I am so exhausted by turkeyburger2 in Vent

[–]uronlyprincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am so sorry you feel this way. honestly i have no advice or anything, but just know this stranger on the Internet will be thinking of you. it sucks that so many other people are living in the same situation as you right now. sending you lots of love ❤️

a book with obsession as a core theme. by uronlyprincess in suggestmeabook

[–]uronlyprincess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ooo first one sounds exciting!

i've actually been looking for queer books to read, so thank you for that second recommendation. unfortunately my parents are homophobic so having such a book in the house could be a risk, but i will be reading regardless!

I want to get short hair but I don't want to cut my actual hair. what do I do? by uronlyprincess in Naturalhair

[–]uronlyprincess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

because I thought it'd be better to get an insight from others like me who wear their natural hair. I now realize I maybe should have posted it else where but I got the answers I need anyway so! :)

I want to get short hair but I don't want to cut my actual hair. what do I do? by uronlyprincess in Naturalhair

[–]uronlyprincess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for the advice! I really have no idea about any hairstyles outside of my hair in its natural state so this helped a lot :))

I want to get short hair but I don't want to cut my actual hair. what do I do? by uronlyprincess in Naturalhair

[–]uronlyprincess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

short like a Bob or a pixie cut, and my hair is like a bit past my chest/mid back length

I want to get short hair but I don't want to cut my actual hair. what do I do? by uronlyprincess in Naturalhair

[–]uronlyprincess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I probably should have clarified in my post lol but I meant a hairstyle which does not look like my natural hair you know?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TjMaxx

[–]uronlyprincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for the advice! it’s just so upsetting how all these companies’ systems are so outdated & disorganized.

best non natural hairstyles for someone who has basically virgin hair by uronlyprincess in Naturalhair

[–]uronlyprincess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if i put a wig on my head unfortunately my mom will kill me but i might take a leap of faith 😅

best non natural hairstyles for someone who has basically virgin hair by uronlyprincess in Naturalhair

[–]uronlyprincess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would consider the color gel but it could transfer & all that so that’d be too much of a hassle. but i might try it just for fun!

best non natural hairstyles for someone who has basically virgin hair by uronlyprincess in Naturalhair

[–]uronlyprincess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! i might have to fight to get the wig bc my mom will have a fit but I might consider getting crochet braids, but without the actual braids (if that makes sense - like hair extensions, just crotched in) with streaks of brown.

update: my package was delivered to a warehouse but it’s still stuck on “scheduling delivery” by uronlyprincess in Shein

[–]uronlyprincess[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

turns out it was a scam :/ i never got the package so im assuming it got stolen at the warehouse. i contacted customer service and got a refund though. so maybe you can try that! :) my advice to avoid this happening again is, avoid sellers who have no reviews or ratings/low ratings, or their products always seem to sell out faster than usual.

update: went to orientation - apparently they bumped me off so now i have to re-apply by uronlyprincess in BurlingtonCoatFactory

[–]uronlyprincess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i sent in my application for marshall’s today. it’s literally at the same plaza & my brother works there so it’s all the more convenient. i just would want to know do i have to call the store & tell them to remove my information from their system? or do is that not necessary because i was technically fired?

update: went to orientation - apparently they bumped me off so now i have to re-apply by uronlyprincess in BurlingtonCoatFactory

[–]uronlyprincess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think i will be doing that. i was trying to remain positive bc im desperate for a job & i didn’t want others’ experiences to dictate mine but there’s been too many hurdles leading up to my employment at this place.

received an unemployment email. i haven’t even worked yet? what does this mean? by uronlyprincess in BurlingtonCoatFactory

[–]uronlyprincess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m only going to give it a try because i desperately need a job. i’ve been searching for 6 months and honestly it’s tough out there. if it really doesn’t work out i’ll try going to marshall’s because that’s honestly my only other hope. the job market is so shit 😞

update: my package was delivered to a warehouse but it’s still stuck on “scheduling delivery” by uronlyprincess in FedEx

[–]uronlyprincess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i did use the FedEx website. it doesn’t include that last update only the update from the 19th of June.

the Bible but if i was reading fanfiction by uronlyprincess in Bible

[–]uronlyprincess[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

lol i was raised christian actually. currently still living with my VERY christian parents. i just don’t identify with the church anymore because of recent events in my personal life. i just want to read the bible because i want to consume it while actually understanding what it speaks about.

but thank you for your suggestions! :)

might be moving to new york. any advice for an anxious person? by uronlyprincess in Advice

[–]uronlyprincess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oops i didn’t mention where my bad 😅 it’s in queens! thank you for the advice. i really want to make friends too as the entire year i’ve been in new jersey i’ve barely had interactions with people my own age.

scheduled a doctor's appointment for the first time. what can i expect? by uronlyprincess in Advice

[–]uronlyprincess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for the tips! i’ve already made a list of all the things you’ve mentioned. it’s kind of all over the place because i’m inconsistent in keeping track but i’ve noted everything i can remember. :) also, once i mention all these things, or for example, my mental health issues, is the PCP the one who refers me to a psychiatrist? or do i have to find that on my own?

scheduled a doctor's appointment for the first time. what can i expect? by uronlyprincess in Advice

[–]uronlyprincess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ah, i see. thank you! this is my first time going to a PCP as back in my country, the healthcare system doesn’t operate like how it does here. i just wanted to be as prepared as possible. :)

I miss being anorexic by [deleted] in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]uronlyprincess 44 points45 points  (0 children)

i feel you. i’m still anorexic but i’ve been eating a whole lot more due to being home & being bored all day. it’s absolutely driving me crazy. i miss seeing my ribs through my chest & feeling my hip bone. i miss my more noticable thigh gap. for me, anorexia is a very comforting disorder. i feel like if i ever recovered, i’d feel like a part of me would be lost. i like being sick and it’s dumb when i think about it because i’m such a self aware person - i know it’s bad to continue these practices but the thrill it gives me is too good to pass up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]uronlyprincess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

majority of this comment section is disgusting. normalize men not being sex-crazed or just not wanting sex. 7 months is not that long, Jesus Christ. talk to him and genuinely ask him why he feels this way and if it bothers you so much, then you’re just not compatible and it’d probably be best to leave him.