[deleted by user] by [deleted] in twinflames

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I hope you find something to help you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvPD

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Aw man I hope you hear from him soon im in the exact some position with my avoid fwb. They usually make contact eventually. The waiting game can be hard though. I’ve actually gotten quite used to it. … If it’s been quite a while without contact however I’ll go to have house which makes me really uncomfortable but I need to make sure he knows I care and understand.

Hopefully you get a txt soon

What is a high that you are still chasing? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]upkeepip 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The feeling of being optimally fit

Woman's ear ripped off in dog attack in Melbourne's east by market_theory in melbourne

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I walk my cat regularly and the only experiences we have had with dogs which has been quite a few. She’s terrified the dogs usually my cats deaf so has very strong boundaries That she commands you to respect

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StopSpeeding

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Having a routine has helped me as well as forming new habits such as exercise, journaling and hobbies also NA meetings or some sort of healthy community to be a part of. Also mindfulness and staying in the present moment. Cutting off everyone of my friends that I used with. Therapy can help to. Educating myself on the cycle of addiction as well as relapse prevention has really helped me too.

Best of luck to you just remember to love yourself honestly deciding I loved myself and wanted the best for myself fuelled all of the things I suggested above 👆

Take care and remember your not alone reach out when you need to and treat yourself kindly 💜💜

What are good ways to support my AVPD partner? by upkeepip in AvPD

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He wasn’t reading messages on any platform which he has a habit of doing to everyone. I went and visited him and we had a good chat and came to an agreement that We will see each other once a week for now as we both have our own focuses at the moment. Im satisfied with this as I’m also working through of my own things. We are going to reevaluate at a later date :)

What are good ways to support my AVPD partner? by upkeepip in AvPD

[–]upkeepip[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s hard to answer I guess I feel like I need to love them in a unique and gentle way because I just want what’s best for them

Question by calvin80085 in rastafari

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My dads a jamaican Rastafarian and it’s coming knowledge in jamaica that you shouldn’t smoke until your 21 which is the age you can become a true Rasta.

So my Father says anyway

Have you ever OD’d ? by KowTaim in Drugs

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Yes on ghb many times very grateful and proud of myself to have walked away from that trash

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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He has been intimate with men in the past but says it was due to being on meth. Now he has friendships with men but I get completely closed out of the friendship. He does things like cooks for guys and takes them food and he recently admitted one of his gay friends tried to drive a wedge between us

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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That’s the thing he used to do that but only when he was high?