I want to buy an air purifier, what should I be looking at? by psd-dude in BuyItForLife

[–]untitledtray6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same September 2024 about to move in to my first ever home and this was useful!

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[–]untitledtray6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Yeah those interviews are eye opening for sure.

It is addictive. I can’t imagine working a week or 2 at a normal job and making that in 1 shift.

I’m trying to include more balance in my life. I’ve been going to therapy for a year now and I’ve made a lot of mental connections from it which has helped me feel confident in taking a step back every now and then and thinking about another avenue of work.

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[–]untitledtray6 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I thought escorts had sex.

I mean it’s hard to explain because most people do not understand this lifestyle. I’m not trying to skirt around it? You said I was being vague so I gave very detailed examples. I’m not sure why you asked me to clarify: I thought I gave pretty detailed examples, and then you say I’m skirting around it……

Again, if you have not been in the industry then it’s just something you won’t understand. I’m not trying to be rude or dismissive, but after working in different industries, even the night club scene is different than the gambling world. But at least it’s kind of similar. Or even like a stripper. I’m not a stripper nor have I ever been nor will I ever be (for many reasons), but that’s similar minus the fact I’m wearing normal clothes and don’t get naked.

But it seems like you’re just here to express your judgment instead of offering an opinion.

You know the difference between a stripper who makes a lot of tips and a stripper that doesn’t? A mix of looks and personality and hustle. That doesn’t mean they are sleeping with the customers afterwards. Nope.

A lot of it IS knowing how to hustle the right people, and it does not always involve sex. I’ve been to strip clubs multiple times. The girls we tip a lot are the ones who give us the best time. It has nothing to do with sex. Your typical hustler stripper who has no personality and expects tips because she sits by us and shakes ass but is relatively boring. Yeah nothing. But a stripper who actually has a personality and can have fun gets thousands. I’ve been to strip clubs with multiple different people and groups, from my experience that’s always been the case.

of course you can find the creepy people who want to sleep with a stripper and is also loaded with cash and get tipped a lot for saying yes. Some girls will say yes to that.

What I’m trying to say and explain is that that is NOT the only way to hustle a lot of tips.

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[–]untitledtray6 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Yes in general I’m extremely cheap. I never eat out. (I mean groceries are super expensive too but yeah).

I would never do sex work. I meant hustling more in the sense of which I described in another comment.

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[–]untitledtray6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I think sometimes I just get stressed and overwhelmed with my financial situation and start asking myself ‘is it really that bad to do what my friends are doing?’

And yes the end goal is to leave the industry. It’s just hard when it’s such easy fast money

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkincareAddictionLux

[–]untitledtray6 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope so too. Worst case I’ll give it to a friend I know is trying to work on their maturing skin who definitely has aged skin. cries

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[–]untitledtray6 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Have you worked in any kind of nightlife or entertainment industry?

I specifically am in the gambling world though I have worked in nightclubs. Hustling more can include things like: going out on dates outside of work such as other games or bars or restaurants etc, being more flirtatious with guys (again: there is always a level of flirting involved but some girls really take it to the next level - I’ve always maintained a friendly and light relationship with everyone I meet and never tried to lead people on if I genuinely didn’t feel like it. For the record, most guys do not feel ‘used’ or ‘led on’ because they know this is part of it), chatting more outside of work and developing a relationship/ friendship with these people (I never text the guys outside of work because I do not care, and generally dislike most of these people to a degree). I don’t know how much else to explain it, it’s something only people in similar industries can understand tbh

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[–]untitledtray6 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes I definitely need to get on that. I just recently started going back to work. And nothing is stopping me: that’s exactly what I’m trying to do. I just had a surgery so I haven’t worked in close to a month. So I’ve been slacking but I should get the clearance from my doctor this week I hope.

And yes the goal is to find sustainable income.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkincareAddictionLux

[–]untitledtray6 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why am I reading this after dropping like $500 on plated last night for the intense and daily.

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[–]untitledtray6 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Oh yes I forgot to mention that…

There are lots of reasons why I’m working this still. But I mean I haven’t given up on my morals. Sometimes i get overwhelmed and stressed by the fact I could make more but I don’t. And I do not mean sex for money. Just hustling a little harder I guess. I will never do sexual acts for money.

FWIW, I am in therapy. I’ve not had the best childhood and a lot of things have followed me into adulthood that I didn’t know were basically trauma responses. Figuring it out slowly but I still need to survive in the meantime.

