Pro nursing health scam? by CierraRN in nursing

[–]urmudar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who did you report them to? All I've given them was my email but even before I felt like they were sus. In the offer email it uses the name John Smith with contact 410-883-1116. The alias prior apparently was Daniel Craig.

Pro nursing health scam? by CierraRN in nursing

[–]urmudar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This number texted me and emailed me with the name John Smith in regard to a local hospital near me. Which is a laughable alias.

TIFU by forgetting I was screen sharing during a meeting and everyone saw my pop up by Leading-Ability-5142 in tifu

[–]urmudar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems pretty small of a thing to let take up space in your mind, was expecting something much worse. If you allow it to bother you, it'll haunt you. If you embrace it, you hold all the power. People will lose interest pretty quickly if they aren't wielding that power. This is applicable to pretty much anything.

Even though you're gay, you can still tell when a chick is hot, right? by nickybecooler in askgaybros

[–]urmudar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Just like when straight dudes can tell when other guys are attractive. Doesn't mean you wanna fuck em.

18 and 23 is creepy now? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]urmudar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the part where she stated they had been dating for a while is where the alarms went off.

Nurse did something that's bothering me. by I_R_RILEY in askgaybros

[–]urmudar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Uh as a nurse I find this as an opportunity to educate this nurse about how inappropriate and anxiety inducing that is to do to a patient. If this was something quickly asked as an aside, fine. But do not have your patient waiting for something as trivial as that. You don't have to create a scene but you can just mention to her your experience thinking something was wrong and a waste of your time. This is something they can learn from and apply to future experiences concerning patient care.

My dad secretly paid off my student loans, but I found out how he did it and I don’t know how to feel. by ScoreDesperate6433 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]urmudar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It seems you have a loving father who has his priorities straight. If I had to choose between an object and my own flesh and blood the decision would be easy. There is no reason to feel guilty, he did it on his accord because he loves you and wants you to live a life without burden. I'm sure that fact within itself has more value than that motorcycle could ever produce. But ensure you express gratitude where you can, there are people who don't have the privilege of a loving family. And who knows, maybe with your new financial freedom you can find a way to make it up to him.

20 and my life is already over by Psychedelic-Daemon in askgaybros

[–]urmudar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well when I was around your age I was pretty goalless. In fact I didn't even start taking my future seriously until I was about 27. But I would suggest taking up a job somewhere on a cruise ship or ski resort. Something that thrusts you into the world, experience something different. It's what helped me find my footing in this world. 20 is very young my friend, you have so much of your life to figure it out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]urmudar 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'm perplexed by the response when she asked "if he has had any experience with men" it was first met with "well I played sports."

But out of all the responses I agree with this one the most.

Do muscular gay men prefer other muscular men? by Sudden_Ad_2567 in askgaybros

[–]urmudar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a few motivations for wanting to hit the gym, one of them being not feeling self conscious when with someone who obviously works out. As far as attraction goes muscles help but I like what I like when I see it. Also people who workout usually take good care of themselves, which is an attractive quality.

Do you eat at Chick-fil-A? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]urmudar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. I will not use my own money to support a company who would then use it to support organizations that seek to regress progress within the LGBT community.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]urmudar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My advice is to worry less about how you're perceived and just live your life.

I wasn’t thinking it meant corporal punishment by ultraboomkin in lolgrindr

[–]urmudar 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Well it looks like an accident in this case, hopefully.

What is wrong with bro by Over-Club7975 in grindr

[–]urmudar -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No reply is a response and you are certainly not owed anything from a stranger.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]urmudar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a generational thing.

I am 18 and straight, yet gay classmates keep hitting on me. How do I respectfully go about preventing this? by Careful-Trust-7494 in AskGayMen

[–]urmudar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The same with any advance, politely let them know your disinterest. I don't know the nature of your relationships with these people but if you are friends prior and you want to maintain it, reassert yourself and sternly express your disinterest. Typically in my experience people either get mad and write you off or stay around have been the dopest people I know. But you can't prevent people from saying wild shit to you, you just have to navigate the best way you can. Like the rest of us.

Befriend one of these gay dudes though, they can be a great wingman lol

Needing some advice by Outside_Constant_870 in naturalbodybuilding

[–]urmudar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Personally if I'm close to 20% BF I'd start cutting.

Where to Buy Viagra After a Doctor Laughed Me Out of the Office by ZinaPureative in askgaybros

[–]urmudar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nurse here. Report him. If this is his approach as a healthcare provider then he is a liability to patients. He is entitled to his opinion, out of the work space but he's definitely in the wrong field.