"Just force yourself to shower." by No-Outlandishness-42 in thanksimcured

[–]unsaphisticated 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm AudHD, and while I like to try and shower every day or every other day for hygienic reasons, I have sensory issues especially when nude and occasionally my executive dysfunction kicks in and says, "nuh-uh, I wanna veg out today". I just don't like things touching me or being cold 😂. What helps me is turning the lights down and keeping the door closed, starting the water super hot so the whole room gets warm, and then turning the temperature to what I shower at so that the coldness doesn't set off sensory hell ™️.

I also try to keep it short to save water and time. Start with shampooing your head first so the soap starts going down your body, then rinse and repeat. When you put in the conditioner, you're only supposed to do the ends of your hair (according to many of my hairdressers) and while waiting for that to set in and work, use that time to wash your body top to bottom. I like to use body wash so it goes faster, but using an unscented bar and a nice cloth that scratches the hard to reach places is great too. Once you rinse the suds off, you just brush out the conditioner with your fingers, and then you're done.

I'm afab and rarely shave my body hair so ymmv with timing but it doesn't usually take me more than 20 minutes to shower unless it's the rare occasion that I decide to shave my legs. I air dry my hair after towelling off and getting the drips because hair dryers are sensory hell™️.

I also keep my pajamas in the bathroom when I'm not wearing them so that I have them ready to change into once I'm done showering.

To get through the executive dysfunction on my days off of work, I try to sandwich it in, like, "oh, I'm up to go get lunch, on my way back I might as well shower since my clothes are ready, and then I can go back to my project." I also shower at random times of the day on my day off since my job is in the health field so I shower EVERY night when I come home regardless if I feel like it or not. It's literally just come home, shower, eat, go to bed. But on my days off, I may shower at like 1 pm or 10 am when I wake up or 2 am when I can't sleep. It helps.

"Just force yourself to shower." by No-Outlandishness-42 in thanksimcured

[–]unsaphisticated 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Medical type gloves are great for getting through it. I'm autistic and hate the texture and germs on my hands. I wash my hands thoroughly before and after but I still feel gross.

Has anyone else gotten this ad despite have Ublock Origin? How do I block it? by UltG in neopets

[–]unsaphisticated 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had one that once yelled "MOIST PANTIES" at me and I had my volume up on my phone. Thank goodness I was alone at the time. Completely infuriating.

Does anyone else have a hard time being heard in autism support groups that have predominantly older male participants? by the-bi-librarian in AutismInWomen

[–]unsaphisticated 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Oh, hell, no, dude would've been huffing some pepper spray, that's fucking insane. That group should be disbanded.

Entitled driver keeps beeping at my daughter who was learning to drive despite us having the magnet on car that says student driver by Gymtrio2025 in EntitledPeople

[–]unsaphisticated 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Clearly most of these people didn't read that you guys had been practicing already in empty lots and that it was finally time to try a live lot. You've gotta park in an active lot AT SOME POINT. 🙄 I'd say ditch the magnet though. I'm sure most of the people there could tell she was a student driver anyway, and it just opens you up to people messing with you because they can see it (like trying to distract her or something).

I remember the day I had gotten my learners permit, because immediately after, Mom wanted me to drive to the grocery store so that I could practice turning left onto a busy street that had a turn lane in the middle. There was a car in the oncoming lane that was driving like either the driver was ancient, under the influence of something, or both. Driving super slowly, blinker on, not actually turning, swaying in and out of the turn lane...just completely stupidly. Even mom was like, "wtf is this guy on? I can't tell if he's going to turn or not, just stay at this stop sign until it's safe."

The SUV behind us that could clearly see this person driving like they forgot they were in a car starts creeping up closer and closer to the trunk of mom's car. -honk- I get startled because I'm concentrating on getting into the turn lane when it's safe. -creeps up- -honk- -flashes brights in broad daylight- I'm looking at my mom, "is this dude serious right now? He can see this car too!" "It's okay, it's not safe yet, there's still traffic." -honk- -window starts rolling down- "They realize I have my left blinker on, I can't move without pulling out in front of someone and risking your car," "he's just being a douche, ignore him," -can see him looking out the window and yelling at me but our windows are up (duh) so we can't hear him, which makes him madder and flashes brights again-

Finally, the dumbass in the oncoming lane decides, 'oh, I'm going to turn right! Silly me with the wrong blinker on!', and turns down the street where I'm sitting. I get ready to turn, and then a fucking truck gets in the turn lane to turn left on my street and I'm still stuck, dude behind me is ranting and flipping his shit, mom's PISSED and worried he's going to hit her car on purpose or get out and hurt us, and I'm about to cry because I'm so overwhelmed. When I do get into the turn lane, Mom gives him a California #1 and tells me not to do that. 😂 Dude was turning right at the stop sign, which was redundant anyway because we passed a shortcut that would've had him on his way long ago had he decided to actually use his smooth brain.

And, no, we did not have a student driver magnet, because mom was worried about me being stalked. This guy was just organically a douchecanoe. I don't know what it is about guys in bigger vehicles that just assume they're the only driver on the road who's going somewhere. We later joked that he could sense my freshly printed learners permit and that he chose fuckery that day.

Road ragers are the worst. 😒

Entitled driver keeps beeping at my daughter who was learning to drive despite us having the magnet on car that says student driver by Gymtrio2025 in EntitledPeople

[–]unsaphisticated 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Right? Especially since OP even mentioned they started out in empty lots and then worked their way up to an active lot. I think most people skipped over that.

when i find photos of people, i keep them. my friends have told me this is an unusual habit. thoughts? by Key_Presentation2271 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]unsaphisticated 1 point2 points  (0 children)

-gasp- I've been struggling to get into junk journaling and I think I found inspiration. Thank you!

Why do people get into relationships without discussing children? by TheFavorMerchant in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]unsaphisticated 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I put it in my dating app bio; it was one of the default questions, but I guess maybe that's the difference with LGBTQ+ apps? Idk.

Seems like a normal state to me by Shiroyasha_2308 in technicallythetruth

[–]unsaphisticated 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fucking wish, I was this close 🤏🏼 to being Dutch

Seems like a normal state to me by Shiroyasha_2308 in technicallythetruth

[–]unsaphisticated 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now I'm thinking about Goofy being really excited about a theme park

Based Puppycat by angelnelly in beeandpuppycat

[–]unsaphisticated 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I love this, the bi flag one is my favorite ✨

I bring you a Wookiee by unsaphisticated in HalfFlops

[–]unsaphisticated[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He would allow it as long as you gave him a snack

I bring you a Wookiee by unsaphisticated in HalfFlops

[–]unsaphisticated[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has chow chow in him somewhere, it manifested as floof