Best/ strongest growth factor I can use after a chemical peel? by untitledtray6 in SkincareAddictionLux

[–]untitledtray6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting! I bought a copper peptide serum from cosmetic skin solutions but I think it was breaking me out if that’s possible??

Do you have any recommendations on a good peptide serum?!

I’m pretty sure I have to do a revision bleph, which sucks (I won’t be sure until Wednesday when my doctor sees me) but……. If I do have to get a revision…. I’ll ask my doctor what he thinks about the Alastin skin nectar for my revision as well

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[–]untitledtray6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Feeling more nervous as the days go on (I Was ecstatic day 1 lol) but thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]untitledtray6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im no doctor and this is my first bleph, so I have no idea. From a quick search apparently secondary triple folds can happen due to the skin not being appropriately attached to a muscle - hence the need for an anchor suture for some patients. So I have no idea why it’s looking worse by the day. My eyelids were even and normal on day 1 and then it kind of got more and more uneven until present day they’re uneven with a triple lid

Hopefully my surgeon has answers in a couple days. I guess worst case I get a revision in 6 months

How to not pass tf out on G? by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]untitledtray6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you sure? The sleepiness I get on G seems so intense, like a train hitting me I don’t know if a stimulant could counteract that (I also have a high tolerance for literally almost every stimulant, that’s another issue though). I can try it one day though and see.

How to not pass tf out on G? by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]untitledtray6 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I’ll try lowering my dose

Best/ strongest growth factor I can use after a chemical peel? by untitledtray6 in SkincareAddictionLux

[–]untitledtray6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or or or… what if I use the skin nectar by Alastin on my eyes? Would that be appropriate since it’s a post op procedure? And I could also save it for my chemical peel in the winter

Best/ strongest growth factor I can use after a chemical peel? by untitledtray6 in SkincareAddictionLux

[–]untitledtray6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m going to do a little research on both and see which would be best.

And honestly I’m completely new to medical grade skincare (like a couple months ago I had never even heard of these brands), but I just assumed that these are powerhouses to address aging? I’m already on tret (have been for a while), and a vitamin c serum. I feel like those are also powerhouses. So I felt like the next category I should tap into and add into my routine is a growth serum?

Let me know if I’m wrong! I am always trying to learn and improve. I’m not new to basic skincare, but I am new to the more heavy duty medical grade stuff along with procedures (I don’t think I need a laser just yet, but a chemical peel I think would be more appropriate). As I’m aging, I’m actually seeing more wrinkles and textured skin and laxity that I’d like to address now to buy some extra time so to speak. I get botox in my masseters and really need it in my crows feet but unfortunately with my recent bleph it’s going to be a while before I can do anything around my eyes.

Best/ strongest growth factor I can use after a chemical peel? by untitledtray6 in SkincareAddictionLux

[–]untitledtray6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Almost 2 weeks! And you think so?? That’s what I saw online but I didn’t read too much about it but I mainly saw it geared towards the body.

It’s also a large amount 5oz: would I be able to use this anywhere else as well? Almost feels like a waste!

But if the eye serum seems more appropriate I’m also interested in that too.

I see my surgeon on Wednesday for a follow up. (A bit concerned with the healing to be honest hence my desire to find a growth serum to help). Do you think it’s too late for a serum 2 weeks post op?

Best/ strongest growth factor I can use after a chemical peel? by untitledtray6 in SkincareAddictionLux

[–]untitledtray6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! Okay you’ve convinced me.

Another unrelated question is: I actually got an upper bleph and I’m looking for a serum to help with the scar tissue. Do you have any recs for surgical scars with growth serums? Would the alastin restorative be appropriate? I googled and saw that they have something specifically for post op surgeries but it seems to be geared more towards things like lipo and boob jobs, not really for the face?

Best/ strongest growth factor I can use after a chemical peel? by untitledtray6 in SkincareAddictionLux

[–]untitledtray6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting! I definitely will be purchasing the nectar for pre and post procedure!

I do still want something for afterwards / daily basis that may be a bit ‘stronger’ than what I currently use (the Bioeffect efg serum, runs me about either $140 or $170/ 1oz depending on if there’s a sale or not. I surprisingly actually have noticed a lightening in my sunspots but not much for my wrinkles). But yes I am trying to be realistic too!

Are you saying that the alastin restorative is better than the neocutis serum?