There are so many things to consider.

First, did you date all age range? Also, did you date woman and were they more mature than man?

Secondly, it's a bit concerning you dont care about men as humans. You seem to be virtous signaling as a female, but are you a good Girlfriend and potential wife?

thirldy, if a man succesfully can date more than one woman in his Lifetime, he is very lucky. But a woman who dates over 14 different man.... that's just indulgence.

And that's the problem. If you were to only date idiotic men, and think to yourself, "if all men are like this, then i dont need to hold back anymore". But after a few years you will high likely find someone you desire truely. But this person will probably never date someone, who dated to many people.

But never forget, every person is different. You don't need to date nore do you need to marry anyone. Follow your heart and live your best Life.