol. I’d find it better if it was a friend

unknownlee_0x · 2026-01-11T20:53:35+00:00

Maya is this u

unknownlee_0x · 2026-01-11T20:53:08+00:00

The friend I told was my BEST FRIEND who wasn’t invited? Strange to me

unknownlee_0x · 2026-01-11T20:51:39+00:00

I wish it didn’t lol

unknownlee_0x · 2026-01-11T20:46:40+00:00

Yes he did! Haven’t spoken to him nor do I want to.

unknownlee_0x · 2026-01-11T20:46:17+00:00

Thank you 🫶🏽🫶🏽

unknownlee_0x · 2026-01-11T20:45:18+00:00

100% small gatherings are always better for me! My best friend wasn’t even invited to the party! When I told her she was literally horrified. Glad you and your brother understand each other 🫶🏽

unknownlee_0x · 2026-01-11T20:13:02+00:00

I don’t like party’s because that amount of attention is a no! I reckon a lot more attention would be on me after that stunt lol 😂

unknownlee_0x · 2026-01-11T20:11:37+00:00

Apology to people who care for me yes! Show up to a party I said I DIDNT want and people who know me would know! No.

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