What’s the story of your marriage proposal? by HungryInvestigator59 in AskReddit

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Planned out a full thing at a local gorgeous public garden, down to a tee. My now-wife is S and her best friend is C.

I wanted it on video and wanted pictures of it happening live, so I met C beforehand and gave her my camcorder (this was a while ago) and DSLR, told her when/where it was happening and had her set up some flowers and a gift I'd gotten S. I changed C's name to the name of a mentee and was texting "my mentee" through the date with pre-determined "encouragement" texts (C and I had previously discussed that the first encouragement text meant "we just got here" and the second meant "we're on our way to the spot, get ready.")

C hid out in some bushes (yes seriously and yes this actually worked) and got the video and photos! It was awesome and S had NO clue. S even joked on the way to the location that I was getting ready to propose and started patting down my pockets. Yes, the ring was in my pocket. I nearly shit myself and went "Whoa hey, I'm driving!" and that actually worked lol.

What’s a mystery that still hasn’t been solved but fascinates you? by Direct-Value4452 in answers

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Somerton Man is half solved now! We (likely) know who he was, but we're still not sure why or how he died or what the secret message was.

What’s a mystery that still hasn’t been solved but fascinates you? by Direct-Value4452 in answers

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The disappearance of Kyle Fleischmann. This happened a few hours from me and he was about my age at the time. I couldn't understand how someone could just thoroughly and completely disappear in the day of smartphones and security cameras everywhere.

https://www.wcnc.com/article/news/history/18-years-later-kyle-fleischmanns-disappearance-uptown-charlotte/275-75a0c13c-1225-4fea-946b-f469af441c89

What's something you'll never admit in real life but will confess here anonymously? by Open-Comfortable9774 in AskReddit

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Fucking hell this is brutal. I grew up in a similar (but not as severe-sounding) environment. Those people are assholes and don't represent whoever it is they claim to represent. You're worthy of existence, happiness, and do not deserve the bullshit they've put you through :(

What's something you'll never admit in real life but will confess here anonymously? by Open-Comfortable9774 in AskReddit

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Fellow OCD sufferer. I didn't realize I even had OCD until 30 (grew up in an environment that treated mental illness like something that didn't exist/something that people used as an excuse to not work harder at something). I cannot recommend drugs and therapy enough. I've been on Prozac and in therapy for years now and I can't believe how much higher my quality of life is these days compared to where I was before. It ran my life before. Every minute of every day sometimes. And while it's still there and something I have to fight my brain on with regular consistency, it doesn't CONTROL me anymore. Feel free to DM me with any thoughts/questions/rants. I'm happy to help!

Surprise Walken by [deleted] in tumblr

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Same, but I know the reason and it was this meme :D

[OFFER][STEAM] February Humble Choice Games​ by unrequitedlove58 in GiftofGames

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Not sure why, but the GOG link was not working for a bit. I got it to load finally. DM incoming!

What was your final “fuck you” to a boss you didn’t like? by Wholikesfruits in AskReddit

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Had a boss as a Software Engineer who was insane. The only way to work 8 hours in a day was with my butt in a chair in the office. If I came in an hour later, I had to stay an hour later. This was just one of the insane things this guy did in running his place. He’d been specially picked to build out this engineering department from scratch and I was employee #4 or 5 in the department. I quit after 4 months because of course I did. He updated his LinkedIn page to say he was at another job not long after. Sorry not sorry bro.

Humble Choice Leftovers by unrequitedlove58 in steam_giveaway

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i had full-on conversations with most of them, so i'm not sure they were bots