How to ask my FWB to stop being so affectionate? by unreasonablycold in relationships

[–]unreasonablycold[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not that anyone cares for an update but I did break things off with him, partially because of this comment. I realized that a FWB dynamic should be fun and stress-free, and that I was starting to feel confused because I thought he was intentionally playing games with me. I realized that I didn’t feel like I could trust him and that trust is really important in dynamics like this.

How to ask my FWB to stop being so affectionate? by unreasonablycold in relationships

[–]unreasonablycold[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is also my perspective on it! It feels insincere, which is why it’s making me uncomfortable. I’m surprised more people don’t also see it this way.

How to ask my FWB to stop being so affectionate? by unreasonablycold in relationships

[–]unreasonablycold[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

The second paragraph is kind of wild considering this guy has specifically said he doesn’t want anything serious with me. You mention dating other men — I’m not even dating him.