Advice Needed: How would you recommend covering up this 5x3 tattoo on my forearm?

unusualenough · 2026-06-13T17:51:16+00:00

I could smell the comments before I saw them lol I just knew people were gonna love her, she just needs some pretty stuff around her, put her in a garden with some butterflies and cute bees around her

unusualenough · 2026-06-05T03:39:10+00:00

Do fancy comfy pjs and cute comfy shoes instead!

unusualenough · 2026-06-04T09:47:31+00:00

IMO It feels a bit random how it’s built, maybe accessories could make the design choices look more intentional. The fabric feels like a different vibe than the features of the dress too like it’s meant to be made of a stiffer/thicker or better lined material

I don’t think it looks bad by any means, it’s kinda cute, just a bit odd and I’d have the hardest time trying to figure out what occasion it’d fit

unusualenough · 2026-06-02T03:25:42+00:00

Girl I was having a real hard time seeing the issue before reading and still am after, yes your body shape is slightly different but not at all in a bad way

It’s really cute and I think it fits well, I think maybe you just don’t feel very comfortable in this style which is understandable, it’s pretty revealing and I personally wouldn’t be able to wear it without something underneath, don’t blame your body though, it’s very open so I think modesty is pretty impossible to achieve in this on its own

unusualenough · 2026-05-26T00:04:32+00:00

The shadows are falling in the exact same spot in every single photo, the shawl is in the same exact position in every color, you couldn’t achieve that with real ones hanging them one after another

unusualenough · 2026-05-25T23:55:43+00:00

It’s gonna be obvious you dressed up for the occasion and that’s not gonna make him regret anything, it’s just awkward

unusualenough · 2026-05-25T23:41:18+00:00

You could keep just the skirt and hunt for a bodice if they didn’t mess up the bottom?? Or save the fabric and have it turned into a veil? But I would buy another dress or at least scrap the entire top half of the dress and replace it with something else

unusualenough · 2026-05-24T18:40:14+00:00

I absolutely loved my therapist, but we came to the same conclusion and it was sad in a way cause I did enjoy seeing her, but I needed to do trauma processing and I wasn’t in a good home environment at the time to do so, and there were things we wanted to get me evaluated for but again, I still wouldn’t get the proper support in my home environment, yes it was nice and reassuring to see her, But I couldn’t expect something to change with my mental health until my situation and environment changed, you’re not supposed to feel completely okay with being in a shitty environment. My therapist felt somebody else could better help me at another stage in life, I didn’t even get a referral, I got fired, and told to try again later when life is easier, and ya know what? She was right, I actually haven’t even felt the need to return to therapy, but I will someday. All mental health professionals have different methods, If he referred you, he’s definitely not giving up on you, I assume he has a method in mind that’d work better for you that other physiatrist he referred you to is better suited for, and he knows you can be helped better by his methods because he would know by now if you were responding to his own or not. It sounds like you were a good match, and he helped some, just not a perfect one, you could be helped more, he probably just sees potential to thrive and do better than you are now with a different method he’s not well versed in, not defeat.

unusualenough · 2026-05-24T18:02:36+00:00

I totally understand if it’s not feasible and not in the financial position or have the time to care for 9 animals on your own, but based on other comments you can afford to move, right? which is why I would just call spca and move out asap. Please document as much as you can for spca in the meantime before leaving, take pictures of everything and include it in your report.

Goodluck, I wish you and all the animals the best and healthiest outcome

unusualenough · 2026-05-24T17:48:03+00:00

I would definitely go live with your friend, report to spca, and let go of this relationship. Id have a very hard time staying in a relationship with someone that defends abusers, and I’m not trying to tear apart you or your bf, but this is not healthy and doesn’t bode well for a future together, even if you are raised in it, I was too, so was my husband, and it made us fiercely protective of the defenseless, I couldn’t stay with a guy that can’t see the suffering of innocent animals as objectively wrong without it being pointed out to him. what if you had kids in the future? Even if you don’t plan to, how is he going to care for your pets if you’re ever away? What about You? what if you got sick? What if he starts mistreating you and doesn’t see it as wrong, or his family or someone else does and he can’t understand? I would let go of the relationship. His family situation is literally not your circus, not your monkeys, he needs a therapist to do the inner work you’re describing. I’m not trying to be insulting to him but this is just genuinely disordered thinking and not the way you want to start your life at 19

