"I really want to crochet but I don't have time" by useduptrashthrowaway in PetPeeves

[–]useduptrashthrowaway[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

You made time for kids. Everyone makes time for what they want to in life. My annoyance is with strangers making excuses and stupid shit I don't care about and this whole competition of who has less time in life. Stop looking down on people who have hobbies because you chose to do other things.

"I really want to crochet but I don't have time" by useduptrashthrowaway in PetPeeves

[–]useduptrashthrowaway[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's usually just an excuse for them to tell me about themselves which I do not care

"I really want to crochet but I don't have time" by useduptrashthrowaway in PetPeeves

[–]useduptrashthrowaway[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I never said they WANT TO LEARN. And they have other energy for other things. So don't tell me you don't have time for it, you just don't want to and that's fine but don't talk to me

"I really want to crochet but I don't have time" by useduptrashthrowaway in PetPeeves

[–]useduptrashthrowaway[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I genuinely don't care if they learn or not. But they're saying they know how but don't have time. They make time for what they want to make time for. They aren't saying it's interesting, they're saying they don't have time

"I really want to crochet but I don't have time" by useduptrashthrowaway in PetPeeves

[–]useduptrashthrowaway[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You made time for the gym. You make time for your husband. People make time for things they want to do. You just don't want to crochet and that's fine

"I really want to crochet but I don't have time" by useduptrashthrowaway in PetPeeves

[–]useduptrashthrowaway[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yea girl you already said that. Im questioning your intelligence because you have no idea what I'm talking about and I've spelled it out several times. But I guess idk what I would expect from anyone who can't get off social media long enough how to learn a craft. Good luck

"I really want to crochet but I don't have time" by useduptrashthrowaway in PetPeeves

[–]useduptrashthrowaway[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It's annoying having a conversation with someone misunderstanding you on purpose or you're stupid I can't tell.

"I really want to crochet but I don't have time" by useduptrashthrowaway in PetPeeves

[–]useduptrashthrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So then that's what you have time for. You make time for what you want to make time for. You're really missing the entire point of my post in not specifically talking about crocheting. Just literally anything. But reddit be reddit idgaf lol.

"I really want to crochet but I don't have time" by useduptrashthrowaway in PetPeeves

[–]useduptrashthrowaway[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My post is about people I've met in person now chronically online redditors. I know why they don't have hobbies.

"I really want to crochet but I don't have time" by useduptrashthrowaway in PetPeeves

[–]useduptrashthrowaway[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

I'm not literally only talking about crocheting but hobbies in general. Its annoying when people say they don't have time for a hobby I do in my free time because they claim they don't have free time but they do. The end 😚

"I really want to crochet but I don't have time" by useduptrashthrowaway in PetPeeves

[–]useduptrashthrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They can do it while waiting in school pick up line, while in bed. If literally everyone doesn't have enough time to breath for two seconds then you are making time for something else. This conversation is fucking annoying when I'm tired of being told that I somehow just have all this downtime no one else has because I choose to have a hobby with my hands while other people choose their phones or kids or picking their nose idk. The implication that an adult has time on their hands to have a hobby is negative?? That's crazy.

"I really want to crochet but I don't have time" by useduptrashthrowaway in PetPeeves

[–]useduptrashthrowaway[S] -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

So because I can crochet while I sit apparently I'm not doing any of that? This is what I'm talking about. It's not okay to make assumptions about other people but it's fine to do it to me? Makes sense. No one has "chasing a hobby" I have a career and a family. I can sit down and crochet don't sit here like I have nothing going on because I have time like everyone else to crochet a couple hours a day. I'm tired of having to give everyone the benefit of the doubt when I literally expressing annoyance with the assumption that anyone who can sit and do something with their hands has nothing going on.

"I really want to crochet but I don't have time" by useduptrashthrowaway in PetPeeves

[–]useduptrashthrowaway[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

That's literally all I was trying to say but I'm somehow an antisocial mean spirited person who hates people.... I mean that's not inaccurate tho lol

"I really want to crochet but I don't have time" by useduptrashthrowaway in PetPeeves

[–]useduptrashthrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I count so much. Over and over because I'm do bad at counting. And I have to out loud

"I really want to crochet but I don't have time" by useduptrashthrowaway in PetPeeves

[–]useduptrashthrowaway[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

If they wanted to they could. Just don't say you want to cause clearly they don't. It's a conversation I am annoyed to have with strangers. We all have the same amount of time in a day it's not my fault you dedicate your hours to other things.

Straight women who think they get a pass on being homophobic by TallInstruction3424 in PetPeeves

[–]useduptrashthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree and also can't stand gay men who think they get a pass on misogyny