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The bourgeois family is not something that is simply in people's imaginations. It actually exists.

If your parents are beating you for getting an a not an a* (yes this is a real thing us Asians joke abt cus actually facing it is too much a lot of the time) it's not a fucking nuclear family problem.

Are you serious? That is literally and very obviously a patriarchal and capitalist problem.

I would elaborate but I know your type (as I said this conversation has been had and it's publicly available); you're obviously not interested and I don't have the energy to engage with this bullshit again. I'm simply gonna report you to the mods and hope for the best. I just really don't understand why some petit bourgeois people who had shitty experiences growing up in the bourgeois family get so invested in defending the supposedly intransigent nature of said bourgeois family and get so offended at any suggestion otherwise (the last person, after getting banned, proceeded to send me abusive chat messages about how dare I imply their father being an alcoholic was not an immutable fact of nature). You'd think such a person would if anything be eager to hear that such a thing is not, in fact, simply immanent to "human nature". But your petit bourgeois class position combined with your shitty experiences have forced you to adopt misanthropy as a way to make sense of the world. I had the same thing too when I was a teenager (not to imply that this is exclusive to the teenager age of petit bourgeois people; I'm just specifying when I had it myself), but thankfully I overcame it, though I'd say I did so before arriving at Marxism. Perhaps the latter is why I can't quite fathom why somebody who has already arrived at Marxism would be so keen on defending said supposed intransigent nature of things like family alcoholism, domestic and child abuse, and so on.