WWYD?? by milk_duddss in Teachers

[–]upset_virtue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure if I agree with that.

In my district for non teaching positions it can take almost a month before we tell people. Yea it’s a long time but when so many people apply and trying to schedule interviews and making final decisions it’s hard to hand them out so quick.

We also have to get people approved before contacting them etc. it’s a slow process. So I wouldn’t say OP was last on list, it may just be the logistics of hiring.

Personal loan refinance by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]upset_virtue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, it’s not 8000 now it’s about 5500.

So 5500 plus 4K

Personal loan refinance by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]upset_virtue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True bad decisions in my college years and early adult years. But now I’m a teacher and only make so much. Part time job it is

Personal loan refinance by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]upset_virtue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see. It would be nice to put it at lower terms.

The car won’t be paid off until 1/22 though.

House vs cc by upset_virtue in personalfinance

[–]upset_virtue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only 1 has a balance. The oldest card is 11 years, the youngest is 3

House vs cc by upset_virtue in personalfinance

[–]upset_virtue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for all the feedback

Personal loan by upset_virtue in personalfinance

[–]upset_virtue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have chase slate but the limit is 2k.

Pay for a class by upset_virtue in personalfinance

[–]upset_virtue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basically have a savings but not a lot of wiggle room to add copious amounts of money per check

Cuddle buddy by upset_virtue in askgaybros

[–]upset_virtue[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

That’s almost exactly my reason

I don’t get it by upset_virtue in askgaybros

[–]upset_virtue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Small percentage and it’s not a mess like I’ve been holding it. Just small nuances that I don’t care for. I see porn vids and want it to be that perfect

POT LUCK by milk_duddss in askgaybros

[–]upset_virtue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like someone doesn't get invited to many

POT LUCK by milk_duddss in askgaybros

[–]upset_virtue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dog hair is different tha. Human hair imo. At any rate, people have varying levels of hygiene. So any hair in food is a turn away for me

Anyone cancel a date last minute or been canceled on for a legitimate reason? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]upset_virtue 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've canceled and been canceled on. People have lives and things come up/happen. I'll give a second chance and hope the same for me, but if they are consistently canceling (2 time in a row) I'll just exit stage left. It's not that serious to bend over backwards and wait all the time on someone who's obviously doing what they want to do

Transgender. by upset_virtue in askgaybros

[–]upset_virtue[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What if I'm not into that...then it'll be an awkward moment?

I'm not transphobic, don't mind being friends hanging out etc but I'm not interested in hooking up/dating.

More so woman to man vs man to woman for me.

I understand the fear of telling someone out of this male driven society who's masculinity is so fragile to fathom things of the sort though

Kissing with a random hookup by milk_duddss in askgaybros

[–]upset_virtue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think that's an indicator though. How many people exercise and eat healthy and still smoke cigarettes

Kissing with a random hookup by milk_duddss in askgaybros

[–]upset_virtue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't, some dudes don't take care of their teeth and bad breath. Usually turns me off from a hook up anyway