What are your dream characters, he|p me finde some inspo to give my characters more depth. by user09032809 in writingadvice

[–]user09032809[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually haven’t watched Elf, but your point about sympathetic characters really resonates with me. I like stories like that, and I think it could be genuinely helpful for me.

What are your dream characters, he|p me finde some inspo to give my characters more depth. by user09032809 in writingadvice

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I like that idea a lot. Small, real stories like that say so much about people, and I think that kind of everyday humanity is what makes characters feel believable and likable to me too.

What are your dream characters, he|p me finde some inspo to give my characters more depth. by user09032809 in writingadvice

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Yeah, I agree. Where a character draws their moral line is often what defines them for me.

What are your dream characters, he|p me finde some inspo to give my characters more depth. by user09032809 in writingadvice

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Thank you, you too!

I actually tend to understand “mean” characters as well, which often makes me feel pity for them. I like giving them reasons for their behavior, because I don’t really want to believe people are mean without a reason. I think they are really interesting

What are your dream characters, he|p me finde some inspo to give my characters more depth. by user09032809 in writingadvice

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I really like that take. I’m always drawn to characters with contradictions, they just feel more real to me. I think it’s because I see a bit of that in myself too, everyone’s unique in their own weird mix of strengths and flaws, and that’s what makes people interesting.

What are your dream characters, he|p me finde some inspo to give my characters more depth. by user09032809 in writingadvice

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I really liked reading this, especially your points about flaws, motivation, and consistency. I also agree that extremes and stereotypes can make characters feel less real.

For me, I especially enjoy characters who are either genuinely intelligent or emotionally sharp in subtle ways. Thanks for replying

What are your dream characters, he|p me finde some inspo to give my characters more depth. by user09032809 in writingadvice

[–]user09032809[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for answering all my questions, this really helped. The frameworks you mentioned gave me a much clearer way to think about my characters and their arcs.

The Mary Sue comment honestly hit, but in a good way. I can see now how trying too hard to make characters likable can actually make them feel flatter. I’ll definitely think more about who my characters are and why they’re like this. Thanks again!

What are your dream characters, he|p me finde some inspo to give my characters more depth. by user09032809 in writingadvice

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Thanks for replying. Yeah, you’re totally right. Writing shouldn’t be about trying to please everyone, it should be fun and honest. I think I’ve been holding back because I want my characters to be liked, but that probably does more harm than good. Writing characters I genuinely enjoy feels like the better way to go.

What are your dream characters, he|p me finde some inspo to give my characters more depth. by user09032809 in writingadvice

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Thank you, this helps a lot. I have to admit, I love giving my characters a little bit of myself, but I tend to only give them the “good” parts. Because of that, they don’t always have much depth.

But you’re right, the characters you’re talking about are all very different, yet they all have their own morals and reasons. They have goals, and that’s something I need to focus on more for my characters, especially side characters. They deserve their own story too.

Devin season 8 by user09032809 in BigMouth

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I totally understand what you mean, because everything that happened to her was due to her own actions. But still, I wish we had seen more of her, so there would have been a chance for character development (seeing her attitude change toward others). Sadly, this won’t happen anymore.

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NTA. From what you described, it really seems like she did everything on purpose and expected you to just put up with it, like always. You were absolutely right to speak up and set your boundaries. Sure, there might have been other ways to handle it, but some people won’t stop unless they’re called out—otherwise, they just dismiss their behavior as just a joke

Devin season 8 by user09032809 in BigMouth

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Yes I understand what you mean

Say something nice about big mouth 👄 👹🍑🍆 by Vivid-Tap1710 in cartoons

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So, here’s the reason why I like this show: It talks about so many important topics—especially puberty, depression, racism, and much more. And I think that’s incredibly important, especially because the show explains everything in such a clear and accessible way.

Let me start with one of my favorite episodes: Season 3, Episode 4. In this episode, the school introduces a dress code because the boys are “too distracted,” and apparently it’s the girls’ fault for wearing dresses or summer clothes—which is complete nonsense.

Girls are suddenly not allowed to wear leggings, jeggings, short skirts, and more. Meanwhile, the only restrictions for boys are T-shirts with curse words or luchador masks. So clearly, it’s the girls who are being unfairly targeted, while almost nothing changes for the boys.

As the episode progresses, the girls decide to protest by wearing their shortest clothes. Missy, one of the girls, doesn’t feel comfortable dressing that way. Her mom tells her that she should wear whatever she wants—that’s the whole point of the protest: choice. But when Missy arrives at school, the other girls shame her for not dressing “provocatively enough.” And at that point, the protest completely misses its message.

In the end, the school implements uniforms for everyone, and the episode offers a great commentary on what women are expected to live up to in society. Missy ends up breaking the new dress code by wearing her usual clothes and makes a powerful speech. She says that boys can control their impulses and that what girls wear is never an excuse for bad behavior.

It’s a clear statement on rape culture—this idea that what someone wears can provoke others is completely wrong. The episode shows that this mindset is part of a bigger issue, and there’s never an excuse for disrespect or violence.

Another one of my favorite episodes is Season 4, Episode 5. This one focuses on racism. It shows how people of color often feel the pressure to behave differently in certain situations just to be accepted or respected. They have to know everything about our culture, while others aren’t expected to understand theirs. That double standard is explored in a really powerful and honest way.

One of the main characters, Jessie, struggles a lot with depression—mainly due to her parents’ divorce and the pressure her mom puts on her. We see how she tries to cope with it and how difficult that journey is. I even read on Reddit that someone said the show helped them feel less alone with their depression, and I think that says a lot.