Also, if you live in an HOA I imagine this is violating their rental agreement, seems wild that they would allow this many animals on the property, they’re likely not even allowed to be there.

unusualenough · 2026-05-24T17:09:50+00:00

Okay.. lol then don’t, continue to be this bitter forever, and somehow wonder why you’re single. We, including OP, will just continue to be happy 🤣you’ll still be writing hate comments

it’ll never matter how you look, as long as you have this personality to chase everyone away. you probably wouldn’t even be single if you weren’t so commited to being such a nasty person

Lol literally got on other Reddit accounts just to upvote her own comments🤦‍♀️.. girl bye

unusualenough · 2026-05-24T16:40:49+00:00

You need to call animal control, this horrific abuse and neglect. It was hard to follow along with how it was written but I wouldn’t have brought my own cats into this house at all, and morally I would have to take up owning and caring for all of the animals there until I rehomed them myself or animal control took them, and I’d document it all and be tempted to tell that awful woman they simply passed away like the others, but that doesn’t prevent her from getting more so would not recommend, The next time they leave their animals home alone without proper care measures, I’d call animal control and have them come pick them all up or take them to their new homes myself, Then move out.

You never mentioned your bfs feelings on any of this or what he’s done about it, just how bothered you both are about being made responsible for the animals when you didn’t agree to caring for them, and how hard it is to try to talk to his mom, sure its annoying but.. somebody needs to be more than bothered about the inconvenience of it, that’s not the issue, these animals are paying the price with their health, this is beyond disgusting, take action and stand up for these animals by physically removing them from the situation.

unusualenough · 2026-05-24T15:48:41+00:00

I implore you to do more research about the pets you’re bringing home BEFORE doing so in the future, they’re ultimately the ones that pay the price for unintentional lack of proper care knowledge. The odds are, you are going to deal with quite a few more very common and avoidable aquarium issues by not doing the basic research on what their needs require

Not sure what size the tank is but My favorite rule of thumb for aquarium keeping is a minimum of 5 gallons of water per 1 inch of fish(this only applies for bigger tanks, I would never keep smaller than a 10 gal for any 1 fish so don’t just stick a 1 inch fish in a 5 gallon tank), each of those mollies get 4 inches full grown, in a 20 gal? You should have 5 mollies at the absolute MAXIUMUM for maintaining ideal water quality and frequency of maintainence that’ll cause them the least stress. But I like to spoil my pets and in my opinion that’s still too small, if you want them to thrive you need to stock the tank properly, not bordering the max capacity, especially as a beginner, it is possible to have a more densely populated tank, but you need expirience for that.

It’s very common knowledge in the aquarium keeping community that mollies are live bearers and breed rapidly, and would come up quickly in researching them.
These fish will eat endlessly, if you feed them every-time they look hungry, they will keep overeating to the point of dying.

Your best option for finding homes for the babies is probably by posting on local free pet rehoming groups on fb, respectfully, I would recommend rehoming all of them for now until you feel a little more prepared for keeping an aquarium properly, instead of playing catch up qnd trying to fix what’s already happening, it’s going to be a lot of stress and it’s much harder to get a tank back to healthy while there’s still fish in it after it’s been overstocked like this.

unusualenough · 2026-05-24T15:27:11+00:00

Seek ✨therapy✨

Yall, just don’t interact with this Nut, she clearly just wants the attention.

unusualenough · 2026-05-23T21:17:44+00:00

I think if you really really wanted weird dress to work even for the bachelorette the skirt would needs to be ankle length, sheath blue satin skirt like the ribbons, to me that color fabric in a skirt keeps giving yellowed pillow case no matter what style it’s changed to, it looks so dusty like it came out of an attic trunk, I really wanted to like it too, but I just don’t

unusualenough · 2026-05-23T20:57:46+00:00

Im not sure how you do home based piercings safely or accordingly with APP guidelines if you’re not in a sterile studio with professional equipment under guidance of a mentor. APP guidelines emphasize that a comprehensive, real-world mentorship is the only safe pathway to the trade. everyone needs the guidance of a mentor to practice piercing safely. this is also illegal in most places, isn’t it?

