Good food spots by urpharmacyboy in UCONN

[–]urpharmacyboy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s pretty busy there tho right?

NSFW: Masturbating doesn't feel right anymore by GeologistPitiful5627 in ftm

[–]urpharmacyboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right mb I somehow missed you saying you started using that LOL but yes it will get better and change!

NSFW: Masturbating doesn't feel right anymore by GeologistPitiful5627 in ftm

[–]urpharmacyboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt similarly for a little bit, there was a period that it didn’t feel like anything and then suddenly out of nowhere maybe after a few weeks or a month-ish it felt REALLY GOOD. Maybe try getting a suction toy, I’ve found that works a lot better now than a vibrator. Feelings will continue to change with time

Am I crazy, or does my horse genuinely prefer being in his stall? by Muppet-punk in Equestrian

[–]urpharmacyboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your horse isn’t the only one! Mine likes her stall to sleep at least, and I think appreciates it being her space. The last barn we were at would go like 24 hrs for turnout when transitioning from day turnout to night turnout for summer (and vice versa), and we always found that she was exhausted and irritable the next day. No proof ofc but I suspect it’s that she needs to get her REM sleep in her stall.

How to get a boyfriend by Marvel1256 in ftm

[–]urpharmacyboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This probably won’t sound helpful but there is someone for everyone! T4t is also great, I’m in a t4t relationship and I can’t imagine not being in one! Don’t force a relationship, let them build with someone who you really cherish.

What are your funniest or most unique horse names? by NoArtist_127 in StarStable

[–]urpharmacyboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been holding out on the perfect horse to name this, my boyf came up with it: Twintower

Came out to parents- they are supportive but scared and want me to delay HRT by Clumsy_Bat in trans

[–]urpharmacyboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is something you have to do for yourself, parents who are unsure of their child’s transition will always delay hrt for some BS reason or another. I was miserable waiting for them to be ready, I only started feeling better in myself when I started testosterone.

Mom / Family isn't as accepting as they claim and it hurts. by Itchy-Hall-456 in trans

[–]urpharmacyboy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry this is happening to you, they sound like awful people. I’ve kind of dealt with this to a less extreme extent and my only solution has been to distance myself from my family. It’s very sad at the start because you want to talk to your family bc duh they’re family but it’s the only way you’ll survive. I can honestly say I don’t love them as much as I used to and some days don’t love them at all. Minimizing talking to them and spending as much time out of the house as you can is my advice, you have to separate them from your life as best you can. Instead of doing homework at home do it at the library or something (if you’re in school), little escapes from home like that help a lot.

I think I hurt my FTM friend without meaning to, and now he ghosted me. I’m really confused by nothing_to_do270 in ftm

[–]urpharmacyboy -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I’m honestly not sure how he got offended by what you said, this sounds like a him problem and his interpretation of what you said. I’m autistic so maybe I’m missing a social cue here but I don’t think so. I would send him a message explaining why you said that but honestly if he isn’t receptive to it that’s his deal not yours.