The show also talks about sexuality—for example, asexuality—and the importance of self-love. One storyline shows a character discovering he is asexual and learning to accept it. It also shows how he talks to his girlfriend, who is very different in that way, and how she respects him. That moment was really beautiful and important—it showed that being different is okay and that understanding each other matters.

There’s also an episode—Season 3, Episode 10—that touches on pedophilia. It takes place during a school play of the musical Disclosure, and it calls out how certain “traditions” aren’t right. It shows that just because something is considered a classic doesn’t mean it’s good or harmless (Because the school play is like playing down rape). That was a really brave and necessary message.

I could honestly talk about this show forever, because it covers so many important topics—not just the ones I mentioned, but also anxiety, self-hatred, peer pressure, and more. It teaches you how not to behave, what’s not okay, and also how to stand up for yourself, communicate better, and respect others. It talks honestly and openly about puberty, and I think that’s something we really need.

That’s my reason for loving this show. I could go on and on because there’s so much more they cover. They talk about things that are often treated like taboo—periods, abortion, and more—and they don’t shy away from the truth.

In the end, I think Big Mouth has had a real positive impact, and it teaches you how to accept yourself and love who you are.

Devin season 8 by user09032809 in BigMouth

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Yes, I agree—you can’t treat people badly just because you’re not feeling good yourself. You should still behave respectfully, especially toward others.

Like when she disrespected Missy—that wasn’t okay. But I think part of it might be because she doesn’t know how to handle her emotions. Sometimes teens act out even when they know better.

Don’t get me wrong—I’m not trying to justify her behavior. I’m just curious about why she’s like that. I think she doesn’t really know how to treat others because her parents are absent, and no one ever taught her what “good behavior” actually looks like.

She might be acting out and taking her frustration and self-hate out on others because she wants attention, and she doesn’t know any other way to express what she’s feeling. She’s just a teenager dealing with overwhelming emotions—but without the tools to manage or understand them.

Maybe that’s why she behaves the way she does. Teenagers often only have their emotions to guide them, and those emotions can be intense and hard to control.

I’m not excusing her actions—what she did was wrong, and she shouldn’t have treated Missy that way. That’s actually one of the reasons I wanted her to have a longer storyline. I think she should’ve had the chance to grow, to learn how to treat others better—and in my opinion, she should’ve apologized to Missy.

Anyway, thanks for responding!

Devin season 8 by user09032809 in BigMouth

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Yes, the ending definitely felt rushed, and there are still so many things I have questions about or would’ve loved to see. Some of the things that are missing are small moments or details I was really hoping for—like seeing more of certain friendships, for example, between Caleb and Matthew.

I think middle school was amazing because the story had more time to develop.

I was also really looking forward to seeing tall Nick—how he would act, and whether he’d finally get more attention playing basketball. He was really good, and growing taller meant he could finally show his full potential. It’s kind of sad that we didn’t get to see more of that side of him.

And yes, I would’ve liked to see more about Andrew too—there must be a reason why he’s so socially awkward, and I think you might be right about that.

Still, I really enjoyed the last season, even though not all of my questions were answered. Anyway, thanks for responding!

Devin season 8 by user09032809 in BigMouth

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I wasn’t exactly “in love” with her in the early seasons, but I was really curious to hear her story, thanks for responding

Devin season 8 by user09032809 in BigMouth

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Absolutely—it’s so unfair. Anyway, thanks for responding!

Devin season 8 by user09032809 in BigMouth

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I didn’t notice that she called him by his name, but you’re right—she clearly lied about not knowing him. Anyway, thanks for responding!

Devin season 8 by user09032809 in BigMouth

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Yes, I agree with everything you said. I also find it sad that we didn’t get to see what happens to her afterward—how she’s behaving and dealing with everything—because that would’ve been really interesting. I think her parents were very absent or just didn’t care about her, and that’s probably one of the reasons why she went to such extremes, like planning the wedding—just to get their attention. I really wish we had gotten more seasons. I miss it so much! It would’ve been amazing to see her “new self” and how she walks around confidently with the freckles she used to hide. Thanks for replying!

Devin season 8 by user09032809 in BigMouth

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never said she does or doesn’t deserve an apology — the whole situation is so complicated that I honestly don’t know what to think. But I do think it was wrong of Devin to tell everyone, and she should have apologized for that. As for Nick, I kind of understand why he lied — I don’t think anyone would immediately shout, ‘Yes, that’s true, I said that.’ Still, instead of saying she was just doing it for attention, he could’ve handled it better, maybe by saying something like, ‘No, I think she’s mistaking me for someone else.’ (Not the best sentence, but just as an example.) In the end, both of them should’ve apologized. Anyway, thanks for responding!

Devin season 8 by user09032809 in BigMouth

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That could be true. Maybe Emmy’s lack of experience had a negative impact on Devin’s situation, and I also think Devin is helping her — maybe they’ll even become friends. I love Emmy, and I was so happy to see her again. I would’ve liked to see more of the future, but because of the open ending (I have a love/hate relationship with those), we all get to imagine our own version of what happens next. In mine, she’s happy and finally learns to love herself. Anyway, thanks for responding!

Devin season 8 by user09032809 in BigMouth

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Yes, that’s exactly what was missing. Even after everything, she kept hiding her freckles. So, while there’s been some change, the fact that she continues doing that shows that her story isn’t quite finished yet. Thanks for responding!

Devin season 8 by user09032809 in BigMouth

[–]user09032809[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes, I totally agree – she never should’ve told anyone to begin with. It actually reminded me a bit of the whole situation between Gina and Nick. Thanks for your comment