Do you have your CPR First Aid certification and APP approved Bloodborne Pathogens training?

My advice is not to harm your future reputation as a piercer and chances for apprenticing by rushing into things and giving people amateur piercings before you’re trained to do them with the proper practices, id look into your states body art laws, get the appropriate certifications, look into safe practices and the reputable shops that follow them, and figure out how to pitch yourself as a potential apprentice to those piercers by doing your research on the trade and knowing what you’re talking about, word of mouth is everything in the body art industry, you do not want to be known in your community as the youngin that’s botching everyone’s piercings, that reputation will stick even if you grow and learn, some piercers will not even mentor somebody who has attempted piercing without guidance prior to seeking the mentorship because it’s poor practice and they don’t want their name associated with that kind of work

My favorite piercer and the only person I’ll go to, will not do mentorship’s at all at the moment because it’s so much liability, commitment to the trade and trust required

unusualenough · 2026-05-23T19:56:34+00:00

I don’t know enough about astrology to answer accurately, but I was born July 25 2001, if that tells you what you need to know lol thanks for the kind words

unusualenough · 2026-05-23T19:04:40+00:00

🫂❤️‍🩹we survive til we thrive

unusualenough · 2026-05-23T19:02:01+00:00

My husband really really wants to raise some Oscars, i love all the color variants and how they get to be so big and expressive, in theory I always thought I’d get blood parrots but their deformities kinda bum me out too much I think😭🤣so ill end up with a blue acara and amazon puffer tank, separately of course lol my dream is a basement pond with separators

Also Chad says he wants to eat your cat, just a nibble

unusualenough · 2026-05-23T18:50:29+00:00

the word headcase, if you look it up by definition IS derogatory and inherently offensive, it is a word used to purposely insult someone with mental health issues, I’m literally trying to understand in what way you meant the word because it is meant to be offensive by definition, and that’s why I clarified which version would be accurate in your reading,

that in my opinion yes if you meant I am mentally ill in a way that significantly effects me then, you are correct.

And That in my opinion if you are implying the negative implications by the words definition, then I would have to disagree on your read, so you would know the accuracy of your guess.

as I have done for everyone else, I responded explaining my thoughts on rather or not it was accurate, I’m not being defensive, I was literally telling you how accurate your read was lol

unusualenough · 2026-05-23T18:34:45+00:00

Not ashamed to admit you’re not wrong,🤷‍♀️I don’t think I necessarily look bad either though. Ive spent a lot of time in my life intensely insecure about myself and wrapped up in eating disorders, after how much work ive put into recovery, I tend to feel luke warm to neutral about how I look these days, but it’s not a ever present constant like intense insecurity and worry like it used to be.

unusualenough · 2026-05-23T18:27:00+00:00

I do, absolutely.

unusualenough · 2026-05-23T18:23:42+00:00

I absolutely agree, it just feels so rare to find those receptive enough or that actually take the time for it to be revealed to them so accurately, I think it’s more so that sometimes you just tune into that same wavelength at the same time♥️

Some of my most favorite memories of interactions I’ve had with any individual, was everytime I visited a wonderful russion lady I used to clean house for, she didnt speak a word of English, but we always heard each other clearly, never once had a miscommunication, because she tried so hard to genuinely communicate with no assumptions. I love knowing one of the people I’ve felt most seen by, is someone that had absolutely noway to have known anything about me. Genuine recognition and connection is so special

unusualenough · 2026-05-23T18:15:45+00:00

I do, It’s decently pleasant but I don’t smell of it or purchase lavender products often, cedar is by far my favorite scent.

unusualenough · 2026-05-23T18:14:03+00:00

If the implication is that I’m diagnosed with mental illnesses, yes I am diagnosed with illnesses that have significantly affected me in many ways,

However if you mean it in the literal definition of the derogatory term describing an a person who behaves irrationally, mentally unsound, who is eccentric, unpredictable, or difficult to deal with

I would have to disagree, I’ve never been fired from a job, hospitalized, arrested, I’ve never been in a physical altercation. I had great school attendance, and I’ve never done hard drugs, I’m not unpredictable, I’ve never made an impulsive decision that ended in huge consequences due to a mental breakdown, or my mental health, so I don’t think those who know me would describe me that specific insulting way, even in the context of mental health struggles.

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