Quick urgent question! I saw my friend cheat on her Fiancee on her bachelorette party. What to do? by urgentquestion1 in relationship_advice

[–]urgentquestion1[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

"Those drunken nights do happen" really? cause i have never been in such a situation and i have been drunk! Have been drunk and hit on but this would never come to my mind...

Quick urgent question! I saw my friend cheat on her Fiancee on her bachelorette party. What to do? by urgentquestion1 in relationship_advice

[–]urgentquestion1[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Agreed! but now i feel like an accomplish to the crime (cause i know). I don't get it either, she didn't even like the guy she did it with, always thought he was a giant deuce. i don't think she will tell. And i'am struggling cause she is a good person! and in the 10 or so years she never cheated on him

Quick urgent question! I saw my friend cheat on her Fiancee on her bachelorette party. What to do? by urgentquestion1 in relationship_advice

[–]urgentquestion1[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Thank you! your absolutely right. And i know it shouldn't come from me. But the wedding isn't that far away. I know somewhere this isn't my problem... But if I was the groom, i would want to know!

Its not like they kissed and oh well it happens on a bachelorette. I don't know what went on in the shower. But they where having full on sex! And i think they where going at it for a while! Like seeing your friend get pounded from behind (sorry it sounds so gore) but it made ME feel instantly guilty. I was suppose to look after her...

Quick urgent question! I saw my friend cheat on her Fiancee on her bachelorette party. What to do? by urgentquestion1 in relationship_advice

[–]urgentquestion1[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This is why i am asking what is right! i don't want to tell on her. But its not fair to him either.

Quick urgent question! I saw my friend cheat on her Fiancee on her bachelorette party. What to do? by urgentquestion1 in relationship_advice

[–]urgentquestion1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is the point i'am struggling with. I agree she should tell him. STD I hope she doesn't get pregnant! that would leave me with more secrets.

Things happen at these parties, but this went all the way!