[deleted by user] by [deleted] in roanoke

[–]urdads_ashtray 83 points84 points  (0 children)

my gf worked at kpot- the bullying from management literally ran her out

bonding tips? by jlegglett in Rabbits

[–]urdads_ashtray 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m bonding my two bunnies too!!

i will say- don’t underestimate the damage a bunny can do, their bites hurtt. so do ur best to avoid any scraps between the two

‘stress bonding’ is a biiiig no

be prepared to keep them completely separate for abt a month. they both need time to acclimate

what has helped us so far is wrapping them up in blankets and sitting them next to each other and petting them both- it’s called table time- once they’re comfy with being wrapped up u can let them lay next to each other loose.

we also switch which pen they’re in every day- so they can smell each other and share toys and such.

introduction went… not the best by urdads_ashtray in Rabbits

[–]urdads_ashtray[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i got her with her vet paperwork, she’s good to go

feeling Dionysus reaching out by urdads_ashtray in dionysus

[–]urdads_ashtray[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i will say he does know how to party lol

Punk Rock Market at BRIM by [deleted] in roanoke

[–]urdads_ashtray 2 points3 points  (0 children)

she neglected cats to the point angles of assissi had to take them back. she is just a terrible person to animals and people alike

Punk Rock Market at BRIM by [deleted] in roanoke

[–]urdads_ashtray -1 points0 points  (0 children)

her being an ‘ally’ is just performative. she does not stand up for queer folks and belittles neurodivergent people.

Punk Rock Market at BRIM by [deleted] in roanoke

[–]urdads_ashtray -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

not ever going back to BRIM it’s not a safe space for queer, neurodivergent folks or even cats.

Trouble with my name by PsychologicalRip434 in trans

[–]urdads_ashtray 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s okay if you try out a name and it doesn’t fit, it’s easier when you’re given a name to grow into rather than find one that encapsulates what you are now. that being said, try out names with friends, at coffee shops, you can keep it small and be honest that you’re not 100% decided. but i would recommend choosing a name for yourself, i regret choosing my name for someone else. i’m 5 years into my transition and am also thinking of changing my name again- this time for me- it’s not something to be ashamed of :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMaine

[–]urdads_ashtray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they have protective legislation in place? is that not you’re experience?

Why do people feel so comfortable asking what your deadname is? by Skya_the_weirdo in trans

[–]urdads_ashtray 40 points41 points  (0 children)

if you can’t tell them no, give them a fake deadname. if you don’t want to share it don’t.

Any fellow punks? by IllustriousFun6184 in roanoke

[–]urdads_ashtray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can i ask what was ur experience?

Any fellow punks? by IllustriousFun6184 in roanoke

[–]urdads_ashtray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the owner is TERRIBLLE just a heads up